The Mental Mettle Podcast

Matt Thomann

Helping coaches forge mental toughness in student-athletes

  1. 2D AGO

    Ep. 145 The Resilient Parents Playbook

    👉 Get the free playbook here:  resilientparentsplaybook.com Resilient Parents Playbook: 5 Mistakes Killing Your Athlete’s Confidence (and What to Do Instead) In this episode of The Mental Mettle Podcast, Coach Matt Thomann pulls back the curtain on the real mental performance coach in every young athlete’s life: their parents. Drawing on hundreds of hours working with athletes, coaches, and his own journey through cancer, stroke, and anxiety, Matt breaks down how well‑meaning parents can unintentionally undermine their kid’s confidence, resilience, and love of the game—and how to turn that around. You’ll learn: 🧠 Why the car ride home and dinner table talk shape your athlete’s inner voice more than any practice or pep talk. 🏆 The 3 essential skill sets every athlete needs (physical, game, and mental)—and why we usually neglect the mental. ❌ The 5 most common parent mistakes: Praising results instead of effort and attitude Using negative motivation (“toughen up”) Teaching kids to fight/ignore stress instead of manage it Turning the car ride home into a negative performance review Trying to be both parent and coach ✅ And practical replacements you can start using today: How to praise controllables (effort, attitude, communication) How to build “positive toughness” instead of shame-based toughness Simple tools to help kids manage nerves and anxiety The “Three Good Things” car-ride ritual that rewires their brain for confidence How to run a “reset conversation” if you feel like you’ve been getting it wrong for years This is not a parent-blaming episode—it’s a parent-empowering one. You’ll walk away with a clear framework for becoming the kind of mental performance influence your athlete desperately needs at home. FREE RESOURCE – RESILIENT PARENTS PLAYBOOK Want these concepts broken down into simple, bite-sized steps? Grab Matt’s FREE email course, “The Resilient Parents Playbook,” and get: Daily, practical prompts you can use with your athlete Scripts for car rides and post-game talks Tools to help your kid manage stress, pressure, and mistakes 👉 Get the free playbook here:  resilientparentsplaybook.com

    1h 15m
  2. MAR 2

    Ep. 144: Persistence Over Prodigy with Team USA Climber Ben Hanna

    In this episode of The Mental Mettle Podcast, Coach Matt Thomann sits down with Team USA climber Ben Hanna, one of the grittiest and most consistent competitors in American climbing. Ben was never the “young phenom” who won everything. He never won Youth Nationals, watched peers win titles and World Cups, and almost quit multiple times. Instead, he built a world‑class career on longevity, stubborn persistence, and a refusal to walk away. We dig into: How Ben went from “I’m not that good at this” to becoming:The 24th American to climb 5.15The 86th person in the world to climb V16A fixture in almost every US national final from 2019–2025What competition bouldering really demands mentally:Isolation, unknown problems, and 4–5 minutes to figure everything outWalking out to Boulder 1, getting zero points, and hearing the crowd go wild for everyone elseWhy Boulder #4 is where true mental toughness shows up“Persistence over prodigy”:Why not winning as a kid kept him hungryHow he handled watching peers succeed fasterThe near‑retirement moment just weeks before winning Team TrialsThe courage to say goals out loud:Why Ben is finally vocal about wanting to contend for the OlympicsHow expectations can both sharpen you and crush youAdapting your mindset each season as you go from underdog to “the one to beat”Training, sacrifice, and picking one path:Quitting climbing for months to focus on deadlifts, bench, and finger strengthPouring all his “training water” into one cup and trusting it for a full yearWhy success is less about the perfect plan and more about trying your face offMental health, ADHD, and using sport as medicine:Realizing he’s been self‑medicating anxiety and depression with the gymADHD, dyslexia, and why traditional school was brutalLearning to design life and routines around his brain instead of against itIf you’re an athlete who has never been the prodigy, or a coach/parent trying to help someone navigate pressure, frustration, and long-term development, this conversation is for you. Ben’s story is proof that: You don’t have to peak early to reach the top.Losing can be the best kind of fuel.The real edge is mental mettle—the ability to keep showing up long after the talent stories fade.If you found this helpful, hit subscribe for more conversations on mental performance, resilience, and mindset from athletes across all sports To learn more about the American Paragons Foundation at americanparagons.org For more information about Mental Mettle Coaching Sign up here for the FREE Resilient Parents Playbook. www.resilientparentsplaybook.com Contact:  matt@mentalmettlecoach.com www.mentalmettlecoach.com Schedule a free coaching session with Coach Thomann Order The Mental Mettle Podcast Gear The Mental Mettle Podcast | Official Gear | Bonfire Mental Mettle Links

    1h 27m
  3. FEB 23

    Ep. 143. Skydiving into Sharks with Travis Thomas: Improv Tools for Athletes and Coaches

