The Divorce Course Podcast

Laura & Lyn
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The Divorce Course Podcast Podcast

This Mother and Daughter duo discuss and cover the legal stages and steps that you will face on your way to freedom through divorce. These are practical and real discussions with Lyn Galvin a family lawyer of 35 years experience and her daughter Laura a divorced mother of three. Laura helps turn her mother's lawyer jargon into something everyone will understand. Lyn shares all her tips and practical advice on separating. Through this podcast they aim to help you through your Australian divorce or de-facto separation to make it more cost effective and less stressful. instagram @thedivorcecourse

  1. SEP 24

    Age-Appropriate Parenting Plans or Orders: What You Need to Know for Toddlers to Teens & In-between

    Listen to This Episode If You: 🌟 Are navigating a parenting plan or consent or court orders for children at different stages of development. ❓ Want to understand how the court views plans for babies and the differing age groups all the way to teenagers. 💡 Are trying to figure out how to create a flexible and adaptable parenting plan as your child grows. 🛡 Are dealing with high-conflict ex-partners and need strategies to protect your child's best interests. 📚 Want to learn more about how to handle special situations like breastfeeding, car seats, and school-related issues. Are you overwhelmed by trying to come up with a fair parenting plan or consent order offer after separation or divorce? Wondering what will happen as they get older, or struggling to figure out what is what when it comes to the different age groups—toddlers, tweens, and teens and everything in-between. In this episode, we discuss the unique challenges and considerations for each stage of your child’s development when creating parenting plans and consent orders or asking for court orders. We discuss topics like the primary attachment theory for babies, navigating parenting plans for young children, and managing the evolving needs of primary school-aged kids and figuring out what to do with stubborn teenagers. Whether you’re in the early stages of separation or dealing with an ongoing custody battle, this episode provides valuable insights on how to approach parenting plans that truly serve the best interests of your children. Key Ideas Discussed in This Episode: Primary Attachment for Babies: Why babies up to three years old typically benefit from staying with their primary caregiver, and how this impacts parenting plans and court orders. Navigating Consent Orders: How to create orders that take into account the evolving needs of your children as they grow from toddlers to teens. Transitioning to Overnights: Strategies for gradually increasing parenting time and handling situations where the non-primary caregiver hasn’t been involved. Primary School Age Considerations: Managing custody and parenting plans as children start school, including logistical challenges like packing bags and attending social events. Teenagers and Flexibility: How to adapt parenting plans for teens who want more independence, and what happens when they refuse to follow the existing custody arrangements. High-Conflict Co-Parenting: Dealing with manipulative and controlling ex-partners, and tips for creating clear, enforceable orders to protect your child’s well-being. Navigating Changing Court Views: Understanding the recent changes in the Family Law Act and how it affects shared parental responsibility and 50/50 time. Free Resources: https://www.judcom.nsw.gov.au/publications/benchbks/children/cpm_allerton_attachment.html https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/divorcewebinarregistration (webinar)   https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/opt-in (before you go checklist)   https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/opt-in-4ab0c1ab-f43e-4db3-b49b-43c865aa8b1d (mediation checklist) https://www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/disclosurechecklist (disclosure checklist) Podcast Episode Timeline 00:00 Introduction to Parenting Plans 01:08 Understanding Parenting Plans for Babies 03:53 Challenges with Parenting Plans for Babies 13:56 Parenting Plans for Primary School Kids 17:56 Common Issues with Primary School Kids 21:56 Navigating Parenting Plans for Teens 22:55 Planning for Your Child's Future 23:41 Teenagers and Court Orders 24:13 Navigating Parental Breaches 25:44 Resources for Mediation and Disclosure 26:27 Mental Health and Teen Independence 27:32 Pressure on Children in Custody Cases 30:06 Handling Avoidant Parents 33:03 Dealing with High-Conflict Exes 33:51 The Importance of Detailed Orders 35:23 Co-Parenting with Manipulative Exes 38:13 Final Thoughts and Encouragement Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEG

