The Hastings Shadmehry Show

Andrea Hastings

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Welcome to "The Hastings Shadmehry Show," the definitive podcast for anyone navigating the complexities of divorce and family law. Join hosts Andee Hastings and Mali Shadmehry, seasoned Atlanta attorneys with a passion for justice and a heart for the families they serve, as they delve into the multifaceted world of family law.

FEB 6

Andee's and Mali's Secrets For Wellness - Episode 81

For the final episode of The Hastings Shadmehry Show, Andee and Mali give you a taste of what you'll find from our new podcast, Forward Facing. The ladies talk about self-care and how to strengthen your mind, body, and spirit, and find balance between these aspects of self and the demands of work, family, and society. Join the conversation for a revealing and enlightening look into the personal lives and habits of these dynamic professional women. 00:23 Welcome 01:45 Warrior or Diplomat? 05:47 The importance of Wellness 07:25 Therapeutic regimen 15:14 Exercise, discipline, and self-awareness 16:11 Andee's Wellness regimen 24:59 Fitness and getting started 29:10 How Wellness impacts leadership 31:54 Outlining possible Wellness routines 37:28 Wrap-up Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.com Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehry TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehry email us at podcast@hsfamilylaw.com Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/

39 min
JAN 23

Episode 60 ENCORE: Juvenile Family Law with Expert Kim Beatty

One more encore, as we get through some tough scheduling issues! In this episode, Andee welcomes special guest Kim Beatty to our new podcast studio! Kim is an EXPERT on Juvenile Family Law, working closely with Child Protective Services, the Foster Care network, families and children in need of assistance. Join the conversation as Kim talks with Andee about the fine points of this complicated but rewarding area of Family Law. Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.com Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehry on TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehry email us at podcast@hsfamilylaw.com Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/ 00:25 - Intros 01:22 - Warrior or Diplomat? 04:49 - Juvenile Court Overview 05:31 - Dependency Cases Explained 07:22 - Role of DFACS 08:09 - Factors for Dependency Cases 10:07 - Child Testimony in Dependency Cases 12:30 - Roles in Juvenile Court 16:01 - Time Frames in Dependency Cases 19:12 - Placement of Children 22:32 - Overlap Between CHINS and Dependency Cases 28:26 - Impact of Case Facts on Placement 31:11 - Resources for Families 35:48 - Contact Information for Kim Beatty 37:49 - Closing

39 min
JAN 9

Episode 70 ENCORE: Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert Jill Heineck

It's another ENCORE episode this week as we wrap up the holidays and prepare for BIG things in 2026. The good news is Andee is in the driver's seat with a guest.Jill Heineck is a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert. Her job is to act as a real estate expert who helps couples valuate and sell their real estate holdings. Jill is a valued member of the Family Law courts, and a fascinating individual.Join the conversation as Andee discovers the fine points of this relatively new area of Family Law!Follow Jill on Instagram: @JillHeinekHomesLearn more at: https://www.heineckandcompany.comVisit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryInstagram: @HastingsShadmehry email us: podcast@hsfamilylaw.comContact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/00:25 Intro / Meet Guest Jill Heineck01:55 What is a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert (CDRE)?03:46 How Divorce Real Estate Expertise Began06:18 CDRE Training & Certification Process10:32 How CDREs Get Involved in Divorce Cases12:15 Real Estate Side Agreements Explained18:42 Why Divorce Real Estate is a Long Game21:32 Staying Neutral in Divorce Property Sales24:20 Ethics & Confidentiality in Divorce Property Listings32:04 Property Valuations vs. Property Listings33:32 Are Online Home Values Reliable?35:55 Benefits of Hiring a CDRE in Divorce38:14 How to Contact Jill Heineck38:55 Wrap-up

40 min
12/26/2025

Episode 57 ENCORE: Narcissism & Divorce Part 3

This episode is an ENCORE of Dr Kyrstin Lokkesmoe's return to her discussion with Andee on Toxic Narcissists. This time around, the ladies discuss how the Toxic Narcissist acts in Divorce proceedings. How do they appear to the judge or to a mediator? How do they treat the attorneys on the other side? Dr Kyrstin provides the clues to look for and gives advice on how to deal with it, and Andee has several observations of her own. It's another fun, warm, and informative conversation as these two talented women break down a complicated and destructive personality disorder. Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehry TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehry Email us at: podast@hsfamilylaw.com Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/00:21 Intro 00:51 Warrior or Diplomat 02:40 Manipulation is a hallmark of the Narcissist 05:10 What is "Projection"? 06:15 The Narcissist creates a false narrative 08:00 Stay in communication with your team 10:00 Have a plan for dealing with the Narcissist 12:30 Rely on your team 14:40 The importance of documentation to combat lies 16:50 The importance of Therapeutic Support 18:20 Anticipating the behavior 22:40 Is there a point where the Narcissist will be exposed?25:00 Give them what they want or Fight? 27:50 Narcissists will sometimes use the court system 30:15 Dr. Kyrstin's new Coaching endeavor 31:40 Wrap-up

33 min
12/12/2025

Episode 64 ENCORE: Why Tell Your Lawyer the Truth?

