The Soul Mammas Podcast

Nicole De Leon: Podcast Host and Fired up Soul Mamma
The Soul Mammas Podcast

In a world where so many women have shed past notions of what being a mom looks like, who can listeners turn to for real talk on soulful motherhood? Through this weekly podcast, host, Nicole De Leon, a long-time surfer, teacher, yoga instructor, adventurer and now new mother, seeks to candidly talk about the realities of modern motherhood, especially as it affects the pursuit of one’s own interests while remaining a soulful parent. In this podcast, guest moms will share inspiring stories of how they persisted in living out their truest passions and purpose in spite of – and often as a result of – adversity and struggle. Nicole’s hope is that through this podcast mothers will be encouraged to believe in their dreams and prioritize joyful lives in order to teach their children to do the same.

  1. How to push your limits & live life to the fullest, with legendary big wave surfer mom Sarah Gerhardt

    06/29/2021

    How to push your limits & live life to the fullest, with legendary big wave surfer mom Sarah Gerhardt

    What's it like to surf one of the scariest big waves on earth, and be the first woman to do it? When I think of women’s big wave surfing, I immediately think of Sarah Gerhardt-Northern California’s courageous Maverick’s surfer. When I was only a teenager, learning to surfer myself, Sarah was pushing the limit for women’s surfing at one of the scariest, coldest, most daunting waves on earth.    And not only has she dominated one of the biggest, most difficult waves to surf in the world, she is also a mama of two, and professor of Chemistry. This mama is both accomplished, on a physical and intellectual level, and uses her focus and analytical brain, to master all that she sets her sights on.    What I find the most interesting about Sarah, is that she studied Mavericks at length before actually dropping in on a wave herself. It’s fascinating to hear to progression of going from watching to actually partaking in one of the scariest things a human can do. Her husband, Mikey, one of the most accomplished male big wave surfers, is one of her greatest inspirations and she admits he’s her favorite surfer to watch out at Mavericks.    In 1998, she paddled out to watch from the channel, analyzing and watching every wave, and eventually paddled into a few herself. She admits that it is terrifying, but that knowing your surroundings, having good equipment and clocking in the hours studying the wave has helped to keep her feeling safer in this treacherous environment.    Sarah is not someone who had it easy growing up, she has experienced homelessness and poverty, and appreciates all that she has and has accomplished. Today we are going to talk about what she learned from her tough upbringing and how thats made her who she is today, how that has informed her parenting, how big wave surfing affected her parenting and what its like to face our biggest fears.  Take Aways:  Sarah’s life before surfing Mavericks, and what inspired her to surf the wave in the first place Homelessness and struggle in Sarah’s childhood and how it led to who she is today How Sarah homed in on Maverick’s and began training seriously to surf the wave How Sarah and her friends trained with heavy rocks and big wave gear to get into shape for giant wave surfing Sarah’s experience watching this terrifying wave from the channel, and analyzing every little detail of the wave and conditions. Sarah’s first paddle out at Mavericks and how she got slapped around, scared and discouraged. The next time she paddled out, she felt more confident, and how her mindset shifted. How our mindset can get us to do things we never could’ve imagined in this life. Channeling intensity into courageous pursuits When Sarah met her husband Mickey and how he pushed her to appreciate this wave even more. Sarah’s take on new motherhood versus now, and the challenges that accompany each stage. Why Sarah opted out of big wave surfing last year during the COVID pandemic.

    44 min
  2. How to keep it real as a mom & how authenticity can lead us to happiness

