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Helping women who suffer from insecurity, anxiety, and guilt find their joy and purpose.

The Other Side of Fea‪r‬ Emily Kesterson

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Helping women who suffer from insecurity, anxiety, and guilt find their joy and purpose.

    DIVORCED MEANS DISQUALIFIED

    DIVORCED MEANS DISQUALIFIED

    If you are divorced or are considering divorce, this episode is for you!

    There is so much shame and so much guilt surrounding divorce. 

    We feel broken and less-than.

    We feel like our kids will never heal and we have ruined them.

    There is fear of the unknow, fear of being alone, and fear of never finding true love. 

    Do any of those beliefs feel good?

    NO! 

    You absolutely can find peace, freedom and happiness, but you have to be willing to let go of your painful beliefs. 

    You were made to LOVE and to be LOVED!

    This episode is really going to change your perspective on divorce and give you the hope you deserve!

    And as promised, here's a link to your Breakthrough Call!

    https://calendly.com/emilykesterson/strategy-session

    • 25 min
    FINDING GOD OUTSIDE OF CHRISTIANITY

    FINDING GOD OUTSIDE OF CHRISTIANITY

    In this episode, I am interviewing my client and friend Deanna.

    Deanna grew up in the church and shares her experience with childhood sexual abuse and how this affected her relationship with God and love.

    So many women can relate to feeling not "pure". 

    It doesn't matter if it was forced or by free will, if you don't meet the Christian purity standards, you are disqualified.

    Deanna has an amazing story and is one of the most incredible women I know.

    Her connection to God is one in a million. 

    If you can relate to feeling shame and feeling unworthy of love, I am here to help!

    Please join my free workshop and start your healing journey today!

    https://www.emilykesterson.com/workshop

    You are loved and you are so worthy! 

    • 1 hr 1 min
    WHAT THE F*** IS VIRGINITY?

    WHAT THE F*** IS VIRGINITY?

    In this episode, I discuss how toxic the theology of virginity was for me and is for so many others.

    Having sex for the first time, consensual or not, does not equal being broke or being less than.

    Having sex doesn't equal giving a part of yourself away that you can't get back. 

    Your sexual history or sexual decisions has nothing to do with who you are and your worth. 

    Scrap the toxic theology right away because what the f***.

    I'm going to leave in there and just let you listen!

    And as promised, here's the link to your free breakthrough session!

    https://calendly.com/emilykesterson/strategy-session

    • 22 min
    HOW TO STOP SETTLING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

    HOW TO STOP SETTLING IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

    In this episode, I share why I settled in my marriage and the patterns I see in so many women!

    We stay in our comfort zone out of fear.

    Fear of being alone, fear of being rejected, and fear of the unknown.

    Our comfort zone may be very toxic and may be preventing us from growing, but at least we know what to expect.

    If you are settling in your relationship, that means you are also settling in other areas.

    How can you reach your full potential when you are choosing to stay stuck?

    If you can relate to this and you feel unfulfilled in your relationship, find out how you can stop this toxic cycle!



    -Emily



    Here is a link to my free webinar!

    Click below to join!

    https://event.webinarjam.com/channel/emily

    • 21 min
    THE DARK NIGHT OF THE SOUL

    THE DARK NIGHT OF THE SOUL

    I named this episode The Dark Night of the Soul because this is the perfect word picture for how it can feel to be breaking through shit you've been carrying with you your whole life!

    My dark night was when I was finally letting go of the religious beliefs that weren't serving me anymore. 

    I was scared shitless! I felt like the rug was being swept out from under me and my comfort zone was totally gone. 

    The dark moments never go away as long as we are growing and accepting that has helped me so much!

    The pain never goes away but what changes is our ability to flow through it gracefully instead of fight it!

    I am stronger than ever before because I have learned to accept the pain and let it mold me.

    If you are struggling and feel like you have no solutions and no hope, click the link below to sign up for my free workshop!

    I share with you exactly what helped me break through and become the best version of me!

    https://event.webinarjam.com/channel/emily

    • 19 min
    HOW TO STOP BEING A FIXER

    HOW TO STOP BEING A FIXER

    The most disrespectful and cruel thing I could do to Craig would be to stay in our relationship for his potential. I'll fully love you "when". This is what I did in my marriage and it broke me when I realized how painful that is to do to someone.

    My heart changed that day but it's not like my habit to "fix" went away, I just knew I never wanted to be like that again. 

    When Craig and I got together it was a whole new world and I had to (and still have to) check myself when I feel like I'm crossing that line. 

    I have to come back to the truth that no matter what Craig does or how he acts, I'm responsible for how I feel. 

    If I don't feel loved, safe and supported, there is nothing he can do to change that. 

    We project our pain on the people we love the most when it's ours to heal.

    In this episode, I dive into how I stopped being a fixer and started to take responsibility for me! And how I learned to set high standards for ME!

    If you're ready to take your life to the next level, join my FREE workshop but clicking the link below!

    https://event.webinarjam.com/channel/emily

    • 17 min

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