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Jake Anthony and Matt Marr are two Southern Queens who absolutely love TLC's 90 Day Fiancé. If you've been looking for your gay BFFs to dish this show...well you're welcome. Matt is a clinical psychologist, while Jake is a life-coach and teacher. And they both are shady queens who are boggled at the insane ways some of these people search for love in this world. What's going on up there, y'all?

The only thing more certain than a K-1 Visa, is the fact that Jake and Matt will keep you laughing at these lovebirds while also judging their choices. #BlessTheirHearts But none of it is mean, because Jake and Matt get it. At the end of the day, aren't we all just looking for our little piece of love? Follow the gays: Jake @jakeitorfakeit & Matt @theMattMarr

And listen to all their other shows, like Sweet T: A Southern Charm Podcast and Bitchcraft: The Unauthorized Sabrina Podcast--all at their podcast network, www.sissythattalk.com. 

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Jake Anthony and Matt Marr are two Southern Queens who absolutely love TLC's 90 Day Fiancé. If you've been looking for your gay BFFs to dish this show...well you're welcome. Matt is a clinical psychologist, while Jake is a life-coach and teacher. And they both are shady queens who are boggled at the insane ways some of these people search for love in this world. What's going on up there, y'all?

The only thing more certain than a K-1 Visa, is the fact that Jake and Matt will keep you laughing at these lovebirds while also judging their choices. #BlessTheirHearts But none of it is mean, because Jake and Matt get it. At the end of the day, aren't we all just looking for our little piece of love? Follow the gays: Jake @jakeitorfakeit & Matt @theMattMarr

And listen to all their other shows, like Sweet T: A Southern Charm Podcast and Bitchcraft: The Unauthorized Sabrina Podcast--all at their podcast network, www.sissythattalk.com. 

    LABOR OF LOVE on Fox: a 90 Day Gays Presentation - Ep

    LABOR OF LOVE on Fox: a 90 Day Gays Presentation - Ep

    Oh we are recapping Fox's new Bachelor type show--Labor of Love, hosted by Sex in the City's own Charlotte- Kristin Davis. In this dating reality show with a twist, Kristy Katzman is a is ready who is ready to start a family, but has yet to meet the potential father of her children, decides amongst aspiring fathers-to-be who go through challenges that put their parenting and partnership skills to the test. Each week, the mother-to-be, with the help of host Kristin Davis as her sounding board, decides who advances to the next week and gets another chance to prove themselves worthy of starting a family with her. Otherwise, she may choose to continue on the path to motherhood on her own.


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    We recap the WHOLE 90 DAY FIANCÉ UNIVERSE. So come drink the kool-aid, kids. Find all our podcasts on our podcast network, SISSY THAT TALK.
    Y'ALL--COME AT US ON CAMEO! Book Jake or Matt! We will read you, sing to you, or tell you if your BF has BDF.
    Get a mug, shirt, pillow at our MERCH STORE!
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    Find Mattie! Instagram: @theMattMarr Twitter: @theMattMarr 
    Find Jake! Twitter: @jakeitorfakeit Instagram: @jakeitorfakeit  
    Listen to our Sabrina podcast, called Bitchcraft. Netflix has us living for this show! Bitchcraft: The Sabrina Recap Show
    Listen to our recap show of Riverdale…yes it’s RIVERMALES!
    Listen to Mattie’s other ADVICE podcast, THE DEAR MATTIE SHOW!
     
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    • 56 min
    90 DAY FIANCÉ- What Now? 0405 "The Life I Want" and Self-Quarantined 0105 "Making Sacrifices"

    90 DAY FIANCÉ- What Now? 0405 "The Life I Want" and Self-Quarantined 0105 "Making Sacrifices"

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    We will be doing NEW GAYtreon tiers starting June 1st! Here's the new structure:


    $5 tier-Lonely Heart
           Vintage 90dF podcast each week - “It’s new to US!”
           90 Day Gays Presentations (limited series we binge--Love Is Blind, Tiger King, etc)
           Discount code for merch (10%)
           Presale for live shows/events    


    $8 tier- NO name yet??
            the vintage ep 
            Bicurious ep (monthly, will go up to bi-monthly when we hit a threshold)
            Discount code for merch (15%)
            Presale for live shows/events   


    $15 tier - Come At Us!
             Vintage ep (weekly)
             Bicurious (monthly)
             Sissy Spotlight (raffle for a 1-minute phone call on a 90day topic, or a topic of      
                 your choosing. You will call into our Google voice number)
             Discount code for merch (20%)          
             Watch-a-long (weekly)
           Youtube (monthly)
             Presale for live shows/events




    In this episode, we are recapping 90 Day Fiancé- What Now? and 90 Day Fiancé Self-Quarantined.
    In What Now, Anny has life-changing news to share with Robert; Rachel & Jon reunite after 7 months apart; Corey & Evelin make a decision about their relationship; Annie is unsure about David's upcoming medical procedure; Tiffany & Ronald worry about their future.