    02/16/2021

    How to keep it real as a mom & how authenticity can lead us to happiness

    What does "keeping it real" and authenticity have to do with success, or happiness? I believe it's everything. And so does today's guest mom Mona-Jane Hannemann. Mona is an active, fit mama of two who loves working out and being outdoors. She also believes she doesn't fit into one motherhood box. Her social media following is large and successful, but it wasn't due to trying to change who she was. In fact, I believe, it can be attributed to her "real" down-to-earth nature, and humble approach to life.  Mona has seen her own mama friends struggle with doing the things they once loved after becoming mothers and promised herself she would try to incorporate her passions into her daily life as a mother.  Mona, is a self professed fitness nut, and her drive is inspiring others to live the lives they love and be their best physically in the process. Mona received a degree in Exercise Science, and lives on the North Shore of Hawaii, somewhere that really mirrors her outdoor lifestyle.  Today we talk about:  How stepping into new motherhood wasn't easy for Mona, but how she adjusted by taking her oldest son with her on all of her adventures.  How being an ocean mama can sometimes not seem very "conventional"  How we both admit to mom guilting ourselves over things like having dinner prepared nightly. Not every mom is the same! Not fitting into one motherhood box, and why that is OKAY.  How to own our own authenticity.  Why being "real" is what people are gravitating towards on social media.  Mona-Jane shares about her humble beginnings and how much it taught her about gratitude and hard work.  How maintaining her successful social media accounts looks day to day as a mom of two  How sometimes we have to work in the middle of the night in order to get our passions realized.

    49 min
  3. How to say NO to mom guilt for good with mom of six Kristin Andrus

    01/26/2021

    How to say NO to mom guilt for good with mom of six Kristin Andrus

    Mom guilt. We've all grappled with it. But how do we get rid of it for good so we can be the most authentic version of ourselves for our kiddos?  Today’s guest is a mama of not one, not two, but six kids. Kristin Andrus is going to share about how her own mom taught her kids that taking time for herself was more than okay. Kristin's own kids know that mommy takes time for yoga, working out, or health pursuits, to name a few.  Even with such a big family, Kristin also manages to remain quite energetic and effervescent.  Kristin's You Tube channel has 250 free at home work out vidoes for moms who like short at home work outs. Her faith drives her life and commitment to her family is at the core of everything she does. Community means a lot to Kristin, and she is going to share how important it is for moms to reach out to other moms around to share their authentic stories.  Today Kristin is going to share honestly about:  How to articulate that we need time to ourselves sometimes Talking to our partners and being on the same "team"  How we can end up resenting our partners if we aren’t taking time for our own happiness.  New motherhood and how adjusting to our new roles isn't always easy  How all six of her kids have different needs and she has to parent them all differently  Her secret to "success" when working on entrepreneurial pursuits with her husband How moms can sometimes feel like we aren't "enough" if we don't have a full time income Why stay at home moms, at home moms, and working moms all have an important role Why we need to celebrate being "enough" as mothers

    48 min
  4. How you can re-write your story with divorce specialist & blended family aficionado mom Renee Bauer

    01/12/2021

    How you can re-write your story with divorce specialist & blended family aficionado mom Renee Bauer

    One of the byproducts of the COVID pandemic is that divorce rates have gone up. Often the things that are taboo are the hardest to talk about, but I feel it takes extreme times to speak up and be honest about our inner happiness and truth. Today’s guest Renee Bauer is an entrepreneur, author, peacemaker and blended family aficionado. …and is dedicated to helping you find your Happy Even After. She is also someone who speaks truthfully about uncomfortable topics and believes wholely that we deserve to live our most rewarding and fulfilling life experiences.   Renee is a mom of a four (including 3 step kids) who has won awards, faced her fear of public speaking, litigated cases in a courtroom, and grew a business from nothing but a folding table into a thriving family law firm in Connecticut.   She has been divorced (twice) and now is married to a man who is her partner in every sense of the word. …those bumps and bruises along the way led her to the happiest, most complete, most purposeful version of herself today. I believe that doing the big, scary, uncomfortable thing can be the most rewarding and fulfilling experience of your life.   Today we talk about:  How to get rid of shame or “less than-ness” in any facet of our lives whether it is our relationship, jobs or life choices. Renee's story and how she went from litigator to entrepreneur/divorce specialist  Why big life changes like divorce don't have to be the end of our happiness  How we can truly start over Why it's okay to go against the status quo and follow our truth  How to know when enough is enough  Why it's okay to leave a marriage if you are unhappy. Doesn't mean your partner is a "bad person." Why Renee is a proponent of working on our marriages Why she is a proponent of couples and individual therapy, but how to know when it is no longer working  How to approach divorce in an empathetic and loving way Why mediation is a much preferred method to litigation How to keep your family in tact after a divorce Why being amicable during the process is important for the future of co-parenting and for your kids Other benefits of mediation  How our kids pick up on their parent's being unhappy  Why two happy homes is better than one toxic one  Why Renee moved from litigator to entrepreneurship  How to live the life of our dreams and why we deserve it  Mamas! How are you doing during this time of social isolation? Come follow me @soulmammaspodcast where I go live on subjects pertinent to what's going on in the world now, and tools and tips for mama self care during this time.  Find your Soul Mamma Calling in FOUR STEPS FREE PDF Keep an eye out for my new site where you can check out past episodes, free pdf's, coaching links and my NEW COURSE Uncover your Purpose in Ten Steps! Super excited about this one mamas! email me nicole@soulmammas.com for questions.  New PDF on the website https://www.soulmammas.com Pick Up your Freebie on Stepping into your Soul as Mammas today!  Follow me on Instagram here!