    Skydiving with Sharks with Travis Thomas: Improv Tools for Athletes and Coaches In this episode of The Mental Mettle Podcast, Coach Matt Thomann sits down with performance coach, keynote speaker, and author Travis Thomas to unpack how improv isn’t just for comedians—it’s a powerful mental performance tool for athletes, coaches, and high performers. Travis shares his journey from being a self-described “mediocre D3 soccer player” to working with elite organizations like U.S. Soccer, the Yankees, Georgia Football, and more. The unlikely bridge? Improvisational comedy. Inside this conversation, you’ll learn: How improv principles like “Yes, And” can transform your mindset in sport and lifeA simple improv game (“word toss”) you can use as a reset tool for anxiety, nerves, or overthinkingWhy performance only happens in the present moment—and how to actually get back therePractical ways to create your own “reset button” under pressureHow to use play and improv to build connection and trust on teamsWhy confidence is overrated and what to focus on instead (courage, commitment, and controllable behaviors)The difference between confidence and belief—and why that matters for athletesHow to shift from internal (me-focused) thinking to external (team-focused) thinking when you’re in a slumpThe improv mantra: “Make your partner look brilliant” and how it can change your team cultureWhether you’re a coach, athlete, parent, or performer in any field, this episode is packed with practical mindset tools you can start using immediately. Connect with Travis Thomas: Website: https://www.liveyesand.com Book: Live Yes, And: What Improv Taught Me About Leadership, Teamwork, and the Meaning of Life Book: Confidence Is Overrated (add your purchase link here) If you found this helpful, hit subscribe, drop a comment with your biggest takeaway, and share this episode with a coach or athlete who needs these tools. For more information about Mental Mettle Coaching Sign up here for the FREE Resilient Parents Playbook. www.resilientparentsplaybook.com Contact:  matt@mentalmettlecoach.com www.mentalmettlecoach.com Schedule a free coaching session with Coach Thomann Order The Mental Mettle Podcast Gear The Mental Mettle Podcast | Official Gear | Bonfire Mental Mettle Links

    1h 28m
  4. FEB 16

    Ep 142: Zen & Grit: The Mental Game of Nordic Combined with USA Olympian Niklas Malacinski

    Olympian and U.S. Nordic Combined national champion Niklas Malacinski joins The Mental Mettle Podcast to break down the real mental side of elite performance. Nordic combined is already wild: ski jumping plus cross-country skiing in one event. But the psychology behind mastering two completely different disciplines? That’s next level. In this episode, we dive into: How Niklas uses meditation and detailed visualization (down to tying his boots and feeling the wind) to nail jumps where millimeters matter The difference between the “Zen” of ski jumping and the “grit” of cross-country racing—and how he switches mindsets between the two What it’s like being the top-ranked American for three straight years and competing with the best in the world When drive becomes toxic: his honest story of overtraining, isolation, and chasing results so hard it backfired How he rebuilt his mental game by going “psycho” about recovery, balance, and joy instead of just grind Using self-talk and affirmations to survive 20–27 minutes alone in your head during a 10k race Why sleep is the most underrated performance enhancer in sports The power of reframing nerves as excitement on the biggest stages, including his first Olympic Games Whether you’re a skier, a football or basketball player, a coach, or just someone obsessed with improvement, Niklas’s insights on mental training, balance, and sustainable high performance will resonate. Timestamps (approx): 0:00 – Intro to Niklas and Nordic Combined 5:30 – Peaking, age, and consistency vs. one-off performances 12:30 – Growing up in Steamboat Springs & discovering Nordic combined 15:30 – The psychology of ski jumping vs. cross-country skiing 19:30 – How Niklas actually visualizes: routines, senses, and slow-motion reps 23:30 – Fixing technical habits through mental reps 26:00 – Self-talk during 10k races & training his mind as hard as his body 29:00 – David Goggins, “weak mind” culture, and why his approach doesn’t fit elite sport 34:00 – When drive turns toxic: overtraining, isolation, and losing joy 40:00 – Rebuilding: balance, recovery, and redefining “psycho” dedication 42:00 – Sleep, rest, and why they’re non‑negotiable for peak performance 44:30 – Representing the U.S. at the Olympics & honoring his community 45:45 – Why you should start paying attention to Nordic combined If you found this helpful, hit subscribe for more conversations on mental performance, resilience, and mindset from athletes across all sports To learn more about the American Paragons Foundation at americanparagons.org For more information about Mental Mettle Coaching Sign up here for the FREE Resilient Parents Playbook. www.resilientparentsplaybook.com Contact:  matt@mentalmettlecoach.com www.mentalmettlecoach.com Schedule a free coaching session with Coach Thomann Order The Mental Mettle Podcast Gear The Mental Mettle Podcast | Official Gear | Bonfire Mental Mettle Links

