56 episodes

If you’re longing to hit the “reset button” on what it means to be a man in this world, you’re not alone. There is a growing movement of men who are evolving, redefining personal power, sexuality, success and boldly defining their manhood. As an internationally recognized speaker and coach, Destin inspires and motivates you to be a version of yourself you perhaps never realized was possible, while providing the tools to help you get there. He interviews leaders who have meaningful contributions to this conversation and offers his unique brand of personal evolutionary coaching on air. He brings 19 years of direct study, training and active life experimentation to help you have better sex, deeper connection to your masculine power and understand women and most importantly yourself like never before.

The Evolved Masculine: Redefining Sex, Power & Success Destin Gerek

    • Sexuality

If you’re longing to hit the “reset button” on what it means to be a man in this world, you’re not alone. There is a growing movement of men who are evolving, redefining personal power, sexuality, success and boldly defining their manhood. As an internationally recognized speaker and coach, Destin inspires and motivates you to be a version of yourself you perhaps never realized was possible, while providing the tools to help you get there. He interviews leaders who have meaningful contributions to this conversation and offers his unique brand of personal evolutionary coaching on air. He brings 19 years of direct study, training and active life experimentation to help you have better sex, deeper connection to your masculine power and understand women and most importantly yourself like never before.

    Seduction, Porn, Deida, Consent & More w/ Guest Michael Ellsberg (Ep. 55)

    Seduction, Porn, Deida, Consent & More w/ Guest Michael Ellsberg (Ep. 55)

    #055: Seduction, Porn, Deida, Consent & More w/ Guest Michael Ellsberg

    Michael Ellsberg is the co-author of "The Last Safe Investment: Spending Now to Increase Your True Wealth Forever" (Penguin, 2016), and the author of "The Education of Millionaires: Everything You Won't Learn in College about How to Be Successful" (Penguin, 2011), and "The Power of Eye Contact: Your Secret for Success in Business, Love and Life" (HarperCollins, 2010).

    • 1 hr 16 min
    The Shadow Side of #MeToo and Publicly Outing Perpetrators w/ Lillie Love (Ep. 54)

    The Shadow Side of #MeToo and Publicly Outing Perpetrators w/ Lillie Love (Ep. 54)

    I came across Lillie Love's provocative article with this title and it seemed a valuable jumping off point to discuss the uncomfortable shadow side of where we are right now in the #metoo movement...
    https://medium.com/@lilclairelove/the-shadow-side-of-metoo-and-publicly-outing-perpetrators-5ec8d0d50142

    • 1 hr 19 min
    What real people think about the state of man/woman relations today. LIVE on the street interviews (Ep. 53)

    What real people think about the state of man/woman relations today. LIVE on the street interviews (Ep. 53)

    • 45 min
    "AMERICAN CIRCUMCISION the documentary & the controversy" w/ director Brendon Marotta (Ep. 52)

    "AMERICAN CIRCUMCISION the documentary & the controversy" w/ director Brendon Marotta (Ep. 52)

    http://CircumcisionMovie.com

    • 1 hr 27 min
    Understanding Women w/guest Dave McDermott (Ep. 51)

    Understanding Women w/guest Dave McDermott (Ep. 51)

    "Two years ago on a coaching course in LA, I met Destin Gerek, at a time in my life when I was a mess in how I was relating to women.
    At the time I knew I'd found a man who could really help me sort out what was holding me back from having the romantic life I wanted.
    Prior to meeting him, I'd studied and worked with pick-up artists who were the alpha-male "I'll help you date multiple hot women" types.
    Rating women out of 10. Focusing on sex as the goal. Going out with wingmen to prey on women. Marking endless notches on their belt and leaving a trail of hurt behind them. Unable to form quality relationships of depth with women.
    But Destin was different. He really cared about women. He deeply understood the importance of safety for women, both physical and emotional.
    His wisdom on seduction went far deeper than the professional seducers I'd worked with. They were like kindergarten students compared to him.
    It was a life-changing pleasure to do the equivalent of a PhD in Understanding Women with him during my time as his apprentice.
    My work with Destin was one of the major components of moving from a place of having loveless or toxic relationships with women, as well as a lot of empty casual sex, to a place of being in an awesome healthy relationship with an incredible woman.
    A relationship that has real depth of love. A relationship that found and continues to find my edges for expansion. Where my beloved and I create the kind of relationship that works for us, rather than blindly follow how we were told a relationship should be.
    The work I did with Destin was the fire-cracker up the bum I needed. To turn my focus to being a student of women, with full authenticity. To understand that although there'll always be an element of mystery to women, there is a LOT that can be understood by a man. To understand that the journey of understanding women continues until the last breath. To understand that very few men on the planet really understand women well. To understand that most of the men who claim to understand women, only understand them at a relatively superficial level." --@Dave McDermott

    • 1 hr 10 min
    The Big Challenges of Leadership: A Panel Discussion (Ep. 50)

    The Big Challenges of Leadership: A Panel Discussion (Ep. 50)

    There are times in life in which you will be confronted with challenges greater than you would have thought you'd ever be able to handle. And yet, there they are. If you are a leader in a company, organization, or community that goes doubly.
    I am joined by Jaiya Ma (Erotic Blueprints & New World Sex Education), Robert Kandell (cofounder of OneTaste, host of TuffLove podcast), and Amy Jo Goddard (author of Woman on Fire, and The Fire Woman Retreat).
    Each with at least a decade of leadership experience.
     
    We will be exploring:
    -How we've navigated extremely difficult situations that have arisen in our organizations.
    -How we've each made mistakes and/or negatively impacted individuals or our community at large
    -What we got right
    -How we can uplevel the industry & minimize these things from continuing to happen
    -What policies or best practices have we come up with for ourselves as leaders and our community, what's our current best understanding, what are our learnings
    -How to navigate recover that actually deepens the trust, connection and intimacy of a situation.
    -And likely a whole lot more...
     
    Each of my three guests is extraordinary in their own right. I am honored to have them join me for this episode while I'm in the midst of navigating my own crisis situation.

    • 1 hr 19 min

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