39 episodes

This podcast chronicles the tales of Myrina and Tristan, a longtime married couple who accidentally stumbled into the swinger lifestyle. They discuss and navigate the topics of consensual non-monogamy, open relationships, sex-positivity, kink, alternative love and lifestyles. Listen to their adventures, learn their lessons, laugh at their misadventures, and enjoy their amazing journey.

The Accidental Swingers Podcast Myrina and Tristan

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.6 • 157 Ratings

This podcast chronicles the tales of Myrina and Tristan, a longtime married couple who accidentally stumbled into the swinger lifestyle. They discuss and navigate the topics of consensual non-monogamy, open relationships, sex-positivity, kink, alternative love and lifestyles. Listen to their adventures, learn their lessons, laugh at their misadventures, and enjoy their amazing journey.

    Ep 39: Louisville Slugger, Vanilla Strikeouts and Bad Timing

    Ep 39: Louisville Slugger, Vanilla Strikeouts and Bad Timing

    Myrina and Tristan share sexy stories about playdates they had; both together and separately. Find out how Louis got his "name"! After a final return trip to Virginia, Myrina shares a story about the final night with (one of her) Virginia lovers and something she has never talked about before.
    On her return from Virginia, Myrina stops at one of her favorite hotel chains and meets a lovely gentleman at the bar! Will they or won't they??? And when Myrina gets overserved, she accidentally spoils a couple's date with Amber and Steve. 

    • 1 hr 10 min
    Ep 38: We Outed Ourselves as Swingers

    Ep 38: We Outed Ourselves as Swingers

    Myrina and Tristan decide they want to start a podcast but aren't quite sure how to talk to people about their idea. They attend a podcast conference and tell anyone who asks, what their podcast is about! (Spoiler alert: it's THIS podcast!)
    Myrina meets a vanilla guy who is "all-in" at trying his luck with a swinger hotwife.
    Tristan and Myrina finally visit Secrets Hideaway and Resort outside of Orlando, Florida with a plan to meet another couple for a night of play. But things don't always go as planned. 

    • 1 hr 37 min
    Ep 37: Do Swingers Make the Best Adult Film Stars?

    Ep 37: Do Swingers Make the Best Adult Film Stars?

    A few months ago, Myrina and Tristan met and chatted with a couple at Caliente. Fascinated with their journey and story, Myrina and Tristan asked to interview them for the podcast. 
    Rob and Trudy are living their best life, together. They met as swingers, eventually started dating as swingers, and then got married and are still swinging! You can find them often as nightclub hosts at Caliente, or perhaps in one of their new endeavors, adult films. Rob and Trudy share some of their stories, their insights into the swinger lifestyle, how they told their families about their lifestyle choices and how they've made this all work! 

    • 1 hr 20 min
    Ep 36: Swingers and Kink Come Together In More Than One Way

    Ep 36: Swingers and Kink Come Together In More Than One Way

    When Myrina and Tristan met Phoenix Phyre and Crimson Dragonfly at Naughty N'awlins in 2019, little did they know that their lives would be changed forever. The instant connection the two couples experienced, certainly was too good to be true. But as time went on, and the couples grew closer, they found themselves on yet another unexpected, dare we say "accidental", leg of their journey. 
    Listen as Myrina and Tristan meet Phoenix and Crimson for the first time in New Orleans and then end up being one of the couples in Myrina and Tristan's first group playroom orgy.
    But beyond the sex and the love that was growing within the foursome, another passion emerged; educating swingers about kink and kinksters about non-monogamy. Through that passion, the quad created Swinky Life -  life at the intersection of swinging and kink. With Swinky Life, the two couples teach and educate the swinger and kink communities about each others' worlds. They encourage safe exploration of all alternative loves and lifestyles so that others can also enjoy living the Swinky Life.

    • 1 hr 21 min
    Ep 35: Our First Real Kink Experience

    Ep 35: Our First Real Kink Experience

    Kink was the scary unknown, and was a hard limit for Myrina and Tristan. Then they met "The Captain". He slowly, purposefully and methodically introduced them to the spectrum of kink and BDSM. Starting with the sensual, softer side of kink then moving into sensation play, then impact play. 
    Myrina was skeptical and anxious but all of that faded away when she began to experience pleasure in ways she did not know her body could handle. The Captain also spent time teaching Tristan even more about this style of play and how to use it to create even more intense experiences with his playmates.

    • 1 hr 7 min
    Ep 34: Facing Our Fears Around Kink and BDSM

    Ep 34: Facing Our Fears Around Kink and BDSM

    Kink and BDSM were the two things that Myrina and Tristan said were a "hard no" when they entered the lifestyle. Naivete, ignorance, and unfamiliarity with this new world led to a lot of apprehension and fear. So much so, that those were the only things they specifically called attention to in their swinger profiles that they would not explore. Then they met "The Captain". Deciding to open their minds and gently push their boundaries, they agreed to meet a single man who was clearly active in the kink and BDSM realm. Little did they know, meeting The Captain would change their lives and become a pivotal step in their lifestyle journey.

    • 1 hr 1 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
157 Ratings

157 Ratings

TooOldNow ,

Great Listening

Myrna and Tristen are so easy to listen to. I love their style, very organized chronological story of their LS journey. They approach and respond to everything with humor, but are very serious about their cautious progress. Sure wish I had learned about this thirty years ago.
They have become the go to source for understanding how to make this LS work. Podcast 25 is particularly insightful.

uncmempm ,

Love everything about the podcast...almost

I am a fairly new listener so I am catching up fro mthe beginning. I am really enjoying your content and how you mix in the pre-recorded content in the podcast.

That being said...there have been a few time where you were eating while you recorded and it is super distracting to the story. While I enjoy the pre-recorded content, you should probably exclude clips where you are eating.

Keep up the great content!

ComingandGoing09 ,

Never a dull moment

Myrina and Trystan are fantastic and their personalities shine through in their podcasts. I have been fortunate enough to meet this fun couple and they are just as genuine as their podcast would lead you to believe. I ran a half marathon recently and their Naughty in N’awlins stories made my 2 hours fly by. Keep it up guys and can’t wait to see you at the next event!

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