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If you're a single woman who loves her single life, yet desperately wants to get married, then tune in! Join Starr Burroughs, author of "The Ineligible Bachelorette" and Love Coach to single women, as she uncovers the truth behind why so many women are single AND what they can do about it. Married now for 9 years, she brings insight into our current dating culture (especially Christian culture) and empowers the single woman to live life confidently and boldly.

The Confident Single Woman Starr Burroughs: Author, Coach, Speaker, Christian

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.8 • 651 Ratings

If you're a single woman who loves her single life, yet desperately wants to get married, then tune in! Join Starr Burroughs, author of "The Ineligible Bachelorette" and Love Coach to single women, as she uncovers the truth behind why so many women are single AND what they can do about it. Married now for 9 years, she brings insight into our current dating culture (especially Christian culture) and empowers the single woman to live life confidently and boldly.

    Thank You and Farewell

    Thank You and Farewell

    Today marks my 200th episode of The Confident Single Woman podcast.
    Today will be my final day.
    This transition away from my business and the podcast is extremely bittersweet. I know that God led me in this direction of coaching and podcasting, and I do believe he is leading me out of it at this time.
    I did not make this decision lightly, but I do feel confident it’s the right decision for me right now. I don’t know if I’ll come back to coaching or podcast, or if I’ll come back to working with single women or not. I don’t know the future, but I do feel that I’m making the right decision for right now.
    Please listen in to hear more about my story, what’s next, and why I’m walking away.
     
    Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
    Business Coach: https://www.miarene.com
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q83f7SfJW7E
    Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
    Email: starr@StarrBurroughs.com

    • 21 min
    Consistent Themes That Helped These Women Go From Single To Married

    Consistent Themes That Helped These Women Go From Single To Married

    Today, I have a fun episode for you!
    I compare all the themes from the stories of the women who were on the podcast these last few weeks. As I listened to their stories and the specific things they pulled out to share, I came across 7 different topics that I kept hearing over and over again!
    I have quite a bit to say about these different themes:
    1. Strayed from their TYPE
    2. Dated Online
    3. Dealt with Long Distance
    4. Went through their specific healing journey
    5. Knew who they were and what they wanted
    6. Accepted themselves and found someone who also accepted them
    7. Stopped waiting for love to happen to them and became an active participant in their own love life.
    Tune in and share!
    Starr’s Resources:
    The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
    Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
    https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
    Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
    Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
    7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
    The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
    Follow me:
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    Email: starr@StarrBurroughs.com

    • 33 min
    Single to Married with Melanie Warren

    Single to Married with Melanie Warren

    Today, Melanie covers a lot from singleness, to long distance dating to being married for 2.5 years. She shares how she learned to be vulnerable, how to date long distance, how to have a quick dating and engagement season, and how she overcame her big roadblock just existing and waiting for a man to sweep her off her feet.
    She also talks about how marriage has met her expectations, or exceeded them in some areas, as well as the challenges of marriage.
    Melanie offers so much insight. You’ll want to take notes and listen twice!
     
    Starr’s Resources:
    The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
    Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
    https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
    Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
    Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
    7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
    The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
    Follow me:
    Facebook
    Instagram
    Email: starr@StarrBurroughs.com

    • 34 min
    Single to Married with Erica David-O'Conner

    Single to Married with Erica David-O'Conner

    Join me today as Erica and I discuss her struggles, breakthroughs, and what real married life is like!
    When Erica was single, she was used to dealing with loneliness by being in a relationship, even if that meant the relationship was unhealthy. She shares that her journey to healing came about through coaching, therapy, godly mentorship, and finally, through a renewed relationship with Jesus Christ.
    As she rededicated her life to Christ, she began to change from the inside out. As a result, her relationships changed as well.
    Tune in today to hear her story from healing to redemption and learn how her hard work and God’s divine intervention brought her her much needed breakthrough.
     
    Starr’s Resources:
    The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
    Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
    https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
    Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
    Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
    7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
    The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
    Follow me:
    Facebook
    Instagram
    Email: starr@StarrBurroughs.com

    • 35 min
    Single to Engaged with Katie Heaner

    Single to Engaged with Katie Heaner

    Katie shares about the lessons she’s learned, the transformation that has taken place, and the miracles she’s received.
    Today, Katie share about why she feels it’s a miracle that she is getting married. What seemed so far out of reach for her, and truly unachievable, is now happening. She explains that it’s not just that she overcame her barriers slowing her down toward married, but why it’s a genuine miracle that she is getting married.
    She went through a lot of healing, a lot of dating, a lot of heartbreak, and she happily shares her story today with what helped her overcome her roadblocks.
    You’ll be inspired and learn from the challenges and victories Katie has experienced!
     
    Starr’s Resources:
    The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
    Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
    https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
    Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
    Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
    7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
    The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
    Follow me:
    Facebook
    Instagram

    Email: starr@StarrBurroughs.com

    • 43 min
    Single to Married with Marissa Shaffer-Ward

    Single to Married with Marissa Shaffer-Ward

    I love Marissa’s transparency on today’s episode. She’s raw, real, and helpful to the single women listening!
    In her 40’s she found love and overcame big barriers keeping her from marriage. Her analytical side helped her in her singleness, however, it also hindered her in her journey toward love. Through self-awareness and healing, she was able to open her heart to love and married the quality man that was pursuing her.
    Tune in today to learn more about the specifics of Marissas barriers and breakthroughs. I know it will be inspiring and helpful!
     
    Starr’s Resources:
    The Marriage-Minded Online Dating Academy: www.StarrBurroughs.com/MODA
    Get 10% off your first month of Faithful Counseling (Sponsored):
    https://www.getfaithful.com/confidentsinglewoman
    Join our free Facebook Community: The Confident Single Woman
    Starr's Book: The Ineligible Bachelorette: Taking A Hard Look At Why You Haven’t Found The One
    7 Questions To Help You Identify Your Standards [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/Standards
    The 7 Most Common Roadblocks To Love [Free]: https://www.StarrBurroughs.com/gift
    Follow me:
    Facebook
    Instagram

    Email: starr@StarrBurroughs.com

    • 38 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
651 Ratings

651 Ratings

Cori Renee ,

Great podcast!

I love hearing stories about how women can be vulnerable about their Christian dating life and how it’s Christ centered, frustrating, and how keeping purity is an importance with dating while being able to navigate the modern day dating scene. Thank you for sharing and I will continue to listen!

Renealove1234 ,

Sooo good!

I really love Starr and her wisdom! This podcast is genuinely a blessing! The newest episode that just released spoke to me so much that I took several notes!

Ambie P ,

Getting Confident

This Podcast is an incredible resource to gain confidence in your singleness, especially as a Christian. She explains things in ways I never really considered as a single in the dating world. Thank you Starr!

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