The Openlove101 Show

John & Jackie Melfi
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The Openlove101 Show

This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we’re here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the lifestyle.

  1. 4 DAYS AGO

    Swinging Lifestyle: Fear of Being Honest

    In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss the most common fear they hear from other's in the lifestyle.   The Fear of Being Honest   Tune into learn how to handle these situations with grace and maintain respectful, loving communication.

    10 min

  2. NOV 12

    Building Up to the Moment: Navigating Playtime with Ease

    In today’s episode, we're diving into a question from one of our Openlove101+ members: "How do you smoothly transition to playtime with another couple at a club?" This is a scenario many couples face, and we’re here to offer some practical advice and share our personal experiences.  Whether it's your first time or you're a seasoned pro, we’ll discuss the nuances of creating organic opportunities for connection, managing expectations, and ensuring clear communication with your partner.  Tune in to learn how to navigate these exciting moments and enhance your lifestyle experience.

    8 min

  3. NOV 5

    How Different Cultures Embrace the Swinging Lifestyle

    In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss how the Swinging Lifestyle is different in different cultures!   They discuss the difference and similarities they have experienced first hand on their travels living in the lifestyle.   Tune into learn how to handle these situations with grace and maintain respectful, loving communication.

    8 min

  4. OCT 29

    Managing Boundaries in Open Relationships: Communicating and Respecting Limits

    In this episode, John and Jackie are tackling some tough questions from their viewers about navigating boundaries in open relationships.  "What do you do when your partner is interested in playing with another couple, but you're not?"  And how do you handle shifting boundaries when one partner isn't comfortable with the change?  John and Jackie share their personal experiences, practical advice, and the importance of communication and respect in maintaining a healthy relationship. Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or a seasoned participant, this episode offers valuable insights into handling these common dilemmas.

    10 min

  5. OCT 22

    Swingers Lifestyle And The Subject Of Consent

    In this throwback episode, John and Jackie discuss how the topic of "consent" has changed over the years.   They discuss the importance of both nonverbal and verbal consent, respecting someone's answer if they consent or not, and how everyone should respect consent in any situation.   Tune into learn how to handle these situations with grace and maintain respectful, loving communication.

    9 min

  6. OCT 15

    Keeping It Spicy: How New Experiences Can Revitalize Your Relationship

    In this episode, John and Jackie dive into the exciting world of keeping relationships spicy and vibrant. They explore how introducing new experiences, whether it's through food, activities, or even new people, can bring a fresh spark to long-term relationships. They discuss the importance of novelty in maintaining intimacy and connection, sharing personal anecdotes and practical tips on how to keep things interesting. From trying new restaurants to playing relationship-enhancing games, this episode is packed with ideas to help you and your partner stay connected and energized.

    8 min

  7. OCT 8

    Swinging Advice For Non-Swingers

    Join John and Jackie as they discuss how the relationship advice they give for non-monogamy helps their monogamous friends in their relationship!   Whether you're new to the lifestyle or a seasoned participant, this episode is packed with enlightening information and plenty of laughs.   Tune in and expand your swinger vocabulary with us!

    10 min

  8. OCT 1

    Discover Swinger Terms You Won't Believe!

    Join John and Jackie as they dive into the fascinating world of swinger terminology.  Ever wondered what terms like "unicorn," "soft swap," or "airtight" mean? Join us as we play a fun game hosted by Courtney, where we define and discuss various terms used in the lifestyle. We share our reactions, insights, and some hilarious moments along the way. Whether you're new to the lifestyle or a seasoned participant, this episode is packed with enlightening information and plenty of laughs.  Tune in and expand your swinger vocabulary with us!

    18 min
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About

This is your show to discuss open relationships, the swinger lifestyle, consensual non-monogamy - however you describe it, we’re here to talk about it. Your podcast is hosted by John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, they are here to share with you the trials, tribulations, passion, and positivity of love and the lifestyle.

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  • Creator
    John & Jackie Melfi
  • Years Active
    2019 - 2024
  • Episodes
    100
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Show Website
    The Openlove101 Show

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