    In Self Quarantined, Laura tries to get on the last flight out of Ecuador; Dean gives an update on his relationship with Tarik; Omar talks with Avery's dad, who's in prison; Anna gives at-home haircuts to her family members; Daya works, and Brett is a stay-at-home dad.


    We recap the WHOLE 90 DAY FIANCÉ UNIVERSE. So come drink the kool-aid, kids. Find all our podcasts on our podcast network, SISSY THAT TALK.
    Y'ALL--COME AT US ON CAMEO! Book Jake or Matt! We will read you, sing to you, or tell you if your BF has BDF.
    Get a mug, shirt, pillow at our MERCH STORE!
    Wanna talk with your Sissy Squad? Join our PRIVATE FACEBOOK GROUP
    Find us on the Socials:
    90DayGays onTwitter & 90DayGays on Instagram & like our Facebook Page


    Find Mattie! Instagram: @theMattMarr Twitter: @theMattMarr 
    Find Jake! Twitter: @jakeitorfakeit Instagram: @jakeitorfakeit  
    Listen to our Sabrina podcast, called Bitchcraft. Netflix has us living for this show! Bitchcraft: The Sabrina Recap Show
    Listen to our recap show of Riverdale…yes it’s RIVERMALES!
    Listen to Mattie’s other ADVICE podcast, THE DEAR MATTIE SHOW!
     
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    • 1 hr 17 min
    90 DAY FIANCÉ- Before the 90 Days "The Pleasure Principle" 0413

    90 DAY FIANCÉ- Before the 90 Days "The Pleasure Principle" 0413

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    TO LEAVE A REVIEW ON ITUNES FOR 90DAY GAYS CLICK HERE!!!!!


    We will be doing NEW GAYtreon tiers starting June 1st! Here's the new structure:


    $5 tier-Lonely Heart
           Vintage 90dF podcast each week - “It’s new to US!”
           90 Day Gays Presentations (limited series we binge--Love Is Blind, Tiger King, etc)
           Discount code for merch (10%)
           Presale for live shows/events    


    $8 tier- NO name yet??
            the vintage ep 
            Bicurious ep (monthly, will go up to bi-monthly when we hit a threshold)
            Discount code for merch (15%)
            Presale for live shows/events   


    $15 tier - Come At Us!
             Vintage ep (weekly)
             Bicurious (monthly)
             Sissy Spotlight (raffle for a 1-minute phone call on a 90day topic, or a topic of      
                 your choosing. You will call into our Google voice number)
             Discount code for merch (20%)          
             Watch-a-long (weekly)
            Youtube (monthly)
             Presale for live shows/events


    In this episode, we are recapping 90 Day Fiancé-Before the 90 Days Season 4 Episode 13. In this, Geoffrey settles back home; Lisa confronts Usman; Ed leaves the Philippines; Avery & Ash spend time with his son; Darcey rethinks her priorities; Stephanie & Erika say goodbye; Yolanda wants answers from Williams; David continues his quest for Lana.


    We recap the WHOLE 90 DAY FIANCÉ UNIVERSE. So come drink the kool-aid, kids. Find all our podcasts on our podcast network, SISSY THAT TALK.
    Y'ALL--COME AT US ON CAMEO! Book Jake or Matt! We will read you, sing to you, or tell you if your BF has BDF.
    Get a mug, shirt, pillow at our MERCH STORE!
    Wanna talk with your Sissy Squad? Join our PRIVATE FACEBOOK GROUP
    Find us on the Socials:
    90DayGays onTwitter & 90DayGays on Instagram & like our Facebook Page


    Find Mattie! Instagram: @theMattMarr Twitter: @theMattMarr 
    Find Jake! Twitter: @jakeitorfakeit Instagram: @jakeitorfakeit  
    Listen to our Sabrina podcast, called Bitchcraft. Netflix has us living for this show! Bitchcraft: The Sabrina Recap Show
    Listen to our recap show of Riverdale…yes it’s RIVERMALES!
    Listen to Mattie’s other ADVICE podcast, THE DEAR MATTIE SHOW!
     