    45 min

  2. SEP 16

    Future Needs: The Hidden Factor in Divorce Property Settlements

    When going through a divorce and dividing assets, there's an essential factor that many people overlook or have no idea about: future needs. In this episode, we discuss what "future needs" mean in family law in Australia, how they are considered by the court, and how they can significantly affect the division of property. From your health and age to your earning capacity and children’s future, understanding these factors is crucial for a fair property settlement. We also touch on the future needs factors outlined in Section 75(2) of the Family Law Act and discuss how to navigate property settlements both inside and outside of court based on the four divorce personalities, high conflict, manipulative and controlling (narcissistic types), amicable and avoidant.  Listen to This Episode If You: 🌟 Are in the process of a property settlement and need to understand what "future needs" mean. ❓ Want to explore how the court factors in age, health, earning capacity, and other personal circumstances. 💡 Are looking to understand how future needs affect property division in both marriages and de facto relationships. 🛡 Want to learn how to protect your interests in property settlements, especially if you have children or a lower income. 📚 Are curious about the impact of future needs when dividing property amicably or through mediation. Key Ideas Discussed in This Episode: What Are Future Needs?: Explanation of how the court considers future needs when dividing property. Section 75(2) Factors: A breakdown of the 17 key factors listed in this section of the Family Law Act. Health and Age: How your current health or age could influence your property settlement. Earning Capacity: What happens if one partner earns significantly more or has greater financial resources. Children and Their Needs: How the care of children under 18 can affect property division. Impact of the Length of Marriage: How a long marriage can affect property division, especially if one spouse’s career supported the other. Practical Tips for negotiating these factors amicably, as well as what happens if the case ends up in court. Links & Resources Mentioned in the Podcast: Related Episodes: https://link.chtbl.com/DivorceEpisode139 (Splitting Silver Hairs : A guide to grey divorce) https://link.chtbl.com/divorcepodcastfiftyeight (When an Amicable Divorce goes wrong and what you can do about it in your Property Settlement and Parenting Agreement) https://link.chtbl.com/DivorceEpisode124 (Gold Diggers in Divorce: Strategies TO PROTECT YOUR ASSETS FROM A NON CONTRIBUTING EX) https://link.chtbl.com/DivorceEpisode125 (when you mediation goes wrong and what to do next in your divorce, custody or property negotiations) Other Resources: THE DIVORCE COURSE www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/enrol Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline: 13 11 14 Mensline Australia: 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line: 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police: 000 DVConnect Womensline: 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) DV Connect Mensline: 1800 600 636 National DV line: 1800 737 732 (1800 RESPECT) Thank you for tuning in to this informative episode on future needs in property settlements. Whether you’re navigating these factors in mediation or preparing for court, understanding the role of future needs is crucial to achieving a just and equitable outcome. If you found this episode helpful, please rate, review, and subscribe. Your support helps others find the guidance they need. Stay strong and take care. Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general legal education for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice. Every situation is different, and it is important to seek independent legal advice tailored to your specific circumstances.

