Smarties Jen P. and Cheryl are back talking to educator Mary Yorke Oates, Admissions Director at Charlotte Latin School, about the book "The Gifts of Failure" by Jessica Lahey. This is the second in a series we’re doing with Mary Yorke on this awesome book. If you haven’t read it, we HIGHLY recommended it for parents with kids of all ages and stages. We're talking about the "Gift of No" today. When we think gifts, we think flowers, chocolates, things that are things that make us feel happy, but today we are talking about how telling your kids no can be the greatest gift you give them. Have fun listening as we dive into it with Mary Yorke - our resident education expert.