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You don’t have to go through life with your hair on fire–there is another way to be productive and experience success in your REALIFE! Through real-life stories, interviews, and practical application, host Teresa McCloy, Enneagram Professional, Business Coach, and the creator of the REALIFE Process™ will share each week how to apply the Enneagram in your life! If you’re looking to bring your most authentic self to your life, relationships, and work take a look through the nine lenses of the Enneagram and discover how accessing the best parts of you–head, heart, and body–can help move you forward in the things that matter most!

The Enneagram in your REALIFE Teresa McCloy

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You don’t have to go through life with your hair on fire–there is another way to be productive and experience success in your REALIFE! Through real-life stories, interviews, and practical application, host Teresa McCloy, Enneagram Professional, Business Coach, and the creator of the REALIFE Process™ will share each week how to apply the Enneagram in your life! If you’re looking to bring your most authentic self to your life, relationships, and work take a look through the nine lenses of the Enneagram and discover how accessing the best parts of you–head, heart, and body–can help move you forward in the things that matter most!

    080: The Enneagram and Forgiveness with Brenda Reiss

    080: The Enneagram and Forgiveness with Brenda Reiss

    Forgiveness is a choice. Sometimes we feel we've been wronged. Other times it's us who have wronged someone else. Either way, we feel either in our head, heart, or body and being able to name and be aware of where it shows up for each of us is powerful! 
    This week on the podcast we'll use the tool of the Enneagram to explore the lifelong journey of forgiveness with Forgiveness Coach, Brenda Reiss. 
    Brenda shares that we teach what we often need to learn ourselves. After walking through multiple divorces and realizing she was blaming herself and her body was breaking down physically in the process, she started doing some deeper excavating and came across a Forgiveness Coach–it was just what she needed. 
    In her personal journey not only to forgive her former spouses but also herself, Brenda discovered the wisdom of the Enneagram and has developed her own Radical Forgiveness Process to invite others to experience a change of perception and greater freedom through forgiveness.
    On this episode you'll hear Brenda share about: 
    What is a Forgiveness Coach?  How has discovering she's at home as Enneagram Type 1, invited her to greater awareness and healing in her body?  How can understanding your personality type lead to greater self-forgiveness and self-acceptance?  Practically using a Forgiveness List to identify triggers, feelings and discover patterns that lead to wholeness Connect with Guest Brenda Reiss, Forgiveness Coach and CEO of Brenda Reiss Coaching:
    Website - brendareisscoaching.com Instagram - forgivenesscoach Facebook - brendareiss-coach More about Brenda: We don’t always know how holding grudges or resentment can interrupt our daily lives let alone businesses.  Yet it does.  Brenda guides women entrepreneurs and business owners to discover where those grudges can be keeping them stuck and limiting their ability to achieve their goals and dreams.  This changes their life experience and creates space for the business and relationships they are ready to create.
    Brenda’s books “Forgive Yourself” and “Journey to Your Heart Space” are available on Amazon and are excellent resources for those unable to attend her live workshops or group online course.
    REALIFE Resouces from this Episode:
    Genesis Process - https://www.genesisprocess.org/
    Are you ready to explore the FULL CIRCLE harmony of the Enneagram? Visit therealifeprocess.com and download our FREE Typing Guide or dive deeper with a REALIFE Enneagram Personality Profile Package. You'll have the option to upgrade and work with a REALIFE Process Coach to walk through your profile results too! 
    After spending some time with us on the podcast, you may be ready to consider attending a LIVE or Virtual REALIFE Retreat to begin building your own Modern Day Rule of Life through the REALIFE Process® framework. If you'd like more information about the retreats, email me at teresa@therealifeprocess.com, and let's set up a time to chat. You can also click here to put your name on the Waiting List to be the first to receive information about our fall retreats! 
    Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on:
    Facebook- The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloycoach About Teresa McCloy:
    Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, an ACC Executive Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!

    • 40 min
    079: The Enneagram Through the Eyes of a Teenager with Asia Heinz

    079: The Enneagram Through the Eyes of a Teenager with Asia Heinz

    Have you stopped to ask your kids how they're doing in the midst of the global pandemic?
    On this week's episode, we have a special treat for you–Asia Heinz is an insightful, creative, joyful young lady who loves the tool of the Enneagram and...she's only 17 years old! 
    Asia is a junior in high school and is the podcast host of the brand new show "SOAP" (a clean podcast, available on Spotify) geared toward teenagers her age to provide a place for deeper conversation.
    Listen in as Asia shares from her beautiful Type 4 teenage heart about:
    Things she's grown to appreciate more during the pandemic How a brand new creative outlet has emerged as a result of being stuck at home What she's learned about processing her emotions and feelings as a Type 4 How the Enneagram is helpful for her whole family dynamic and provides both parents and kids greater understanding and empathy Being able to 'see' the Enneagram through the eyes of a teenager is such an extraordinary experience! As we mentioned on the podcast, we don't ever recommend typing young children as their ego structures are still forming. With teenagers, like Asia, who are curious and intuitive, we always encourage parents to allow kids to do their own discovery.
    We have provided an additional FREE Resource page with several REALIFE Process Recommended Family Resources below that can help to guide your discovery as a parent, as well as resources that will support teenagers in their discovery too! 
    Check out Asia's Podcast "soap" on Spotify
    REALIFE Resources: 
    Click here to access the REALIFE Process Recommended Family Resource Page
    040: The Intersection of Strengths and the Enneagram – A Great Conversation with Chris Heinz
    061: Using the N.O.W. Method with the Enneagram