    47 min

  3. SEP 10

    Do You Really Need a Family Lawyer for Mediation? Pros and Cons Explained

    Are you wondering if you really need a lawyer for mediation or family dispute resolution? In this episode, we discuss the ins and outs of mediation and whether you really need a lawyer by your side. Explore the different types of meditations, the pros and cons of having legal representation, and pick up some helpful tips for those on a tight budget who may not be able to afford a lawyer. If you're wondering how to approach mediation in your divorce journey—whether it’s about property settlements or children's matters—this episode will provide valuable insights to help you make a decision. Listen to This Episode If You: 🌟 Are considering mediation but unsure if you need a lawyer. ❓ Want to know what happens during mediation and the role a lawyer plays. 💡 Need strategies for navigating mediation on your own or with minimal legal assistance. 🛡 Want to weigh the pros and cons of bringing legal support to your mediation. 📚 Are on a tight budget and looking for ways to handle mediation cost-effectively. Key Ideas Discussed in This Episode: Types of Mediation: The different stages of mediation, from initial discussions to court-appointed mediation. Do You Need a Lawyer?: The advantages and disadvantages of having a lawyer during mediation. Cost Considerations: How to handle mediation if you’re on a tight budget and can’t afford legal representation. Mediation Preparation: Tips on how to prepare for mediation and what documents to gather. Self-Representation: How to navigate mediation without a lawyer, including understanding the process and legal expectations. High Conflict vs. Amicable Mediation: How the nature of your relationship with your ex can impact whether or not you need a lawyer present. Settler’s Remorse: What happens if you agree to something in mediation and regret it later, and how to avoid this. Links & Resources Mentioned in the Podcast: Related Episodes: https://link.chtbl.com/DivorceEpisode166 (Understanding Legal Gatekeeping: Is Your Lawyer Telling Your Full Story in Divorce?) https://link.chtbl.com/divorceepisodefour (How to negotiate an agreement after divorce.) https://link.chtbl.com/divorcepodcasttwentytwo (Convincing the unconvincible in divorce negotiations for family law0 https://link.chtbl.com/divorcepodcastfiftyfour (FDR, Conciliation Conference & Mediation: the what, how, when, who, why of your family dispute resolution) https://link.chtbl.com/divorcepodcasteightyone (10 things that could happen legally and emotionally after mediation (in the family court or privatley)   https://link.chtbl.com/divorcepodcastonehundredtwo (What Is Mediation & Am I Ready For It? Navigating mediation during your divorce or de facto separation.) https://link.chtbl.com/divorcepodcastninetythree (Can you really mediate with a narcissist? Mediation and negotiation tips for divorcing an ex with narcissistic behaviours.) https://link.chtbl.com/DivorceEpisode125 (when you mediation goes wrong and what to do next in your divorce, custody or property negotiations) https://link.chtbl.com/DivorceEpisode136 (The real deal with mediation: dispelling 5 myths)   Free Resources: Mediation Checklist (Available on our website) www.thedivorcecourse.com.au Webinars and Courses: DIY Divorce Blueprint www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/enrol   Webinars on Navigating Divorce www.thedivorcecourse.com.au   https://www.patreon.com/TheDivorceCoursePodcast   Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline: 13 11 14 Mensline Australia: 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line: 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police: 000 DVConnect Womensline: 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) DV Connect Mensline: 1800 600 636 National DV line: 1800 737 732 (1800 RESPECT) Thank you for tuning in to this episode on mediation and legal representation. Remember, your situation is unique, and weighing the pros and c

    45 min

  4. SEP 3

    Defending Against DARVO & Narcissists: 8 Tactics to Protect Yourself in Divorce & Family Court

