The Business of Pleasure

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Welcome to The Business of Pleasure, where we're putting the fun in funds and the sexy in success! Brought to you by Bedroom Kandi Boutique Parties, this podcast is your one-stop shop for empowering education, earning potential, and unforgettable wow moments -- hosted by your Sexologist Bestie, Kasha!

  1. 60. Emotional Intelligence Gets Us Off! Pt. 1

    16H AGO

    60. Emotional Intelligence Gets Us Off! Pt. 1

    Featuring Chris aka @big_black_supervillain What really gets people off once a relationship evolves? In this deeply honest and surprisingly funny episode of the Business of Pleasure podcast, Kash and Chris sit down to unpack the emotional, psychological, and physical sides of masturbation, intimacy, and long-term connection. This conversation goes far beyond “self pleasure.” Chris opens up about the first time he discovered masturbation as a young man, how it helped him learn his body, his preferences, and the importance of understanding sensation as a man. Together, Kash and Chris discuss how masturbation changes inside relationships, the stigma around mutual masturbation, and why emotional intelligence plays such a major role in pleasure. The couple also dives into: ✨ Mutual masturbation and intimacy as a couple ✨ Learning your body before teaching someone else ✨ Men and self-pleasure conversations rarely being discussed honestly ✨ Sensitivity, lubrication, grip, and sensation preferences ✨ Why “too wet” can sometimes decrease sensation for some men ✨ Being physically attracted but mentally not in the mood ✨ Emotional safety and connection as arousal factors ✨ The evolution of desire in long-term relationships ✨ What gets people off outside of sex This episode is vulnerable, educational, hilarious, and incredibly real… exactly what happens when The Soft and The Strong sit down together. Featured Bedroom Kandi products discussed in this episode include: 💋 Sidekick 💋 Your Highness 💋 Head to Toe 💋 Heart Desires Paddle 💋 And more Shop • Host • Join 👉 BedroomKandi.com Follow: @YourSexologistBestie @big_black_supervillain @BusinessOfPleasurePod

    1h 3m
  2. 59. POWER Gets Me Off! - Part 2

    6D AGO

    59. POWER Gets Me Off! - Part 2

    POWER Gets Me Off! | Featuring Mistress Marley Business of Pleasure Podcast | Masturbation May Masturbation May is here… and we’re celebrating all the things that get you off. Not just physically… but mentally, emotionally, energetically. In this bold and eye-opening episode, Kash sits down with Mistress Marley, a financial dominant and women’s empowerment advocate, to explore a different pathway to pleasure… power. Because for some women, it’s not just touch… It’s control. It’s confidence. It’s knowing who you are and owning it fully. Together, they unpack: • What it looks like to step into power at a young age • Building confidence before you fully feel it • The connection between dominance, control, and pleasure • First experiences with self-exploration and masturbation • Why self-touch is more than physical… it’s self-awareness • How mental and emotional stimulation can be just as powerful as physical touch • Expanding the conversation around what pleasure can look like for women This episode challenges the idea that pleasure has one path. Because sometimes… Power gets you off. ✨ Masturbation May Reminder: This month is about celebrating your pleasure, your curiosity, and your connection to self… however that shows up for you. ✨ Featured Products: • Groove Panty Vibe • Butter Me Up • Seduce Me Perfume Welcome to the Business of Pleasure… where pleasure is power.

    35 min
  3. 58. POWER Gets Me Off! - Feat. Mistress Marley

    MAY 11

    58. POWER Gets Me Off! - Feat. Mistress Marley

    POWER Gets Me Off! | Featuring Mistress Marley Business of Pleasure Podcast | Masturbation May Masturbation May is here… and we’re celebrating all the things that get you off. Not just physically… but mentally, emotionally, energetically. In this bold and eye-opening episode, Kash sits down with Mistress Marley, a financial dominant and women’s empowerment advocate, to explore a different pathway to pleasure… power. Because for some women, it’s not just touch… It’s control. It’s confidence. It’s knowing who you are and owning it fully. Together, they unpack: • What it looks like to step into power at a young age • Building confidence before you fully feel it • The connection between dominance, control, and pleasure • First experiences with self-exploration and masturbation • Why self-touch is more than physical… it’s self-awareness • How mental and emotional stimulation can be just as powerful as physical touch • Expanding the conversation around what pleasure can look like for women This episode challenges the idea that pleasure has one path. Because sometimes… Power gets you off. ✨ Masturbation May Reminder: This month is about celebrating your pleasure, your curiosity, and your connection to self… however that shows up for you. ✨ Featured Products: • Groove Panty Vibe • Butter Me Up • Seduce Me Perfume Welcome to the Business of Pleasure… where pleasure is power.