    Asia's Dad, Chris Heinz with her original creation, "The Enneaman."
    Are you ready to explore the FULL CIRCLE harmony of the Enneagram? Visit therealifeprocess.com and download our FREE Typing Guide or dive deeper with a REALIFE Enneagram Personality Profile Package. You'll have the option to upgrade and work with a REALIFE Process Coach to walk through your profile results too! 
    After spending some time with us on the podcast, you may be ready to consider attending a LIVE or Virtual REALIFE Retreat to begin building your own Modern Day Rule of Life through the REALIFE Process® framework. If you'd like more information about the retreats, email me at teresa@therealifeprocess.com, and let's set up a time to chat. You can also click here to put your name on the Waiting List to be the first to receive information about our fall retreats! 
    Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on:
    Facebook- The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloycoach About Teresa McCloy:
    Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, an ACC Executive Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!

    • 26 min
    078: Moving Forward in Spite of Fear With Jennifer Allwood

    078: Moving Forward in Spite of Fear With Jennifer Allwood

    It's hard to sit still and not push even in the middle of a pandemic when you're wired to push! 
    Jennifer Allwood is a coach, business owner, and author of the #1 best selling book, "Fear is Not the Boss of You." She thrives in helping women see why they're stuck and guides them to discover a way forward to keep going in spite of fear.
    On the Enneagram she identifies with Type 3 as her home space and connects in harmony to the 6 and 9. She knows how to get things done effectively, meet milestone goals, and be successful.
    As a true Type 3, this season of the pandemic has been full of invitations to slow down, deepen awareness, and grow. In this episode she shares:
    Her resistance to learning she was a Type 3 on the Enneagram How the Enneagram has been helpful in relationships What one thing she hopes her family, clients and others see as she's been pulling back in this season How redefining success has given her greater freedom to embrace authenticity and change as she moves forward More about Jennifer Allwood:  
    Jennifer has found freedom in her business, her time, her finances, and most importantly, her faith, through years of releasing more and more over to God. What started as a desire to help pull her family out of financial desperation became a calling to help other women find the courage to do the same. 
    Jennifer stands steadfast in the idea of using her business as a way to serve God and her family. Her goal is to use the tools so readily available—social media, email, the Internet—as the way to make this happen. She knows getting unstuck, pushing through the overwhelm, and doing things in spite of fear are key in growing any business.
    Today Jennifer is able to use her social media following of 500K people, her podcast, The Jennifer Allwood Show, with more than 1.5m downloads, her coaching groups with thousands of members, and her #1 best selling book, Fear is Not the Boss of You, to help other women do for their businesses what she has done in hers.
    Jennifer inspires women to believe that they are enough...she motivates them and gives them permission to lean into their calling. She’s the best friend that will light a fire underneath them and cheer them on every step of the way. 
    Visit Jennifer's website to download the first chapter of her book.
    Connect with Jennifer Allwood: 
    Website: https://jenniferallwood.com/ Podcast: https://jenniferallwood.com/podcast/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/themagicbrushinc/ Instagram: jenniferallwood REALIFE Resources: 
    Are you ready to explore the FULL CIRCLE harmony of the Enneagram? Visit therealifeprocess.com and download our FREE Typing Guide or dive deeper with a REALIFE Enneagram Personality Profile Package. You'll have the option to upgrade and work with a REALIFE Process Coach to walk through your profile results too! 
    After spending some time with us on the podcast, you may be ready to consider attending a LIVE or Virtual REALIFE Retreat to begin building your own Modern Day Rule of Life through the REALIFE Process® framework. If you'd like more information about the retreats, email me at teresa@therealifeprocess.com, and let's set up a time to chat.
    Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on:
    Facebook- The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloycoach About Teresa McCloy:
    Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, an ACC Executive Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!