    1h 3m
  5. FEB 9

    Ep 141: Shane Fisher USA Bobsled Pilot Part 2

    In Part 2 of my conversation with Team USA bobsled pilot Shane Fisher, we go deeper into the real cost of chasing an Olympic dream—and why mindset alone isn’t enough when the bills keep coming. Shane pulls back the curtain on the financial side of being an elite athlete for Team USA: How little funding most athletes actually receiveThe sacrifices and side jobs required just to stay in the gameThe emotional toll of training like a pro while living without pro-level supportWe also unpack the origin story of the American Paragons Foundation—the organization Shane founded to support underfunded Team USA athletes. He explains how American Paragons helps athletes by: Connecting them with employers who understand the demands of high-level trainingPartnering with media platforms and storytellers (like this podcast) to share their journeysMatching them with mentors who’ve navigated the same pathFinding lodging hosts who can relieve the burden of housing costs while they train and competeIf you’ve ever wondered what it truly takes—mentally, emotionally, and financially—to represent your country on the world stage, this episode will change how you see Olympic hopefuls. Tune in to Part 2 with Shane Fisher to learn how you can support America’s next generation of Olympians and become part of the solution. To learn more about the American Paragons Foundation at americanparagons.org For more information about Mental Mettle Coaching Contact:  matt@mentalmettlecoach.com www.mentalmettlecoach.com Schedule a free coaching session with Coach Thomann Order The Mental Mettle Podcast Gear The Mental Mettle Podcast | Official Gear | Bonfire Mental Mettle Links

    1h 4m
  6. JAN 26

    Ep: 139: The Winning Edge with Morgan (Kane) Brons

    In this episode of The Mental Mettle Podcast, Matt sits down with Morgan (Kane) Brons—former Iowa State women’s basketball standout, D2 Sweet 16 finisher at Nova Southeastern, and founder of Winning Edge Coaching. Morgan’s journey is a masterclass in resilience, identity, and mental toughness: In this episode, we cover: Morgan’s path from Utah standout to Iowa State post playerThe ego hit and self-doubt that came with redshirting her freshman yearHow scout team, strength training, and film built her basketball IQ and confidenceLearning mental skills late in college—and why she’s determined to give high school athletes a head startThe impact of sports psychologists and how COVID accelerated mental health awareness in athleticsWhy “control the controllables” and “be confident” became empty phrases—and how to make them actually actionableJournaling, visualization, self-talk, and other tools Morgan used to turn anxiety into performanceThe difference in how girls and boys often handle self-talk and pressureHow habits, not big moments, create success (inspired by The Slight Edge)Why Morgan founded Winning Edge Coaching and how she helps middle and high school athletes with:Mindset & confidenceStrength & recoveryNutrition basicsMentorship and identity beyond sportWe also dive deep into: Identity: Who are you outside of your sport?The danger of tying your entire worth to performanceHow parents can do less harm and more good—especially on the car ride homeWhy athletes need both confidence in who they are and humility to keep growingIf you’re a: High school or middle school athlete who wants to get mentally tougherParent who wants to support your athlete the right wayCoach looking to make mindset more than just a buzzword…this episode is packed with practical ideas you can start using today. Contact Morgan at Winning Edge Coaching - Train to reach your potential! Subscribe to The Mental Mettle Podcast and start forging your 100% Mettle today. For more information about Mental Mettle Coaching Contact:  matt@mentalmettlecoach.com www.mentalmettlecoach.com Schedule a free coaching session with Coach Thomann Order The Mental Mettle Podcast Gear The Mental Mettle Podcast | Official Gear | Bonfire Mental Mettle Links

    1h 9m
  7. JAN 19

    Ep. 138: "Coach the Heart First" with Greg Gisinger

    In this episode of The Mental Mettle Podcast, Coach Matt Thomann sits down with Coach Greg Geisinger to dig into what it really means to “coach the heart first.” After more than 20 years in boys’ high school basketball and a successful run as the head boys coach at Arcola High School, Greg made a surprising move: stepping away from a winning boys program to take over the girls team in a really tough situation. He shares honestly about: How he realized he was once “coaching out of fear, not love”Moving from an old-school, iron-fist style to a heart-first, relationship-driven approachWhy wins and losses alone left him feeling empty, even during Elite Eight and Sweet 16 runsHow coaching the heart has actually produced tougher, more connected teamsA major theme in this conversation is accountability and spiritual support. Greg talks about a former player he now calls his “spiritual caddy” — a trusted brother who walks with him daily in Scripture, prayer, and honest conversations. They text each other their “God shots,” encourage each other, and call each other out when needed. Greg unpacks: Why every coach (and every man) needs a “foxhole brother” and spiritual accountability partnerHow his coaching transformation changed who he is at home as a husband and fatherThe tension and humility of leaving a successful boys program to help stabilize and rebuild the girls sideWhy coaching with love does NOT mean coaching soft—and how his teams are both tough and deeply connectedIf you’re a coach, parent, or leader who senses there has to be more than just chasing the scoreboard, this episode will challenge you to rethink how you lead, how you measure “success,” and who you surround yourself with as you coach the heart first. Subscribe to The Mental Mettle Podcast and start forging your 100% Mettle today. For more information about Mental Mettle Coaching Contact:  matt@mentalmettlecoach.com www.mentalmettlecoach.com Schedule a free coaching session with Coach Thomann Order The Mental Mettle Podcast Gear The Mental Mettle Podcast | Official Gear | Bonfire Mental Mettle Links

    1h 6m

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