43 episodes

Are you ready for a new look at the world of sexuality and kink? This podcast, brought to you by Dr. K, Holistic Sexuality Educator, fitness trainer, model, and promoter of erotic intelligence, is an honest and down to Earth deep dive into the world of sex, BDSM, and alternative lifestyle. Dr. K. is a 24/7 submissive, deeply devoted to tantric practices, the power of embodiment, and holistic living, as well as an empowerment and intimacy coach.
Topics range from sex education, LGTBQ+, consensual non-monogamy, Tantra, kink, BDSM, taboos, fetishes, sex toys, advice, experiences, consent, Shibari, and so much more!

The Submissive Next Door Podcast Dr. K - Holistic Sexuality Educator

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.9 • 28 Ratings

Are you ready for a new look at the world of sexuality and kink? This podcast, brought to you by Dr. K, Holistic Sexuality Educator, fitness trainer, model, and promoter of erotic intelligence, is an honest and down to Earth deep dive into the world of sex, BDSM, and alternative lifestyle. Dr. K. is a 24/7 submissive, deeply devoted to tantric practices, the power of embodiment, and holistic living, as well as an empowerment and intimacy coach.
Topics range from sex education, LGTBQ+, consensual non-monogamy, Tantra, kink, BDSM, taboos, fetishes, sex toys, advice, experiences, consent, Shibari, and so much more!

    Ep. 40 - More Sex or More Intimacy?

    Ep. 40 - More Sex or More Intimacy?

    Let's talk about Libido... in particular, how do we overcome libido discrepancy? (i.e.: when one partner wants more sex than the other.) While we are at it, let's take it a step further and throw parenting, life, and a little kink into the mix! In this episode, I'm going to address an insightful question from a follower concerning how to talk to their partner about the tough subject of getting more sex when one partner isn't feeling it. I also take you on a deep dive into a conflict resolution technique called "The Imago Dialogue" (and how it can be used as check-in method for D/s dynamics), how this fits in with creating more responsive desire, as well as teach you how to find what your inner self actually needs from sex. I'll also give actionable steps to reframe what pleasure is, and build a container of safety that will help partners connect on a deeper level, even when sex isn't on the menu! Let's get going!

     
    Links for this episode:
    Video Podcast Version 
    Dr. K's Imago-Inspired D/s Relationship Dialogue Script will be available on Patreon and her Online Center for Sexuality & Kink Education
    Book: Come as You Are by Dr. Emily Nagowski
    Book: The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel Van Der Kolk
    Book: Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships by Stella Harris
    Book: Becoming Cliterate by Laurie Mintz
    Book: Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples by Helen LaKelly Hunt  (Great info on the Imago Dialogue)
    Site: The Imago Relationship Official Site
     
    Additional Resources:
    Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance)
    Site: TASHRA's Research
    Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality
    Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover
    Dr. K's Official Website
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    Peep my Instagram 
    Twitch with me! LIVE 
    Digital Magazine - Intellectual Intoxication - Dr. K's Gallery Musings & Gallery 
    Dr. K's  Kink-Affirming Holistic Coaching Practice

    Additional Resources:
    Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) 
    About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
    Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech
    Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover
     
    Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please!  If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you!
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    1st Phorm - Elite Fitness Products for High-Performance Training and Health
    The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear
    Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset!
    The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy
    Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance
    SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!
    Social Links
    Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links

    • 1 hr 21 min
    Ep 39. - Let's Talk About Stress & Masturbation + 15 Minute Guided Meditation

    Ep 39. - Let's Talk About Stress & Masturbation + 15 Minute Guided Meditation

    Are you all as stressed out as I am these days? In this episode, I'm analyzing the science behind stress from the perspective of the Stress Response Cycle, and how our sexuality plays into it. In addition, I'm going to discuss different ways to combat it from a holistic approach, including a thoughtful discussion on how mindful masturbation can be used as a tool to aid in wellbeing and stress managementment. As a bonus, this episode includes a 15 minute Chakra balancing body-scan guided medication to help you achieve a restful state of bliss at the end of the day. Get comfy and a settle-in for some serious self-care tonight! 
     