    42 min
  4. Business of Pleasure Special Release: Bedroom Kandi 2023 Social Affair (LIVE)

    APR 27

    Business of Pleasure Special Release: Bedroom Kandi 2023 Social Affair (LIVE)

    For the first time ever, we’re bringing you a LIVE recording from the Bedroom Kandi 2023 Social Affair… hosted by Your Sexologist Bestie Kash. This wasn’t just an event… it was an experience. With hundreds in attendance, the Social Affair brought together community, conversation, and connection around pleasure, intimacy, and empowerment. Guests had the opportunity to explore Bedroom Kandi products, connect with vendors, meet Kandi Burruss, and tap into expert-led discussions that blended education with real, unfiltered dialogue. This featured panel is where sex ed meets edutainment. On stage: • Kandi Burruss – Founder of Bedroom Kandi • Suki Dunham – Co-Founder • Your Sexologist Bestie Kash – Host & Moderator • Sex with Ashley – Guest Expert Together, they break down pleasure, intimacy, and product education in a way that’s engaging, honest, and informative. From exploring different ways to connect with your body to understanding how to enhance partnered experiences, this conversation delivers insight with personality. This event also highlighted the launch of our Splash Collection, featuring Bedroom Kandi’s signature Pleasure Pro technology, designed to elevate stimulation and create a more dynamic, immersive experience. If you’ve ever wanted to see what a Bedroom Kandi experience feels like in real life… this is it. — ✨ Shop the Experience: Explore toys, wellness, and more at BedroomKandi.com/shop — ⚠️ Disclaimer: This content was recorded in 2023. Some featured products may no longer be available or may have been updated. — Welcome to the Business of Pleasure… LIVE.

    45 min
  5. Ep. 56 - She Got Pregnant While Pregnant, pt 2

    APR 6

    Ep. 56 - She Got Pregnant While Pregnant, pt 2

    In the continuation of this episode, Kash sits down with two BK consultants Jchemela Holmes IBCLC and Dr. Perquida Payne for a real conversation about pregnancy, birth, and postpartum, through both professional expertise and lived experience. From navigating a rare pregnancy experience with superfetation, to laboring during COVID, to advocating for her body and her choices, Kash shares what it really looks like when motherhood doesn’t go as planned… and how the right support can change everything. This episode dives into the realities of maternal care, breastfeeding, postpartum recovery, mental health, relationship shifts, and what it takes for a woman to reconnect with herself, her body, and her pleasure after birth. Because motherhood changes everything… but it shouldn’t cost you yourself. ✨ Featured Products Mentioned: • Warm Me Up (Reusable Heating Pad) • Belly Love Moisturizer • Make Me Over • Pheromones Collection • Bath, Body & Wellness Products • Play With Me Straps ✨ Shop | Host | Join BedroomKandi.com

    1h 3m
  6. Ep. 55 - She Got Pregnant While Pregnant!

    MAR 30

    Ep. 55 - She Got Pregnant While Pregnant!

    In this Women’s History Month episode, Kash sits down with two BK consultants Jchemela Holmes IBCLC and Dr. Perquida Payne for a real conversation about pregnancy, birth, and postpartum, through both professional expertise and lived experience. From navigating a rare pregnancy experience with superfetation, to laboring during COVID, to advocating for her body and her choices, Kash shares what it really looks like when motherhood doesn’t go as planned… and how the right support can change everything. This episode dives into the realities of maternal care, breastfeeding, postpartum recovery, mental health, relationship shifts, and what it takes for a woman to reconnect with herself, her body, and her pleasure after birth. Because motherhood changes everything… but it shouldn’t cost you yourself. ✨ Featured Products Mentioned: • Warm Me Up (Reusable Heating Pad) • Belly Love Moisturizer • Make Me Over • Pheromones Collection • Bath, Body & Wellness Products • Play With Me Straps ✨ Shop | Host | Join BedroomKandi.com

