The Refined Collective Podcast is hosted by Kat Harris. Her vision is to create a safe space for women and men to take off the super-man cape of having it all together, and share their stories authentically and honestly.
That’s What He Said: Sexual Formation + Cultivating Desire with Jon Tyson
Welcome back to the That’s What He Said series. This week, I’m wrapping up the series with a conversation I had with Church of the City in New York pastor Jon Tyson a few years ago. This series has been all about dating, but we can’t talk about dating without talking about sex, desire, and sexuality. The majority of church conversations around sex are about do’s and don’ts rather than formation and theology, so Jon and I talk all about how to have a nuanced Biblical view of sex and desire.
That’s What He Said: Marriage Prep 101: Sacrifice, Intentionality + Growth with Tim Timberlake
Welcome back to the That’s What He Said series, where I ask men all the questions you’re DYING to know. This week, I’m talking with pastor Tim Timberlake. He is the pastor of Christian Faith Center in North Carolina. We talk about how you can grow with a person in marriage, what your “list” of perfect qualities should look like, and how we can practice sacrifice as single women. Because guess what? Marriage requires sacrifice!
That’s What He Said: Where Are All the Single Godly Men? With Ben Stuart
Welcome back to the That’s What He Said series, where I ask men all the questions you’re DYING to know. This week, I’m sharing the conversation I had with Ben Stuart a while back. He is the pastor of Passion City Church DC. DC is one of the loneliest cities in America and people longing for connection come to his church to find it. We do a deep dive into the question “Where are all of the single Godly men?” plus how you can have a healthy dynamic in male/female friendships.
Another One Bites the Dust: Sex Scandals in the Evangelical Church
It's time to acknowledge the elephant in the room. I am committed to being honest with you and have hard conversations. I’m committed to moving towards that thing that is uncomfortable because I honestly think it’s what we all long for. Evangelical leaders are being exposed at a rapid rate for their moral failures. Let's discuss it.
That's What He Said: Is Asking for a Set-Up Desperate? with Matt Jones
Welcome back to the That’s What He Said series, where I ask men all the questions you’re DYING to know. This week, I’m talking with Matt Jones. This episode is pretty special for a few reasons. Firstly, this is the only episode in the That’s What He Said series that has never been heard before! Secondly, Matt is the oldest single guy in this series; he is in his late 30s and putting in the work. We talk about set-ups, knowing what you want in a relationship, and how to have a good mindset in singlen
Faith + Politics Part II: Can I Love My Neighbor Through My Politics? with Stephanie Summers
On Monday, I had a conversation with speaker and author Ashley Abercrombie on why being pro-birth isn’t enough and how to have a compassionate and nuanced dialogue around abortion. Today, the conversation around faith and politics continues. How does our faith impact how we vote? Can we love our neighbor through our politics? I’m exploring this conversation with Stephanie Summers, CEO of the Center for Public Justice.
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Woah, wow! Oh. My. Goodness.
This woman is spitting the fire of God unlike any podcaster I have seen so far (Sorry Kait Warman and Debra Fileta)! Kat has a fire lit by the Holy Spirit in a way that is inspiring and invigorating! Listening to her podcasts lights a passion in my heart like I haven’t felt in a while. I am challenged. I am convicted. Listening to these words of wisdom will leave you at a crossroads that forces you to make a choice: either face God, repent and live a richer life, or turn away from Him and die a little. This podcast is not for the faint of heart, but if you listen and take it to heart with a teachable spirit, you will be enriched.
timely and real
kat’s podcast came into my life at just the right time. all the episodes i’ve listened to have been so timely and powerful. i love the guests she brings on and the topics she picks! 10/10 would recommend :)
Breaking Glass Ceilings
I am a new listener (and follower) of Kat, but man, she is a voice to be heard. A female powerhouse and wealth of knowledge who brings a fresh perspective on life, love and God’s design for us. There is no taboo topic and it is SO refreshing to see her tackle topic after topic, in discussions most Christian leaders avoid. She constantly challenges me to change how I think and is paving the way as a leader in faith in the modern world. Listen up, people.