    The DARVO method—Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender—is a tactic often employed by narcissists in legal battles, particularly during divorce or family court cases. In this episode, we shed light on the DARVO strategy and share eight essential ways to protect yourself against it. Whether you’re facing family violence court, property settlement agreements, or a child custody battle, these insights will empower you to stay calm, gather evidence, and ensure your truth is heard. Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general legal education for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice. Every situation is different, and it is important to seek independent legal advice tailored to your specific circumstances. Listen to This Episode If You: 🌟 Are dealing with a narcissistic ex who might be the type to manipulate the narrative in court. ❓ Want to understand the DARVO method and how it impacts family court cases. 💡 Need strategies to counteract manipulation and lies in affidavits or legal documents. 🛡 Want to protect yourself from being gaslit and maintain your mental health. 📚 Are looking for ways to keep communication calm and factual during a contentious divorce. Key Ideas Discussed in This Episode: Understanding DARVO: What it means and how it shows up in legal battles. Importance of Written Communication: Why all communication should be documented via emails or apps. Respond, Don't React: Techniques for staying calm and responding thoughtfully instead of reacting emotionally. Gathering Evidence: How to collect and organise evidence to challenge false claims. Setting Firm Boundaries: The importance of setting clear boundaries to protect your mental health. Affidavit Strategies: How to stick to the facts and tell your story effectively in legal documents. Slow and Steady Wins the Race: Understanding that the truth will unfold over time with patience and perseverance.   Links & Resources Mentioned in the Podcast: Episodes for More Insight: https://link.chtbl.com/divorcepodcasttwentyfive (Divorcing a narcissist: what to expect in the family law process and courts and how to prepare)   https://link.chtbl.com/divorcepodcastthirtythree (The Narcissist Playbook in Divorce)   https://link.chtbl.com/divorcepodcastfiftytwo (Co-parenting: How to successfully do it even with a high conflict, narcissistic controlling or avoidant ex partner.)   https://link.chtbl.com/divorcepodcastseventytoo (How To Use The Grey Rock Method in Divorce & Family Law Proceedings with a narcissistic ex) https://link.chtbl.com/divorcepodcastseventyfive (Co parenting and family court with a Narcissist) https://link.chtbl.com/divorcepodcastninetythree (Can you really mediate with a narcissist? Mediation and negotiation tips for divorcing an ex with narcissistic behaviours.)   https://link.chtbl.com/divorcepodcastninetyseven (The Post Separation Abuse Playbook and what you can do about it. Part 1)   Post-Separation Abuse: What You Need to Know   https://link.chtbl.com/divorcepodcastninetyeight (The Post Separation Abuse Playbook and what you can do about it. Part 2)   https://link.chtbl.com/divorceepisode113 (Why your narcissistic ex might want a parenting coordinator and what you can do about it) https://link.chtbl.com/DivorceEpisode134 (Mind over matter: divorcing a narcissist)   https://link.chtbl.com/DivorceEpisode140 (The Narcissists’ Chess Board: Understanding The Divorce SLAY strategy https://link.chtbl.com/divorcepodcastninety (A simple way to protect your children from being used as chess pieces in your divorce or de facto separation)   Webinars and Courses: DIY Divorce Blueprint www.thedivorcecourse.com.au/enrol Webinars on Navigating Divorce www.thedivorcecourse.com.au https://www.patreon.com/TheDivorceCoursePodcast * ARC App website https://download.arc-app.org.au/ * Empower You App

    41 min

  5. AUG 27

    Legal Gatekeeping: Is Your Lawyer Telling Your Full Story?

