The Fit Parent Podcast with Jeff Dalzell

Jeff Dalzell

A dad with young kids talks about how to make lasting changes to your health, nutrition and fitness while also dealing with the chaos of parenthood. The host, Jeff Dalzell is an online & in-person fitness, nutrition, and weight loss coach based in the seacoast area of New Hampshire where he lives with his wife, Megan, older son, Levi, and twin son and daughter, Parker and Charlotte. Jeff is frequently joined by his client & co-host, Amy Steinberg, a mom & real-estate agent who loves history, as well as other elite coaches and industry experts. Thanks for listening.

  1. OCT 30

    Episode 114: The One Where We Win Before We Start

    On this episode of the Fit Parent podcast, Amy and I get super actionable on how to set yourself up for success. We all know we need consistency, but what happens when you’re consistent with the wrong thing? You’re just consistently spinning your wheels. So, this episode is about the critical difference between consistency vs. effectiveness and how to translate those big principles into a daily system where success is the default. We walk you through the massive mistake most people make (holding their first-draft habits to a final-draft standard) and share the system pivot I made to guarantee my routine succeeds, which—spoiler alert—involves waking up at the crack of dawn (4:30 AM). This isn’t about willpower; it’s about making starting as easy as possible. You’ll learn how to stop hoping for motivation and start building a system that literally sets you up for automatic success. Here are the key takeaways from this episode: Why it’s important to embrace the iteration process. The importance of stopping waiting for motivation and starting to build a system that makes success the default How to make things happen by identifying and eliminating the “optional” part of your routine The importance of your environment: how to make quitting feel harder than starting. Why consistency is the goal and effectiveness is the refinement Most of us already know what to do. We just haven’t set up our life to let us win. If you’re ready to stop judging your first-draft systems and start removing all the barriers that are stopping you from your workout, hit play. It's time to stop spinning your wheels and start building a system that actually gets results. To get more content like this, follow me on Instagram, join my free Facebook group or checkout my website for free guides.

    58 min
  2. OCT 16

    Episode 113: The One about Systems vs. Effectiveness

    If you've ever tried your absolute hardest at something, whether it's getting your kid to sleep or hitting a fitness goal, and still failed, you probably blamed yourself. Stop right there. You are not the exception to the rule. You are not doomed to failure. On this episode of the Fit Parent podcast, Amy and I dissect the most vulnerable question every successful person has to answer: When do you stop persevering and start pivoting? From the trenches of life, we break down the magic metric that determines your next move: If you did the absolute best you are capable of doing for an extended period, and the needle didn't move... you need a new map, not more motivation. If you’re burnt out, beating yourself up, and ready to quit something you still desperately want, this episode is your permission slip to change the game. Stop enduring the hard. Start evolving.  Here are the most important takeaways from this episode: Why most people bail on their fitness goals happens between weeks four and seven Why you need hard commitment to the process and a specific timeline, which takes quitting off the table when the pain hits How to definitively know if your plan is the problem The importance of realistic expectations and building a reasonable plan for the chaos Why finding the right strategies is essential for overcoming obstacles You are not broken, but your strategy might be. If you've been grinding and wondering why you failed, this episode is your answer. It’s what you need to stop beating yourself up and start changing the game. Hit that play button, and let's figure out your next, better move. Stop enduring the hard. Start evolving. To get more content like this, follow me on Instagram, join my free Facebook group or checkout my website for free guides.

    51 min
  3. OCT 2

    Episode 111: The One about Owning your Choices

    In this episode, Amy and I discuss the absolute mental warfare that goes on when life gets messy. We discuss my own total failure to execute a workout I was perfectly set up for and how I let a 7-minute moment of family chaos and emotional avoidance dictate a bad choice. The truth is, trying harder is not a strategy. You have to drop the victim card and finally own your choices. We go deep into a tactical framework to help you own your choices. Every time you fail to execute, the first thing you need to know is if you’re dealing with a systems issue or an identity issue and stop using willpower as your only weapon. This is about being a professional at life and building non-negotiable habits, even when you feel like life is taking you in a different direction. We go into depth on: Why "trying harder" is a terrible strategy and why you need to swap it for strategic choices. How to figure out if your fail is a Systems Issue (the environment/process) or an Identity Issue (the choices you make). The painful reason why you keep breaking promises to yourself, even when you are perfectly set up for success. Why you need to choose action over emotional avoidance to feel less stressed, not more. The non-negotiable step of establishing enough volume (consistency) before you can even think about pivoting your plan. If you're ready to stop letting your feelings derail your goals and finally get enough data to actually know if the plan you have set up is effective, don’t miss this episode. Stop making excuses and learn how to operate as You 2.0. You can apply for the Fit Parent Project on my website or by sending me a message on Instagram.

    55 min

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A dad with young kids talks about how to make lasting changes to your health, nutrition and fitness while also dealing with the chaos of parenthood. The host, Jeff Dalzell is an online & in-person fitness, nutrition, and weight loss coach based in the seacoast area of New Hampshire where he lives with his wife, Megan, older son, Levi, and twin son and daughter, Parker and Charlotte. Jeff is frequently joined by his client & co-host, Amy Steinberg, a mom & real-estate agent who loves history, as well as other elite coaches and industry experts. Thanks for listening.

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