    47 min
  5. Do you have a challenging kid? Steps for using positive parenting to aid in positive behavior with parenting coach Wendy Snyder

    12/01/2020

    Do you have a challenging kid? Steps for using positive parenting to aid in positive behavior with parenting coach Wendy Snyder

    Do you ever feel like you are at a loss when it comes to how to positively approach your child’s behavior? I myself have a very strong willed little girl, and often wonder if I am being a push over when I let her push my boundaries, but then don’t want to always be correcting or nagging her. Wendy Snyder, is a Godsend to mamas because of what she offers in terms of Redirecting Children's Behavior. Wendy believes in connection over correction and is going to share all about her Positive Parenting Approach with you mamas today.    This mama of two is a Positive Parenting educator, family life coach & advocate. She is certified in Redirecting Children's Behavior & The Joy of Parenting Program. Wendy founded her online business, Fresh Start Family, so that she could spread the message of positive parenting across the world. She is the developer of online positive parenting courses and also has a monthly membership program to further support families. I downloaded Wendy’s free guide and what I have already read through has helped me immensely! My daughter is resistant to change, asks why a lot, is highly sensitive, and I can relate to all of the bullets on her list. She talks about how to nurture a child’s strong will through acknowledging their creativity, or natural leadership rather than criticisms. She talks about different approaches to strong willed kids and why having them is actually a blessing. She uses positive role models and successful people, that were once self professed challenging kids as examples.  Wendy assists families to parent with great purpose and intention by creating healthy, respectful & cooperative relationships. Today we chat about:  How Wendy's experience with her own challenging child led her to become a positive parenting educator  Why our own upbringing can affect our parenting approaches immensely  How to shift the paradigm towards more positivity when it comes to speaking to our children What constitutes a "challenging" or "strong willed child" and why it should be celebrated How strong willed children are often quite creative and successful as adults Wendy's advice on how to approach topics like sharing, temper tantrums, friendships, etc.  My own experience with my toddler and Wendy's tips for positive parenting shifts when I feel I am being too lenient How to avoid being "too" lenient or too strict Why being honest and humble with our kids when we our frustrated is better than hiding it or yelling How to reframe simple sentences with our kids Why phrases like "your being a bad friend" is not helpful for challenging kids. Switching the conversation and giving kids options for sharing, for instance, makes them feel less out of control How Wendy got into the online parenting coaching business  Why business isn't always easy but persistence is key

    49 min
4.9
out of 5
97 Ratings

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In a world where so many women have shed past notions of what being a mom looks like, who can listeners turn to for real talk on soulful motherhood? Through this weekly podcast, host, Nicole De Leon, a long-time surfer, teacher, yoga instructor, adventurer and now new mother, seeks to candidly talk about the realities of modern motherhood, especially as it affects the pursuit of one’s own interests while remaining a soulful parent. In this podcast, guest moms will share inspiring stories of how they persisted in living out their truest passions and purpose in spite of – and often as a result of – adversity and struggle. Nicole’s hope is that through this podcast mothers will be encouraged to believe in their dreams and prioritize joyful lives in order to teach their children to do the same.

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