    1h 20m
  7. 54. EmpowerHER | Women’s History Month Special - Part 1

    MAR 17

    54. EmpowerHER | Women’s History Month Special - Part 1

    All episodes featured are linked below. In this Women’s History Month special, The Business of Pleasure Podcast highlights powerful moments from past conversations with women across the pleasure, wellness, and entrepreneurship space. This episode brings together founders, educators, clinical professionals, influencers, and top-performing leaders from the Bedroom Kandi consultant field who are helping shape conversations around confidence, sexuality, business ownership, mental health, and feminine growth. Featured voices include Bedroom Kandi Founder Kandi Burruss and Co-Founder Suki Dunham, along with field leaders Freda Hobbs, LaRonda White, and LaToya Kirkman, social worker and consultant Dr. Perquita Payne, clinical sexologist and BDSM educator Syphon The Unicorn, wellness educator Dr. Tamara, and body-positive influencer I Am Mel. Together, these moments reflect the many ways women are defining success, pleasure, healing, and leadership in their own lives and communities. — Watch the full episodes featured in this special: Episode 1 Part 1 https://youtu.be/cUFHW2bDqWM?si=FT5a_0TRJqvzvEth Episode 2 https://youtu.be/934Cm7cjEuQ?si=l8dTEJwxD_Podyzn Episode 2 (Additional Highlights) https://youtu.be/1vbwYLTCPdY?si=01ZC5VXc5NIh84U1 Episode 7 https://youtu.be/eujiWFJx3hg?si=bVy3Hy5I7J98qY2l Episode 10 https://youtu.be/R53KIUy3B0c?si=hLdKd1XAIZfJPJvz Episode 13 https://youtu.be/kGN2OtZP-KI?si=Jg1QHv1vu5_Z0adH

    1h 9m
  8. 53. She Is The Energy! - feat. Esmy V

    MAR 3

    53. She Is The Energy! - feat. Esmy V

    Featuring Esmerlin “Esmy V” Valdez As we step into Women’s History Month, this episode of Business of Pleasure is a celebration of feminine power, presence, and unapologetic authenticity. Esmerlin “Esmy V” Valdez joins me for a deeply layered conversation about what it means to be a woman who takes up space boldly. With her bright personality, magnetic energy, and evolving sense of self, Esmy opens up about her journey from performing for expectations to finally living life on her own terms. In our Power in Your Presence segment, we explore her origins, her transformation through depression and anxiety, and what it looks like to fully embrace authenticity. We speak honestly about body positivity, identity, and how confidence is often born from surviving what tried to shrink you. During Adult Edutainment, we unpack sexual transmutation — the understanding that sexual energy is not just about physical pleasure, but creative force, healing energy, and leadership presence. We discuss how women can tap into their sensuality, softness, and power to elevate their careers, relationships, and personal growth. We also touch on pleasure as self-care, the hormonal impact of sexual release, and why tending to this part of ourselves affects everything. In Money Making Monday, Esmy shares how she has built her voice in the pleasure and wellness space while expanding into nonprofit work rooted in purpose and community impact. This conversation moves from sensuality to sovereignty, from personal power to public service. This episode is about choosing yourself. Owning your energy. And understanding that when a woman aligns with her truth, her presence speaks before she does. Products Featured: Seduce Me Perfume, Make Me Over Massager, Petal Pleaser, Seeing Stars ⸻ Connect With Us Esmerlin “Esmy V” Valdez IG: @esmy_v Kasha Vannessa Johnson IG: @yoursexologistbestie IG: @businessofpleasurepod

    59 min
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Welcome to The Business of Pleasure, where we're putting the fun in funds and the sexy in success! Brought to you by Bedroom Kandi Boutique Parties, this podcast is your one-stop shop for empowering education, earning potential, and unforgettable wow moments -- hosted by your Sexologist Bestie, Kasha!

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  • Creator
    Bedroom Kandi
  • Years Active
    2017 - 2026
  • Episodes
    103
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © All rights reserved
  • Show Website
    The Business of Pleasure

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