The Mess Behind the Success - Therapist Confessions

Dr Erin Bowe
The Mess Behind the Success - Therapist Confessions

Welcome to The Mess Behind the Success podcast where therapists come together to normalise failure and to remove the shame that lands in our bodies when we feel we aren’t enough. Consider this the antidote to the polished version of business and entrepreneurship that we often see online. It’s a place for vulnerable and messy conversations that go beyond the surface. Honest conversations about failure, courses, launches and ideas that didn't work. Imposter and visibility fears and how we move through those blocks in a way that feels aligned for your nervous system.

Episodes

  1. APR 10

    Welcome to The Mess Behind The Success

    Everywhere we look, success seems to be so polished and effortless. We see the six figure launches, the book signings and media gigs, but rarely is anyone talking about the failures; the disappointing launches, the lost revenue, the rejections, the crying on the kitchen floor.  As a clinical psychologist, author, course creator and business mentor, it might look like I’ve got it all together. But trust me, I’ve had my share of falling down. When I started creating courses six years ago, I really thought I was failing. It felt like there were all these women who knew something that I didn't, that there was a secret playbook everyone else had access to but me. But I know now that the success we see on perfectly curated social media posts is not the whole story - not even close! That’s why I’ve created this podcast. It’s a space to have real, unpolished, sometimes uncomfortable discussions with therapists and health professionals who have walked this path. We're talking about the juicy stuff that usually stays hidden, because honestly, we learn more from screw-ups than we ever do from the glossy tales of success. If you're a mission-driven woman who knows deep in your bones that you're meant for more than one-on-one work – whether that's courses, books, retreats or speaking gigs – but find yourself stuck in perfectionism's grip, this is your space.  Join me as I pull back the curtain on what it really takes to build something bigger than yourself, and let’s celebrate the beautifully messy journey of life and business together! LINKS Website: https://doctorerin.com.au/ Instagram: @doctorerinbowe

    4 min
  2. MAR 31

    Dr Tess Crawley on book writing & rejection

    Have you ever felt that strong urge to write a book, only to be daunted by the idea of even drafting that very first chapter? I had the absolute pleasure of chatting with Dr Tess Crawley, a mentor and friend who knows a thing or two about battling those writing demons. Tess is simply incredible. Our paths crossed years ago, and she’s been teaching me business acumen ever since. But there’s more to Tess than business smarts. She’s also dived deep into the world of writing, mixing her rich background in psychology with her passion for the written word. From her acting days to becoming a psychologist, Tess’s journey speaks to the beauty of following your instincts, and shares how her career leap into psychology opened new doors, leading her to explore topics around mental health and later business coaching through writing. Yet, like any seasoned writer, Tess knows rejection well. One failed book project during the lockdown served a tough reminder: failure is part of the deal. It's not about kicking you down but about pushing you toward improvement. Tess gives us her priceless insights on: Turning rejection into fuelKeeping the flame alive amidst setbacksRediscovering success in resilience Writing is not about the final destination, but the countless avenues it creates. Whether you dream of your name on a book cover or simply enjoy the process of storytelling, know that you’re far from alone. It’s a tumultuous road but a truly rewarding one.  For more insights from Tess and to stay updated on her projects, make sure to follow her on her socials. Keep an eye out for her future writing coaching programmes too! LINKS Connect with Tess: Website: https://tesscrawley.com.au/  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-tess-crawley-phd-56b67550  Instragram: @dr.tess.crawley Connect with Erin: Website: https://doctorerin.com.au/  Instagram: @doctorerinbowe

    53 min
  3. FEB 11

    Why I'm Here

    Welcome to the very first episode of the The Mess Behind the Success Podcast I created this podcast for you. The Therapist who dreams of bigger impact... Your 1:1 clients get exceptional results, yet you’re not having the impact you know you could have outside the consulting room. You have brilliant ideas, but you fear being more visible. You wonder if you know enough. (Imposter syndrome, again). You want to speak up about issues that matter but hold yourself back. Maybe you freeze when it comes to taking bold action. This is a space for you to share a really warm, juicy and honest chat about business. I believe that we learn far more from failure and so I want to have deep, vulnerable conversations about what it really takes to find success. I'm less interested in social media hacks and your 6 figure launch, tell me about a time you failed. Talk to me about how you used posttraumatic growth to move it through your nervous system, and what patterns and stuck negative beliefs you've had to keep working through. My background as a psychologist and business coach means I hold space for meaningful transformation. My goal with this podcast is to help you move from self-doubt to courageous thought leader. This is a space for vulnerability and connection. If you are a bit of a sticky beak then you're going to love it. I'm coming from a place of compassion for a version of myself who used to think "what am I doing wrong?", and "everyone else seems to have this worked out" and even "am I good enough to do this work? Maybe I'll have to go back to a full time job". I'm also going to be asking the tough questions - of myself and of my guests, which in turn is going to help to highlight any gaps, challenges or blind spots you maybe haven't fully been aware of yet. You can learn more about working with me: https://doctorerin.com.au/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorerinbowe/?hl=en Thanks for listening. Please subscribe and share!

    25 min

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Welcome to The Mess Behind the Success podcast where therapists come together to normalise failure and to remove the shame that lands in our bodies when we feel we aren’t enough. Consider this the antidote to the polished version of business and entrepreneurship that we often see online. It’s a place for vulnerable and messy conversations that go beyond the surface. Honest conversations about failure, courses, launches and ideas that didn't work. Imposter and visibility fears and how we move through those blocks in a way that feels aligned for your nervous system.

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