Welcome to the D/s Effect, a guided journey through the kinky buffet with Lifestyle Dominant, author, educator, and coach, Ms. Elle X. Here, you will find the ultimate guide to healthy leadership, Dominance, and the BDSM Lifestyle, presented in a practical and non-threatening way for maximum insight and impact! Whether navigating newbie or seasoned Sadist, we can all experience the eroticism and power of the D/s effect. Let's take the journey together.
How to Step Into Your Dominant Power
Are you a new or inexperienced Dom-type who desires more authority in your Dominant expression and D/s dynamic? If so, stay tuned today as Ms. Elle discusses the traits of an excellent Dominant, and how to step into your FemDom power, even as a shy switch!
How to Plan Your First BDSM Scene
If you are a new Dominant, a Dominant with a new partner, or simply interested in trying out a new type of BDSM play or scene but don't know where to start or how to properly execute your vision, tune in today as Ms. Elle breaks down the flow and function of a proper BDSM scene.
Introducing Your Vanilla Lover to the Kinky Buffet
If you are coupled with a shy vanilla lover, or nervous newbie just dipping their toes into the ocean of BDSM, how do you broach new topics? How can you introduce them to your kinks without scaring them off? Ms. Elle answers these questions and more in today's episode.
The Seductive Power of Soft Dominance
"I can yell and be aggressive, but I shouldn't have to." That is essentially the mentality that drives soft-Dom types like BDSM Daddies, Mommies, and Caregivers. In this episode, Ms. Elle breaks down the nature of soft Dominance, and the true power and effectiveness of this style of Dominant authority.
Finding the Right Dom...and Avoiding the Wrong Ones
With toxic examples like Fifty Shades and 365 Days, fetishized abuse is becoming more prevalent under the BDSM label...so, what is the truth? What actually defines a healthy and safe Dominant? And what are the warning signs to look out for when vetting a potential Dom? Ms. Elle discusses this and more in today's episode.
Fifty Shades of Stockholm Syndrome
Despite the narratives presented in Fifty Shades of Grey, 365 Dni (Days), and the like, these examples are not of BDSM or healthy D/s dynamics, but of manipulation, coercion, Stockholm Syndrome, and downright abuse. But how are these narratives passed off as erotic and sexy? And what impact does this have on rape culture and society's understanding of consent? Ms. Elle discusses this and more in today's episode.
Excellent information on the D/s Lifestyle!
I first learned about Ms. Elle X on Youtube. The information she provides is invaluable for those seeking or currently in a D/s relationship. Whether Domme, Submissive or Switch, if you’re interested in power exchange, you will certainly find information here that you can put to good use.