    Links for this episode:
    Book: Burnout By Dr. Emily Nagoski 
    Forsale18's Positive Thots St. Patrick's Day special with Dr. K on Positive Thots Twitch Stream 
    Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance)
    Site: TASHRA's Research
    Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality
    Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover
    Dr. K's Official Website
    _____________________
    Peep my Instagram - IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts
    Twitch with me! LIVE 
    Digital Magazine - Intellectual Intoxication - Dr. K's Gallery Musings & Gallery 
    Resources:
    Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) 
    About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
    Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech
    Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover
     
    Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please!  If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you!
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    Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
    1st Phorm - Elite Fitness Products for High-Performance Training and Health
    The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear
    Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance
    SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!
    Social Links
    Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links

    • 1 hr 31 min
    Ep. 37 - A Little Neuroscience & BDSM With a Side of Kink

    Ep. 37 - A Little Neuroscience & BDSM With a Side of Kink

    Are you ready to get down and nerdy with me? Good! And yes, you read the episode number right... I had a brain malfunction and skipped 37, so we are looping back around! In this episode, I take you on a deep dive discussion on the neuroscience of BDSM, the theories behind what makes kink and BDSM a positive experience to those who seek the endorphin rush, as well as the case studies around the prevalence of kink and BDSM today. Class is now in session!
    Links for this episode:
    Book: The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients by Stefani Goerlich
    Book: Why Good Sex Matters by Dr. Nan Wise
    Research Article: Physical Pain as Pleasure: A Theoretical Perspective by Cara Dunkley, Craig Henshaw, Saira Henshaw and Lori Brotto
    Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance)
    Site: TASHRA's Research
    Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality
    Case Study Findings: The Health & Healthcare Experience of Kink-Oriented People (2016)
    Research Article: The Effect of Sexual Arousal and Emotional Arousal on Working Memory by Ricky Au, and Verity Tang
    Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover
    Dr. K's Official Website
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    Peep my Instagram - IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts
    Twitch with me! LIVE 
    Resources:
    Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) 
    About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
    Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech
    Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover
     
    Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please!  If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you!
    _________________________________________________
    Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
    1st Phorm - Elite Fitness Products for High-Performance Training and Health
    The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear
    Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance
    SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!
    Social Links
    Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
     

    • 1 hr 13 min
    Ep. 38 - ADHD, Sexuality, & Kink

    Ep. 38 - ADHD, Sexuality, & Kink

    Are you ready for an ADHD-infused conversation about ADHD? Good! Me too! This episode dives deep into Ari Tuckman's book "ADHD After Dark", case studies, and more, while I share the down and dirty details about how I handle my tendencies during those intimate moments. I'll also share highlights about my appearance on Forsale18's Twitch Stream, "Positive Thots", as well as everything I have found so far as I work on an academic literature review on ADHD & Sexuality. Get ready! This is a long episode!
    The video version of this episode is available on Patreon! Thank you for all your support!
    Links for this episode:
    ADHD After Dark by Ari Tuckman
    Positive Thots on Twitch with Forsale18
    Research Article: Diagnosis, Assessment, and Treatment of Hypersexuality by Meg Kaplan
    Site Article: We have ADHD. This is How We Have a Lot of Sex
    Research Article: Hypersexuality: Psychopathology or normal variant of sexuality? 
    Site Article: When ADHD Disrupts (and ruins) the Romance
    Site Resource: ADHD and Marriage
    Site Article: My ADHD Brain and 4 Odd Things that Freak it Out
    Book Resource: Taming Your Gremlin (A Surprisingly Simple Method for Getting Out of Your Own Way)
    Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover
    Dr. K's Official Website
    _____________________
    Peep my Instagram - IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts
    Twitch with me! LIVE 
    Resources:
    Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) 
    About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
    Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech
    Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover
     
    Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please!  If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you!
    _________________________________________________
    Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
    The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear
    Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance
    SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!
    Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room
    Social Links
    Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
     
     

    • 1 hr 25 min
    Ep. 36 - Special Guest: Big Daddy on Dynamics, Scenes, and More!