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    • 1 hr 27 min
    90 DAY FIANCÉ-What Now? 0404 "Relationship Roadblocks" and Self-Quarantine 0104 "It's All Relative"

    90 DAY FIANCÉ-What Now? 0404 "Relationship Roadblocks" and Self-Quarantine 0104 "It's All Relative"

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    In this episode we recap 90 Day Fiance What Now? Season 4 episode 4 "Relationship Roadblocks" In it, Jesse's new relationship hits a roadblock; Tiffany and Ronald disagree on where to raise the kids; Evelin meets with Raul behind Corey's back; Laura risks losing everything unless she stands up to Aladin. And in 90 Day Fiancé Self-Quarantined, Russ struggles with his grandmother's death. Karen and Thomas have a full house. Michael and Juliana quarantine with his ex-wife and her new husband. Ben and Akiny's wedding is on hold, while Patrick reaches out to Myriam in Paris.


    WANT EXTRA CONTENT-Subscribe to our GAYtreon! For a Bonus Episode or for our Watch-A-Long Video!
    TO LEAVE A REVIEW ON ITUNES FOR 90DAY GAYS CLICK HERE!!!!!


    We recap the WHOLE 90 DAY FIANCÉ UNIVERSE. So come drink the kool-aid, kids. Find all our podcasts on our podcast network, SISSY THAT TALK.
    Y'ALL--COME AT US ON CAMEO! Book Jake or Matt! We will read you, sing to you, or tell you if your BF has BDF.
    Get a mug, shirt, pillow at our MERCH STORE!
    Wanna talk with your Sissy Squad? Join our PRIVATE FACEBOOK GROUP
    Find us on the Socials:
    90DayGays onTwitter & 90DayGays on Instagram & like our Facebook Page


    Find Mattie! Instagram: @theMattMarr Twitter: @theMattMarr 
    Find Jake! Twitter: @jakeitorfakeit Instagram: @jakeitorfakeit  
    Listen to our Sabrina podcast, called Bitchcraft. Netflix has us living for this show! Bitchcraft: The Sabrina Recap Show
    Listen to our recap show of Riverdale…yes it’s RIVERMALES!
    Listen to Mattie’s other ADVICE podcast, THE DEAR MATTIE SHOW!
     
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    • 1 hr 29 min
    90 DAY FIANCÉ-Before the 90 Days 0412 "King of Wishful Thinking"

    90 DAY FIANCÉ-Before the 90 Days 0412 "King of Wishful Thinking"

    In this episode we are recapping 90 Day Fiancé Before the 90 Days Season 4 Episode 12 "King of Wishful Thinking".
    Avery spends some time with Ash's ex; Ed & Rose discuss their relationship; Erika opens up to Stephanie about her past; David listens to his heart, and Geoffrey & Varya look to the future.


    You asked. We caved. WANT EXTRA CONTENT-Subscribe to our Patreon! For a Bonus Episode or for our Watch-A-Long Video!
    TO LEAVE A REVIEW ON ITUNES FOR 90DAY GAYS CLICK HERE!!!!!


    We recap the WHOLE 90 DAY FIANCÉ UNIVERSE. So come drink the kool-aid, kids. Find all our podcasts on our podcast network, SISSY THAT TALK.
    Y'ALL--COME AT US ON CAMEO! Book Jake or Matt! We will read you, sing to you, or tell you if your BF has BDF.
    Get a mug, shirt, pillow at our MERCH STORE!
    Wanna talk with your Sissy Squad? Join our PRIVATE FACEBOOK GROUP
    Find us on the Socials:
    90DayGays onTwitter & 90DayGays on Instagram & like our Facebook Page


    Find Mattie! Instagram: @theMattMarr Twitter: @theMattMarr 
    Find Jake! Twitter: @jakeitorfakeit Instagram: @jakeitorfakeit  
    Listen to our Sabrina podcast, called Bitchcraft. Netflix has us living for this show! Bitchcraft: The Sabrina Recap Show
    Listen to our recap show of Riverdale…yes it’s RIVERMALES!
    Listen to Mattie’s other ADVICE podcast, THE DEAR MATTIE SHOW!
     