    • 48 min
    077: The Enneagram in Recovery with REALIFE Process Coach, Terri Johnson

    077: The Enneagram in Recovery with REALIFE Process Coach, Terri Johnson

    I'm so excited for you to meet one of my dearest friends and our newest coach and team member at the REALIFE Process®, Terri Johnson.
    Terri is an Intake Coordinator at a Substance Abuse Treatment Center. She has been an Addictions Counselor and brings years of experience to the team from the business field as well as she served as a Banker for Wells Fargo and also as a Bank Manager coaching coaches and facilitating corporate training.
    As well as working in the recovery space, Terri is in recovery herself and has been sober for nine years. She has a beautiful story and on this episode shares:
    Her journey from corporate success in Manhattan to being flat on her back learning to breathe again The ways she's learned to live fully into her whole self through her 7-4-1 Harmony Triad The value of keeping her recovery #1 through the practice of daily surrender  How she leans into harmony through seasons like COVID-19 Through Terri's story, you'll hear once again how the Enneagram when applied in your REALIFE is a tool that can bring harmony and healing! It gives language to feelings, empathy, compassion, and offers ways to connect with our whole self–head, heart, and gut.
    We're so excited to welcome Terri to the REALIFE Process team as a coach working with our REALIFE Process Facilitator Certification Program. With her life experience and passion for the Enneagram and the REALIFE Process, she'll bring extraordinary value to the team coaching others to facilitate the Process! 
    REALIFE Resources: 
    Are you ready to explore the FULL CIRCLE harmony of the Enneagram? Visit therealifeprocess.com and download our FREE Typing Guide or dive deeper with a REALIFE Enneagram Personality Profile Package. You'll have the option to upgrade and work with a REALIFE Process Coach to walk through your profile results too! 
    After spending some time with us on the podcast, you may be ready to consider becoming a REALIFE Process Certified Facilitator in order to use the 4 Steps in the Process with clients you serve. If you'd like more information about the facilitator cohort that opens this fall, email me at teresa@therealifeprocess.com, and let's set up a time to chat.
    Check out these previous episodes mentioned on this week's podcast: 
    022: Enneagram Harmony Stances [REALIFE Enneagram] 061: Using the N.O.W. Method with the Enneagram  Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on:
    Facebook- The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloycoach About Teresa McCloy:
    Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, an ACC Executive Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!

    • 27 min
    076: Let Me Reintroduce You to Erica Vinson, REALIFE Process® Coach

    076: Let Me Reintroduce You to Erica Vinson, REALIFE Process® Coach

    Are you ready to do your best work and live your best life? It all begins with discovering your best REALSELF. 
    This week on the podcast, Erica Vinson, our Chief People Officer is back, but we're ready to let you in on a role she's been playing for a while behind the scenes as we move forward with the business–Erica not only takes care of the people behind the process, she's also our very first REALIFE Process® Coach! 
    On this episode Erica shares about:  
    How the REALSELF work of the Enneagram + the REALIFE Process® has made an impact in her story personally Moving into the additional role of REALIFE Process® Coach Benefits of Coaching with the tool of the Enneagram and the REALIFE Process® Framework As we continue in this podcast series, "What's Your Story?" you'll get to know Erica as a Type Six on the Enneagram that identifies with the 3-6-9 Harmony Triad. You'll also meet our newest REALIFE Process® Coach, Terri Johnson, on next week's episode.
     
    We're so excited to be doing the work of training facilitators to go out into the world to use the REALIFE Process® Framework with clients and can't wait to share more REALIFE stories with you! 
     
    If you're ready to learn more about one of the steps in the process, join us TODAY, June 3rd, at 2 PM ET for a FREE Workshop called, "The Missing Pieces of Time Blocking: How to Get Your Projects Done AND Have Down Time." Click here to register for the workshop.
     
    REALIFE Resources from this Episode:
     
    Interested in going deeper with the Enneagram and beginning to build your own sustainable framework that fits your REALIFE? Join us for the REALIFE Process® Virtual Retreat on June 19th and 20th! 
    Click here for all of the details–one thing we can guarantee is that this will not be a sit in front of the screen with a slide deck type of experience. You'll be actively building your REALIFE Process® each step of the way so that you walk away with your own process and a Modern-Day Rule of Life! 
    If you're interested in exploring the FULL CIRCLE harmony of the Enneagram and the wholeness and healing it invites you to, consider a deeper dive with your own REALIFE Enneagram Profile! You'll have the option to upgrade your experience and meet one-to-one with a REALIFE Process® Coach to process your profile results packet and can even learn more about your distraction zones!
    Check out the latest series on Exploring the REALIFE Process®:
    066: Exploring the REALIFE Process: REALIFE View 067: Exploring the REALIFE Process: REALIFE Action 068: Exploring the REALIFE Process: REALIFE Time 069: Exploring the REALIFE Process: REALIFE Living
    Inscription on the tomb of an Anglican Bishop in Westminster Abbey, dated 1100 A. D.
    “When I was young and free and my imagination had no limits,
    I dreamed of changing the world.
    As I grew older and wiser I discovered the world would not change –
    So I shortened my sights somewhat and decided to change only my country,
    But it too seemed immovable.
    As I grew into my twilight years, in one last desperate attempt,
    I settled for changing only my family, those closest to me,
    But alas, they would have none of it.
    And now I realize as I lie on my deathbed if I had only changed myself first,
    Then by example, I might have changed my family,
    From their inspiration and encouragement, I would then have been able to better my country,
    And who knows, I might have even changed the world.”
    Programs for Continued Growth and REALSELF Work Mentioned:
    Professional Christian Coaching Institute DivorceCare Transforming Center Genesis Process Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on:
    Facebook- The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloycoach About Teresa McCloy:
    Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, an ACC Executive Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagra

    • 28 min
    075: The Fight of Our Lives: McGreevy's Story

    075: The Fight of Our Lives: McGreevy's Story

    Whether you're single and desire to be in a committed, healthy relationship, or married and in a season of struggle or even great fullness, it can feel like you're in the ring for the fight of your life!   
     
    Michael and Lydia McGreevy are passionate about protecting their marriage and paying it forward to help others as well. They believe the 'fight' is worth it every day and on this episode they share: 
     
    Harmony Relational Wisdom from the 7-4-1 Triad The deep healing and freedom that comes from doing your own work first Practical ways to value and 'fight' for time together with your significant other How creating a Marriage Centered-Home rather than a Kid-Centered home provides safety for parents and kids too Together, Michael and Lydia share how the Enneagram has been a helpful tool in their marriage to promote understanding and empathy as they stay in the ring together for the 'fight' of their lives! 
    Meet the McGreevy's: 
     
    Michael was born and raised in Buffalo, NY.  A full-blooded Irishman.
     
    Lydia was born in Chicago but was quickly moved to the great state of Texas!
     
    A full-blooded Egyptian.
     
    We live in Buffalo, NY with our 3 little people.  Gunnar (5), Skylar (3.5), and Asher(2).
     
    Together we are passionate about protecting our marriage. Enjoying time together. Traveling. Hosting. Anything that involves competition. Delicious food. Great coffee. And certainly our family.
     
    We created ‘The Fight of Your Lives’ podcast to be a resource for singles who desire to one day be in a great marriage and for those already married to keep fighting for your marriage.  We truly believe it is a catalyst for greatness in so many other areas of your life. 

    REALIFE Resources & Connections:
     
    Join us on June 3rd at 2 PM ET for a FREE Workshop called, "The Missing Pieces of Time Blocking: How to Get Your Projects Done AND Have Down Time." Click here to register for the workshop.
     
    If you're ready to go deeper with the Enneagram and begin building a sustainable framework that fits your REALIFE, join us for the REALIFE Process® Virtual Retreat on June 19th and 20th! 
    Click here for all of the details–one thing we can guarantee is that this will not be a sit in front of the screen with a slide deck type of experience. You'll be actively building your REALIFE Process® each step of the way so that you walk away with your own process and a Modern-Day Rule of Life! 
    A rule of life is a commitment to live your life in a pattern of behavior. It is meant to be crafted with prayer and discernment, in partnership with God, as you consider the way God made you and the values He has inscribed upon your heart. Once written, it serves as a tool or framework that can help you make decisions for your life and determine how best to order your days.
    If you're interested in exploring the FULL CIRCLE harmony of the Enneagram and the wholeness and healing it invites you to, consider a deeper dive with your own REALIFE Enneagram Profile! You'll have the option to upgrade your experience and meet one-to-one with a REALIFE Process® Coach to process your profile results packet and can even learn more about your distraction zones!
    Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on:
    Facebook- The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloycoach About Teresa McCloy:
    Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, an ACC Executive Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!

    • 45 min

Customer Reviews

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75 Ratings

75 Ratings

Thylittlehandmaiden ,

Incredibly knowledgeable!

Theresa blew me away during a business retreat when she helped a business team understand their types and what sets them apart. She helped them see how they can work better as a team because of their differences, as well as understand each other’s reasons behind doing something that would normally frustrate others. It was so eye opening. I recommend listening to her every chance you get!

Happy88888998989 ,

This is the perfect podcast to up level your personal and professional life

For anyone looking to level up their personal and professional lives, the Enneagram in your REALIFE is the perfect podcast for you. Teresa McCloy is a very professional host who puts the guest and listener first so the audience takes away the best nuggets and content as possible from the interview. I hope you find this podcast helpful as useful and inspirational as I do.

48DaysDan ,

Know Thyself - and to Thine Own Self be True!

Shakespear reminded us to know ourselves - and that's still great advice! The Enneagram is a wonderful tool for increased personal understanding - and for understanding those we love and care about. Teresa is my trusted expert for the insights to make the Enneagram come alive. This podcast will gently walk you into more meaningful relationships - and a more meaningful life.

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