    Ep. 36 - Special Guest: Big Daddy on Dynamics, Scenes, and More!

    I am so excited to bring you this very special episode! Big Daddy is here and he opens up about D/s dynamics from a Dom's perspective, maintaining a dynamic during a pandemic while working overtime, favorite scenes, orgasms, consent, and so much more! We also bring y'all on a deep discussion about check-ins, favorite toys, and finding pleasure through rituals. Dismantling stereotypes, one sex-positive conversation at a time!
    Links for this episode:
    Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover
     
    Dr. K's Official Website
    _____________________
    Peep my Instagram - IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts
    Twitch with me! LIVE 
    Resources:
    Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) 
    About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
    Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech
    Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover
     
    Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please!  If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get podcast episodes, exclusive bonus videos, and my personal sex-positive Zine, Intellectual Intoxication. The Zine showcases my provocative photography projects along with topics such as erotica writing, holistic sexuality, liberating art, embodiment, rituals with a witchy-vibe starting at $3 a month. It's you all that keep the podcast going! Thank you!
    _________________________________________________
    Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
    Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world!
     
    The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear
    Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance
    SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!
    Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room
    Social Links
    Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links
     

    • 1 hr
    Ep. 35 - Top 10 List of New Year's Resolutions to Make 2022 Pure Pleasure!

    Ep. 35 - Top 10 List of New Year's Resolutions to Make 2022 Pure Pleasure!

    It's 2022 and I have a list of resolutions for you! In this episode, I'm going to not only go into an ADHD tangent or two (when don't I? lol) but also give you a list of my Top 10 New Year's Resolutions aimed to level up your pleasure, expand your mind, improve your self-confidence, and boost self-love! As always, grab your favorite drink, and let's chill! 
    Links for this episode:
    Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover
    The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality 
    Journal of Sex Research   
    Journal of Marital and Sex Therapy
    Journal of Sexual Medicine
    American Journal of Sexuality Education
    Journal of Black Sexuality and Relationships
    Archives of Sexual Behavior
    National Coalition of Sexual Freedom

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    Peep my Instagram - IG LIVES, AMAs, Reels, Kink, Modeling, and Fitness Posts
    Twitch with me! LIVE 
    Resources:
    Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom) 
    About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently creating issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive health.
    Reid's Safer Sex Elevator Speech
    Dr. K’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lover



    Psss…. Don’t forget to check out The Submissive Next Door Podcast on Apple Podcast/iTunes– subscribe and give us a rating, pretty please!  If you like what you hear and see, please consider becoming a Patreon. Patreon members get episodes early and access to an exclusive bonus feed and provocative photography projects. Patreon also is home to Dr. K’s Erotica Reviewing “Naughty Librarian” series! Merch, workshops, kink events, and more for as little as $3 a month. You guys are amazing!
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    Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
    Lovehoney – Use this Link to get 10% off your first order from one of the top Luxury Sex Toy Shops in world!
     
    The Stockroom – BDSM and D/s luxury toys, tools, and gear
    Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance
    SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!
     
    Check out The Submissive Next Door's Back Room
    Social Links
    Exclusive Content – Discord – Social Links

    • 38 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
28 Ratings

28 Ratings

KittenRae ,

5 stars

This podcast really hits home for me. I’m a submissive, I’m a pet, I’m a little, and I’m a parent. While obviously there are others like me in the community it’s hard to find informative blogs and podcasts that are so geared towards me and really help me within my D/s Journey. Not only is this podcast informative but it’s also fun and I truly enjoy it.

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