    Are you feeling like your lawyer isn't telling your full story? In this episode, Laura and Lynette dive into the issue of legal gatekeeping and how it can impact your divorce case. They discuss why it's crucial for your lawyer to present all the relevant facts, including those that might be uncomfortable or distressing about Family Violence or Coercive Control. With new property legislation potentially on the horizon in Australia, it's more important than ever to ensure your story is heard, whether it concerns property settlements or children's matters. Tune in to learn strategies for advocating for yourself and making sure your experiences are properly represented in court. Trigger Warning this could be distressing or triggering for victim survivors of family violence or coercive control.  Listen to This Episode If You: 🌟 Feel like your lawyer is not presenting the full picture in your case. ❓ Are dealing with family violence or coercive control and want to know how it affects your legal proceedings. 💡 Need to understand the role of your lawyer versus the role of the judge in court. 🛡 Want to ensure that critical information about your case is not being withheld. 📚 Are interested in how upcoming legislation may change the way family violence is considered in property settlements. Understanding Legal Gatekeeping: Is Your Lawyer Telling Your Full Story?  Key Ideas Discussed in This Episode: Understanding Gatekeeping: What it is and how it can affect your case. The Role of Lawyers vs. Judges: Clarifying what each should be doing in the context of your story. Importance of Telling Your Full Story: How withholding information can negatively impact court outcomes. Legislation Update: A look at potential new laws in Australia that could affect property settlements involving family violence. Kennan’s Case: How this landmark case impacts current family law and property settlements. Strategies for Self-Advocacy: Tips on how to ensure your lawyer is representing all relevant facts. Impact on Children: The importance of being upfront about family violence to protect and support your children. Mediation and Legal Strategy: How to handle mediation and what to do if you're feeling pressured by your lawyer. Links & Resources Mentioned in the Podcast: Episodes for More Insight: The Pep Talk You Didn't Know You Needed Choosing a Family Lawyer & the Red Flags not to ignore Three ways to choose and use your family lawyer (that you probably haven’t heard of for your divorce. Post-Separation Abuse: What You Need to Know Using children as chess pieces in divorce Webinars and Courses: DIY Divorce Blueprint Weekly Webinars on Navigating Divorce https://www.patreon.com/TheDivorceCoursePodcast Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline: 13 11 14 Mensline Australia: 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line: 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police: 000 DVConnect Womensline: 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) DV Connect Mensline: 1800 600 636 National DV line: 1800 737 732 (1800 RESPECT)     Thank you for listening to this important episode on ensuring your story is fully represented in court. Remember, your experiences are valid, and the right legal representation can make all the difference. If this episode resonated with you, please rate, review, and subscribe. Your support helps others find the help they need. Stay strong and take care. Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general legal education for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice. Every situation is different, and it is important to seek independent legal advice tailored to your specific circumstances

    43 min

  6. AUG 21

    Divorce Dynamic: Balancing Power & Progress

    In every divorce, there are two primary positions people find themselves in: sitting pretty or completely overstressed. In this episode, Laura and Lynette break down these common divorce dynamics and provide strategies to help you navigate whichever position you're in. Whether you're feeling trapped in a gilded cage with everything provided for you, or you're overwhelmed with stress, paying the bills, and managing all the responsibilities, this episode offers practical advice on how to shift the balance and move forward in your divorce journey. Listen to This Episode If You: 🌟 Feel like you're stuck in divorce limbo and don’t know how to move forward. ❓ Are overwhelmed with financial or emotional stress during your divorce. 💡 Need strategies to encourage your ex to engage in mediation or negotiation. 🛡 Are sitting comfortably but worried about what might happen if things change. 📚 Want to ensure you’re not being manipulated or controlled during the divorce process. Key Ideas Discussed in This Episode: Sitting Pretty vs. Overstressed: Understanding the two primary positions in divorce dynamics. The Gilded Cage: Recognizing when comfort is actually a trap and why it’s important to start planning your next steps. Overcoming Financial Stress: Tips for managing overwhelming financial responsibilities and negotiating support. Mediation Strategies: How to encourage your ex to come to the table and negotiate fairly. The Impact on Kids: Why dragging out a divorce can harm children and how to avoid it. Balancing the Scales: Practical steps to move from an overstressed position to a more balanced dynamic. The Importance of Knowledge: How understanding your rights and the divorce process can protect you from manipulation. Finding Incentives: Creating motivation for both parties to settle and move forward. Links & Resources Mentioned in the Podcast: Related Episodes: Divorce Limbo Central Practice Directions How to Engage in Mediation Webinars and Courses: THE Divorce Blueprint Webinars on Navigating Divorce https://www.patreon.com/TheDivorceCoursePodcast Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline: 13 11 14 Mensline Australia: 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line: 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police: 000 DVConnect Womensline: 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) DV Connect Mensline: 1800 600 636 National DV line: 1800 737 732 (1800 RESPECT)     Thank you for tuning in to this episode on navigating divorce dynamics. Whether you're sitting pretty or completely overstressed, understanding your position is the first step to moving forward. If you found this podcast helpful, please rate, review, and subscribe. Your feedback helps others find the support they need. Stay strong and take care. Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general legal education for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice. Every situation is different, and it is important to seek independent legal advice tailored to your specific circumstances.   Episode 165 Divorce Dynamic: Balancing Power & Progress  Introduction to Divorce Dynamics  Understanding the 'Sitting Pretty' Position  Exploring the 'Overstressed' Position  Strategies for Financial Stress  Navigating Manipulative Tactics  The Role of Emotions in Divorce  Understanding Your Legal Rights  Navigating Separation and Living Arrangements  Emotional Preparedness and Counseling  Financial Preparations and Legal Timelines  The Importance of Mediation  Impact on Children and Family Dynamics  Taking Action and Seeking Help  Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    39 min

