47 episodes

A show about infidelity, why it exists and what we can learn from it.

The Other Woman And The Wife Chelsea

    • Society & Culture
    • 3.9 • 47 Ratings

A show about infidelity, why it exists and what we can learn from it.

    #47 The Temptation To Cheat Again

    #47 The Temptation To Cheat Again

    How does a woman who is self described as "the most unlikely candidate to cheat" find herself in an affair? An affair that leaves her reeling and conflicted with a temptation to cheat again no less. Join Chelsea and Ann Marie as they candidly share their reactions, thoughts, and insights about this very situation.
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    • 59 min
    #46 To Tell Or Not To Tell: Affair Disclosure v. Discovery

    #46 To Tell Or Not To Tell: Affair Disclosure v. Discovery

    In this week’s episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie delve into the topic of disclosing your affair verses waiting for it to be discovered. The discussion weighs the merits of voluntary disclosure against the potential trauma of a partner finding out about the affair independently.  
    Topics:
    Weighing Discovery Against DisclosureSteps to Prepare for Revealing an AffairEvaluating the Necessity of Revealing an Affair
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    • 1 hr
    #45 Does Limerence Cause Affairs?

    #45 Does Limerence Cause Affairs?

    In this week's episode, Ann Marie and Chelsea dive into the concept of limerence and its role in infidelity. They discuss how the limerence narrative can limit self-growth by offering overly simplistic explanations, and examine its impact on addressing the root causes of affairs. Finally, they challenge the labels associated with limerence, suggesting it be viewed as a facet of human emotion rather than an addiction.
    Topics:
    LimerenceInfidelityRelationship Dynamics
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    • 49 min
    #44 Gangster Gate and Passion Driven Work

    #44 Gangster Gate and Passion Driven Work

    In this weeks episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie delve into "Gangster Gate," where a group of women doxed members of Chelsea's online community. They explore the dramatic events and their fallout. Chelsea shares her experience and the valuable lessons learned from this challenging situation. They also discuss the struggles and triumphs of building a controversial business from scratch, driven by passion and purpose, despite facing skepticism and opposition.

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    • 1 hr 11 min
    #43 Is Your Affair a Painkiller or a Refuge?

    #43 Is Your Affair a Painkiller or a Refuge?

    In this week's episode, Chelsea and Ann Marie explore the complex motivations behind infidelity by defining and distinguishing between "painkiller" and "refuge" affairs. By facing past traumas and recognizing unhealthy patterns, they discuss how addressing the root causes of infidelity can lead to healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Join us for an insightful discussion on the nuanced reasons behind why people seek affairs and how to move forward in a constructive way.
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    • 1 hr 1 min
    #42 The Affair That Resulted In a Decade-Long Marriage.

    #42 The Affair That Resulted In a Decade-Long Marriage.

    In this weeks very special episode we are joined on the podcast by non other than Chelsea's husband, Stan. Join them as they discuss the intricate terrain of love, resilience, and personal growth after partaking in an affair. From Stan's immigrant roots to the complexities of their relationship dynamics, they offer raw honesty and shared wisdom, illuminating the transformative power of commitment amidst adversity.
    Through candid reflections on overcoming challenges, rebuilding trust, and the importance of therapy, they inspire listeners with their tale of redemption and renewal.
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    • 1 hr 17 min

Customer Reviews

3.9 out of 5
47 Ratings

47 Ratings

Lanie45RN ,

Authentic conversations

Thanks for opening up dialogue regarding a taboo subject matter! Infidelity is very common and yet the stigma regarding it keeps individuals locked in an unnecessary spiral of shame. Shining light into the darkness, leads to healing and complete transformation for all who have experienced the trauma of an affair. It is my hope that in future years, through your grassroots efforts, the world will begin to look at infidelity through a less judgemental lens. Thank you so very much, Chelsea for being such a brave, authentic individual, who is more willing to be the pioneer for these important changes. Your genuine efforts have not gone unnoticed.

ken sharpe ,

I’m a betrayed wife

And this podcast has been very helpful. I was hurt, I was broken. A pain that I had never experienced before. But I was still able to self reflect and understand what brought him to that point. This podcast is honest, and addresses the things that need to be addressed. Marriage and divorce are not black and white. People stay for so many reasons, and sometimes the “safest” choice seems to be an affair.
Thank you for giving a voice to this issue.

ONicodemus ,

Chelsea is amazing

If you hate Chelsea’s content then you’ve never spoken to her privately! Chelsea is absolutely amazing and she was such a safe haven for me when I needed her the most. She had more compassion and grace for me than I did for myself when I was completing her coaching program. Chelsea helped me realize a lot of things about me and my life that I never stopped to even think about or understand. Being a career oriented working Mom with two young children most days you can end up on autopilot and need to hit the reset button or you’ll implode... If you want to take it to the next level look into her private community or coaching options. You won’t regret it!

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