The Risks of Neglecting Self-Love That Nobody Wants to Talk About (Part 1 in The Self-Love Series)
Welcome to the Mental Wellness Practice Podcast, a place for you to explore foundational elements and strategies to support mental health. Hosted by Dr. Shainna , a mental health counselor, educator, and author of the best-seller The Self-Love Workbook, this episode begins the Self-Love Series. This series was curated to offer guidance in cultivating deeper self-awareness, initiating profound inner healing, and building authentic connection. In this foundational episode, Dr. Shainna explores the heart of self-love by walking you through the vital risks and rewards of this practice. You’ll be gently guided to recognize common symptoms like self-criticism and emotional dysregulation, empowering you to choose a proactive path toward healing and healthy relationships.
Chapters
00:00 The Invisible Thread of Self-Love
01:05 Understanding Self-Love: Definition and Importance
03:06 Consequences of Neglecting Self-Love
04:59 The Risks and Rewards of Self-Love
11:17 Recognizing the Symptoms and Choosing Self-Love
Takeaways
- Self-love connects our daily experiences and well-being.
- Neglecting self-love leads to negative consequences.
- Self-love is not just an abstract concept; it requires action.
- The journey of self-love is individualized and ongoing.
- Self-kindness can replace toxic self-criticism.
- Emotional dysregulation stems from a lack of self-love.
- Healthy boundaries are essential for self-respect.
- Self-love can transform our relationships and legacy.
- Recognizing the signs of self-neglect is crucial.
- Simple actions can lead to significant changes in self-love.
Stay Connected: Follow Dr. Shainna on Instagram or Facebook → @drshainna Find more resources, workshops, and support → www.drshainna.com
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Special thanks to Matt Gilhooly of The Life Shift Podcast for the intro and outro production.
Resources Mentioned in This Episode:
The Self-Love Workbook💤
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This podcast is for educational purposes only. If you are experiencing symptoms of a mental health disorder, please consult with a licensed professional.
Additional Mental Wellness Resources:
Designing Healthy Boundaries
The Self-Love Workbook for Teens
The Self-Love Planner
Luna Finds Love Everywhere
Find a Mental Health Provider:
National Alliance on Mental Illness
National Mental Health Lifeline
Open Path
Therify
Melanin & Mental Health
Inclusive Therapists
Therapy for Black Girls
Asian Mental Health Collective
Keywords
self-love, mental well-being, emotional health, self-care, personal growth, self-awareness, boundaries, mental health, self-acceptance, emotional regulation
Information
- Show
- FrequencyUpdated Weekly
- PublishedJanuary 6, 2026 at 3:03 PM UTC
- Length14 min
- Season9
- Episode53
- RatingClean