  7. AUG 14

    Navigating your Divorce: The 5 tools you need to stay on course

    Divorce is often described as a journey, and just like any journey, it requires navigation tools to get to your destination successfully. In this episode, Laura and Lynette use the analogy of driving a car to discuss how to handle the emotional and practical challenges of divorce. They break down the five essential "tools" you need to navigate this journey: your handbrake, gas pedal, reverse, steering wheel, and road map. Whether you’re dealing with gaslighting, running out of steam, or simply trying to stay on course, this episode provides practical advice and emotional support to help you reach the other side of your divorce in the best shape possible. Listen to This Episode If You: 🌟 Are struggling with self-doubt or gaslighting during your divorce. ❓ Need motivation to keep pushing forward through tough times. 💡 Want to avoid the pitfalls of overreacting or taking things too far. 🛡 Are looking for strategies to stay in control of your divorce process. 📚 Need guidance on how to map out your divorce journey effectively. Key Ideas Discussed in This Episode: The Handbrake: How to stop self-doubt and gaslighting from derailing your progress. The Gas Pedal: Finding your "why" to keep moving forward when the going gets tough. The Reverse: Understanding when to pull back if you’re overreacting or taking things too far. The Steering Wheel: Keeping control of your divorce process and not letting others take the wheel. The Road Map: Mapping out your divorce journey and understanding the steps ahead. Navigating your Divorce: the 5 tools you need to stay on course Links & Resources Mentioned in the Podcast: Related Episodes: Disclosure Dilemmas The Pep Talk You Didn't Know You Needed Handover Hell Webinars and Courses: Divorce Blueprint In Depth Webinar on Navigating Divorce Patreon for a worksheet that goes with this episode Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline: 13 11 14 Mensline Australia: 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line: 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police: 000 DVConnect Womensline: 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) DV Connect Mensline: 1800 600 636 National DV line: 1800 737 732 (1800 RESPECT)     Thank you for tuning in to this episode on navigating your divorce journey. We hope you find these strategies helpful as you move forward. If you found this podcast valuable, please rate, review, and subscribe. Your feedback helps others find the support they need. Stay strong and take care. Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general legal education for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice. Every situation is different, and it is important to seek independent legal advice tailored to your specific circumstances. 00:00 Introduction to Divorce as a Journey 00:30 Understanding Gaslighting and Self-Doubt 01:40 Five Essential Tools for Your Divorce Journey 02:24 The Handbrake: Stopping Self-Doubt 05:30 The Accelerator: Finding Your Motivation 09:35 The Reverse: Knowing When to Pull Back 14:56 The Steering Wheel: Maintaining Control 20:38 Cutting Out Irrelevant Details 21:09 Steering Your Legal Strategy 22:16 Understanding Court Conventions 22:39 Introducing the Divorce Blueprint 23:18 Balancing Property and Children's Matters 25:03 Taking Control of Your Case 25:46 Navigating Legal Advice 26:47 Empowering Yourself Through Knowledge 29:09 Organising Your Legal Documents 30:26 Preparing for Legal Challenges 33:06 Recap and Final Thoughts