    See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

    • 1 hr 39 min
    90 DAY FIANCÉ-What Now? 0403 "Prepare for Landing" and Self-Quarantine Ep 3 "Life on Pause"

    90 DAY FIANCÉ-What Now? 0403 "Prepare for Landing" and Self-Quarantine Ep 3 "Life on Pause"

    Oh the Silva twins are a GIFT!!!!
    in this recap we are discussing TLC's 90 DAY FIANCÉ What Now? Season 4 Episode 3 "Prepare for Landing" and Self-Quarantine Episode 3 "Life on Pause". In What Now?Jesse goes on his first blind date; Avery is nervous to meet Omar's family; Tiffany, Daniel and Carley head to South Africa to reunite with Ronald; Corey issues Evelin an ultimatum about their wedding; Laura and Aladin face off over their breakup. And in Self-Quarantined, Darcey Silva and Stacey Silva take us on a Mr. Toad's while ride while Caesar secures that we NEVER want to look at anyone's feet...again.


    Wanna catch up on 90 Day: The Other Way ? Well we are jumping into TOW NEXT WEEK on our Gaytreon. Come at us. WANT EXTRA CONTENT-Subscribe to our Patreon! For a Bonus Episode or for our Watch-A-Long Video!
    TO LEAVE A REVIEW ON ITUNES FOR 90DAY GAYS CLICK HERE!!!!!


    We recap the WHOLE 90 DAY FIANCÉ UNIVERSE. So come drink the kool-aid, kids. Find all our podcasts on our podcast network, SISSY THAT TALK.
    Y'ALL--COME AT US ON CAMEO! Book Jake or Matt! We will read you, sing to you, or tell you if your BF has BDF.
    Get a mug, shirt, pillow at our MERCH STORE!
    Wanna talk with your Sissy Squad? Join our PRIVATE FACEBOOK GROUP
    Find us on the Socials:
    90DayGays onTwitter & 90DayGays on Instagram & like our Facebook Page


    Find Mattie! Instagram: @theMattMarr Twitter: @theMattMarr 
    Find Jake! Twitter: @jakeitorfakeit Instagram: @jakeitorfakeit  
    Listen to our Sabrina podcast, called Bitchcraft. Netflix has us living for this show! Bitchcraft: The Sabrina Recap Show
    Listen to our recap show of Riverdale…yes it’s RIVERMALES!
    Listen to Mattie’s other ADVICE podcast, THE DEAR MATTIE SHOW!
     
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    • 1 hr 22 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
1.9K Ratings

1.9K Ratings

KadyGrez85 ,

Yas, queens!

Yes! Yes! Yes! Y-E-S, Yes! I’ve recently discovered 90 Day Gays and the only thing I hate about it is that I didn’t know about it sooner! Matty and Poodle absolutely kill me! They occasionally mention how they’ll scream like a girl during the most shocking parts of the 90 Day episodes and l do the same listening to their recaps.

Some of my favorite parts of this podcast are: the theme song, the chandelier scream, Baby Girl Lisa’s voice, the talk about Mother Poodle, randomly breaking out into song, 90 Day Theatre, and when Poodle gets frustrated at Matty because he messed up a joke or got the melody to a song wrong and the banter between them that ensues. I just listened to the episode where they tried to do a 90 Day Theatre when David finds out whose behind the door and goes Lana? and hearing Poodle get so aggravated and then just end it because Matty missed the joke 😂💀. Pure hysterics and entertainment.

During these quarantine times, my husband and my new favorite thing to do is to get drunk on the couch and listen to 90 Day Gays episodes on a Bluetooth speaker and just have a great time laughing together. I’m so happy they’re now covering What Now? and Quarantine episodes, too. I’ll definitely be becoming Gaytreon follower soon!

More seriously though, this podcast is a great combination of witty banter, intelligent analysis and humor. Keep going queens! 💜

egg0mymegg0 ,

Helping this mama stay sane 🙌🏼

I am SO thankful I stumbled onto 90 Day Gays last month. I have two young children and it can get lonely without other adults around to carry a meaningful conversation with during the day (especially during this dang quarantine). But I discovered a brilliant mom hack: AirPods with 90 Day Gays in my ear to make me laugh while my toddler dumps her Cheerios on the floor or my five year old tells me the same joke he did two minutes ago. Their chemistry is magical and you can tell they put a lot of heart and soul into each episode. Keep going queens!

MLehto1 ,

If you can cream it....

90 Day Gays has been the soundtrack of my life since I started listening a couple of months ago. Poodle and Mattie are frikin’ hilarious just being themselves and I am so loving them for it! When I think of what a dumpster fire of a year 2020 has been- I’ll always have these two to thank for getting me through the toughest days with a big fat smile on my face!
❤️❤️❤️Keep going Queens❤️❤️❤️

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