We're running another ENCORE this time, and it's Mali flying solo to answer the question "Why should you tell your lawyer the truth?"Mali lays out an ironclad case for absolute honesty when it comes to explaining your case to your lawyer. She's seen first hand how disastrously a case can go when a lawyer doesn't know the whole truth about their client's situation.So, join the conversation as Mali makes it perfectly clear that when it comes to the lawyer-client relationship, honesty is the best policy.Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryInstagram: @HastingsShadmehry email us: podcast@hsfamilylaw.comContact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/00:25 Intro00:56 Warrior or Diplomat?03:30 A scenario with your lawyer caught off-guard05:30 How this situation07:10 Mali has experienced this07:40 You MUST tell your lawyer everything08:20 Explanation of privileged information10:00 Embarrassing information is not new to a lawyer11:30 Failure to disclose information lengthens cases12:30 A longer case is a more expensive case14:00 A good lawyer can work around these weaknesses15:00 Settlement is often going to be your best outcome16:20 Trust has to be maintained17:50 A lawyer has seen it all and doesn’t judge18:00 Honesty is cheaper overall18:30 Wrap-up

19 min
11/28/2025

Episode 49 ENCORE: Holiday Parenting Time

Mali and Andee are back together in the studio for this in-depth talk on the importance of having a well-crafted Parenting Time agreement. They cover several different scenarios and many of the pitfalls inherent in working out Parenting Time for holidays throughout the year. They offer their advice about the best ways to approach the trickiest situations and their insights as to how judges approach certain issues. email us at: podcast@hsfamilylaw.com Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.com Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehry TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehry Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/ 00:24 Intro 01:10 Warrior or Diplomat? 04:10 Holidays and Parenting Plans 04:40 Holidays as defined in school calendars 05:30 Regular Parenting Time vs. Holiday Parenting Time 07:00 Work with a Family Law attorney 09:00 When one Holiday supersedes another Holiday 10:18 How will a judge settle Holiday schedules without an agreement? 11:30 Christmas Holidays 16:50 Long Weekend Holidays 18:50 Mother’s/Father’s Day and Spring/Fall Break 19:50 Birthdays 22:30 Separating emotions from the process 24:00 Accommodating family traditions 25:00 Graduated Parenting Time 28:00 A Good agreement prevents needless litigation later 29:00 Matching Parenting Plan with a new partner’s Parenting Plan 31:00 Is it worth filing for a modification after a re-marriage? 32:20 Summer Parenting Time 33:55 Take-aways 35:50 Wrap-up

37 min
10/31/2025

Make-Up Artist and Entrepreneur Tiffany Nicole - Episode 73

In this episode, Andee and Mali introduce you to their make-up artist, Tiffany Nicole. Tiffany came to us a few months ago when the partners were featured in Atlanta Style and Design magazine, and she's been back several times since then. Tiffany has her own story of perseverance and growth and she has experience helping people look and feel their best, including some who are adjusting to a new life after divorce. Join the conversation and meet honorary Wolf Pack member and make-up artist to our stars, Tiffany Nicole! You can book Tiffany's services as a make-up artist at: Vizsabull.square.site Tiffany is on social media at:IG: MUATiffanynicole TikTok: wickedgracetiff Tiffany's new dog fragrance venture will be available at:Website: www.Maison-de-paw.com IG and TIKTOK: maisondepawofficial Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryon TikTok and Instagram: @HastingsShadmehry email us at podcast@hsfamilylaw.com Contact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com 00:26 Intro00:46 Tiffany's Role as our make-up artist02:01 Andee and Mali in another magazine02:55 Warrior or Diplomat08:38 Tiffany's early career & Move to GA09:52 Retail Management Career12:06 Tiffany's business as a make-up artist15:30 Client Types & Approach21:19 Makeovers and the power of reinvention26:28 Announcing Maison de Paw32:23 Product Details & Launch Plan35:25 Empowerment Message39:46 Wrap-up

41 min
10/24/2025

The Marital Balance Sheet in Divorce - Episode 71

There's some extra energy in this episode because Andee and Mali are together in the studio for the first time in quite a while. The topic is the Marital Balance Sheet -- how it works, how it's used, why it is important to do one, do it early, and keep it updated. But of course, they cover some other areas, like their recent trials and hearings, Mali's body building fitness journey, how to be a cheer leader for your best friends, and normalizing how women discuss their health and their weight. Join the conversation, but buckle in -- this is a fun one. 00:31 Intro & Firm Updates01:14 Warrior or Diplomat?02:18 Recent Trial Experience04:03 Trial Prep Intensity09:59 Topic Intro: Marital Balance Sheets10:11 Definition & Purpose11:54 Cash & Bank Accounts13:48 Retirement Accounts14:47 Real Property & Mortgages15:26 Personal Property & Businesses16:33 Balance Sheets at Trial18:17 Debts & Netting20:47 Separate Property Explained22:59 Proposed Division & Strategy25:36 Complex Cases & Forensic Accounting26:37 Client Cooperation & Documents28:27 Wrap up Visit our website: https://hsfamilylaw.comFollow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hastingsshadmehryInstagram: @HastingsShadmehry email us: podcast@hsfamilylaw.comContact us for a consultation: https://hsfamilylaw.com/contact-us/

29 min

Welcome to "The Hastings Shadmehry Show," the definitive podcast for anyone navigating the complexities of divorce and family law. Join hosts Andee Hastings and Mali Shadmehry, seasoned Atlanta attorneys with a passion for justice and a heart for the families they serve, as they delve into the multifaceted world of family law.

Creator

Andrea Hastings
Years Active

2024 - 2026
Episodes

70
Rating

Explicit
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