    41 min

  8. AUG 6

    The Hidden Value of Parenting Contributions in Property Settlement & Divorce

    Divorce & property settlements are confusing enough, especially when it comes to recognizing all contributions. Educate yourself about some of the most overlooked non financial contributions you may have made that will help increase your percentage of the property pool.  In this episode, we discuss the often-overlooked aspects of contributions in property settlements, focusing on non-financial parenting contributions. Explore the surprising elements that might not be considered but can play a significant role in determining your part of the property pool percentage during divorce or de facto separation. Disclaimer: This podcast episode provides general legal education for Australians and is not a substitute for legal advice. Every situation is different, and it is important to seek independent legal advice tailored to your specific circumstances. Listen to This Episode If You: 🌟 Want to understand the less commonly discussed contributions considered in property settlements. ❓ Are unsure how parenting contributions affect your property settlement. 💡 Are seeking clarity on what counts as a contribution before, during, and after the relationship. 🛡 Need to know how to document and present your contributions effectively. 📚 Are looking for strategies to ensure a fair property settlement. Key Ideas Discussed in This Episode: Definition of Contributions: Understanding what contributions are and how they factor into property settlements in Australia. Commonly Remembered Contributions: Financial contributions, non-financial contributions like renovating a house, and receiving inheritances. Overlooked Contributions: Parenting contributions, including caring for stepchildren and supporting a partner’s children. Impact of Salary on Contributions: Clarifying that higher salaries do not necessarily mean a larger share of the property pool. Special Contributions: Contributions like supporting a partner through education or living arrangements with in-laws. Legal Framework: Aligning contributions with the Family Law Act and understanding its implications. Real-Life Examples: Case studies and examples illustrating how different contributions are valued. Advice for Self-Advocacy: Tips for ensuring all your contributions are recognized and presented effectively. PARENTING Contributions  in Property Settlement Links & Resources Mentioned in the Podcast: Contributions Episode Salary Doesn't Count Future Needs The Pep Talk You Didn't Know You Needed PATREON ACCESS - https://www.patreon.com/TheDivorceCoursePodcast Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Property Settlement 00:32 Understanding Contributions in Property Settlement 01:51 Common Contributions in Property Settlement 03:30 Surprising Contributions in Parenting 05:34 Parenting Contributions: Stepchildren and Special Cases 10:13 Documenting Parenting Contributions 18:13 Stay-at-Home Parents and Property Settlement 21:20 Challenges of Family Court and Outdated Legislation 22:29 Evolving Roles and Contributions in Modern Families 24:28 Counter Arguments to Stay-at-Home Parent Contributions 27:00 Superannuation and Property Settlements 30:17 Short vs. Long Marriages: Impact on Contributions 33:00 Grey Divorces and Contributions 34:39 Importance of Legal Advice and Self-Advocacy 37:59 Final Thoughts and Resources Emergency Contacts: WOMEN'S SHELTER SERVICE LEGAL AID Lifeline: 13 11 14 Mensline Australia: 1300 789 978 Kids Help Line: 1800 551 800 Aboriginal Family Domestic Violence Hotline: 1800 019 123 Relationships Australia Police: 000 DVConnect Womensline: 1800 811 811 (24 hours, 7 days a week) DV Connect Mensline: 1800 600 636 National DV line: 1800 737 732 (1800 RESPECT)     Thank you for tuning in to this episode on property settlement contributions. Understanding your rights and contributions is crucial in ensuring a fair settlement. If you found this

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This Mother and Daughter duo discuss and cover the legal stages and steps that you will face on your way to freedom through divorce. These are practical and real discussions with Lyn Galvin a family lawyer of 35 years experience and her daughter Laura a divorced mother of three. Laura helps turn her mother's lawyer jargon into something everyone will understand. Lyn shares all her tips and practical advice on separating. Through this podcast they aim to help you through your Australian divorce or de-facto separation to make it more cost effective and less stressful. instagram @thedivorcecourse

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    Laura & Lyn
  • Years Active
    2020 - 2024
  • Episodes
    173
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    Clean
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    © Copyright 2024 The Divorce Online Course & Podcast
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    The Divorce Course Podcast

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