The Submissive Next Door Podcast Dr. K - Holistic Sexuality Educator

Can vanilla and kinky people mix? What kind of people are drawn to kink and BDSM to begin with? And what does cyber security have to do with kink? In this episode, we cover all these topics and so much more! I am beyond excited to bring on the show someone I’ve admired for several years, the award-winning author and certified sex therapist, Dr. Stefani Goerlich! Her new book, With Sprinkles on Top, covers everything vanilla people and their kinky partners need to know to communicate, explore, and connect and she’s here to share her expertise to help others grow and thrive! We also take a surprising detour and discuss the interaction of cyber security and sex tech! You don’t want to miss this episode!
Links for this episode:
Stefani’s Instagram
 
Website
 
Twitter
 
New Book: With Sprinkles on Top: Everything Vanilla People and Their Kinky Partners Need to Know to Communicate, Explore, and Connect


Be sure to also check out her other books:
 
The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients
Kink-Affirming Practice: Culturally Competent Therapy from the Leather Chair
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Additional Resources
Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance)
Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality
Site: Center for Positive Sexuality
Site: Sexual Health Alliance
Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University
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Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K
Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More!
Socials: Twitch.   Facebook.  Twitter.
Educational TikTok
Personal TikTok
Podcast Instagram
Modeling Instagram
Witchy Book Love Instagram
Dr. Tiffany "K."’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers
Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles.
Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K." 
 
Call for Submissions for the new Artistic Edge Magazine:

If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, Artistic Edge Magazine and Sexological Blog are currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please submit your pitch to editor@kipani.life
Support the Podcast:
Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, curated treasure boxes with art, erotica, souvenirs, and more, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals!  It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you!
Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
Shop my Amazon Store
Geeky Sex Toys - Pop Culture, Sci-Fi, Comic, Fantasy... they have a toy for it all!
True Corsets - My favorite corset company!
Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! - For 27% off your order, use Code: Kipani
The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy
Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance
SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!
Additional Resources:
Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)
About SESTA/FOST

I am so excited to bring you a special podcast with the award-winning Kink Educator, published author, and historian, Dr. TammyJo Eckhart! She has also been the Dominant in her poly-house since 1993 with experience in opening up, as well as coming out in the mainstream. Her work as a kink activist has helped to shed light on the relationship structures, and her dedication to writing is not only insightful but walks the line of BDSM, Kink, Sci-Fi, and Erotica. She's an eclectic and amazing human that I can't wait for you to meet! 
Join us on Patreon for a very special "After Hours" segment exclusive to subscribers only! There, you can also find the video version of this podcast and so much more! - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber!
Links for this episode:
TammyJo's Patreon
TammyJo on Instagram
TammyJo's Facebook
TammyJo's Twitter
TammyJo's official website
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Additional Resources
Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance)
Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality
Site: Center for Positive Sexuality
Site: Sexual Health Alliance
Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University
___________________________
Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K
Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More!
Socials: Twitch.   Facebook.  Twitter.
Educational TikTok
Personal TikTok
Podcast Instagram
Modeling Instagram
Witchy Book Love Instagram
Dr. Tiffany "K."’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers
Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles.
Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K." 

Call for Submissions for the new Artistic Edge Magazine:

If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, Artistic Edge Magazine and Sexological Blog are currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please submit your pitch to editor@kipani.life
Support the Podcast:
Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, curated treasure boxes with art, erotica, souvenirs, and more, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals!  It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you!
Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
Shop my Amazon Store
Geeky Sex Toys - Pop Culture, Sci-Fi, Comic, Fantasy... they have a toy for it all!
True Corsets - My favorite corset company!
Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! - For 27% off your order, use Code: Kipani
The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy
Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance
SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!
Additional Resources:
Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)
About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and reproductive heal

From BDSM dynamics, taboo kinks, to an extensive guide to An*l play and safety, we get down and dirty in this episode! I've admired Luna's work on the submissiveguide.com , the leading educational resource online for submissives, for years and share her passion for bringing the world of BDSM and D/s to others in an accessible, researched-based, and comforting way. She has written dozens of BDSM guides and just released her newest addition, "Exploring Anal Pleasures: A Submissive's Guide to Anal Play and Training." which provides a step-by-step approach to incorporating anal; play into your submissive exploration. Come hangout out as we dive deep on the episode of The Submissive Next Door Podcast!
Join us on Patreon for a very special "After Hours" segment exclusive to subscribers only! There, you can also find the video version of this podcast and so much more! - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber!
Links for this episode:
The Sub Guide on Patreon
The Sub Guide on Instagram
THe Sub Guide on Facebook
The Sub Guide on Twitter
The Website
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Additional Resources
Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance)
Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality
Site: Center for Positive Sexuality
Site: Sexual Health Alliance
Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University
___________________________
Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K
Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More!
Socials: Twitch.   Facebook.  Twitter.
Educational TikTok
Personal TikTok
Podcast Instagram
Modeling Instagram
Witchy Book Love Instagram
Dr. Tiffany "K."’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers
Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles.
Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K." 

Call for Submissions for the new Artistic Edge Magazine:

If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, Artistic Edge Magazine and Sexological Blog are currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please submit your pitch to editor@kipani.life
Support the Podcast:
Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, curated treasure boxes with art, erotica, souvenirs, and more, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals!  It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you!
Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
Shop my Amazon Store
Geeky Sex Toys - Pop Culture, Sci-Fi, Comic, Fantasy... they have a toy for it all!
True Corsets - My favorite corset company!
Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! - For 27% off your order, use Code: Kipani
The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy
Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance
SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!
Additional Resources:
Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)
About SESTA/FOS

What happens when you get two queer erotica authors in a room together? Let's find out!  In this episode, I welcome Christian Pan, a fantastical sexy-smart bisexual author of erotic fiction based in New York City! Since 2021 he has published 5 novels, 90 short stories, and numerous reviews of erotic fiction & nonfiction. Since 2022, he has been the Captain of the Queer Erotic Content Creators Club, a permanent A Club on Patreon. He is here to chat about the world of queer erotic fiction, from how erotica authors research sex scenes, to how the concept of "erotic" has changed over the years. This is by far one of the most intellectually stimulating conversations I've had and you don't want to miss it! Grab a drink, kick back, and join us for a deep chat on all things erotic!
Join us on Patreon for a very special "After Hours" segment exclusive to subscribers only! There, you can also find the video version of this podcast and so much more! - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber!
Links for this episode:
Christian Pan's Patreon
Christian's Instagram
Christian's Facebook
Christian's Twitter
All his links
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Additional Resources
Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance)
Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality
Site: Center for Positive Sexuality
Site: Sexual Health Alliance
Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University
___________________________
Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K
Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More!
Socials: Twitch.   Facebook.  Twitter.
Educational TikTok
Personal TikTok
Podcast Instagram
Modeling Instagram
Witchy Book Love Instagram
Dr. Tiffany "K."’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers
Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles.
Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K." 

Call for Submissions for the new Artistic Edge Magazine:

If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, Artistic Edge Magazine and Sexological Blog are currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please submit your pitch to editor@kipani.life
Support the Podcast:
Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, curated treasure boxes with art, erotica, souvenirs, and more, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals!  It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you!
Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
Shop my Amazon Store
Geeky Sex Toys - Pop Culture, Sci-Fi, Comic, Fantasy... they have a toy for it all!
True Corsets - My favorite corset company!
Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset! - For 27% off your order, use Code: Kipani
The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy
Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance
SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!
Additional Resources:
Consent Counts Resources from the N

In this episode, I sit down with a special guest and intimacy expert to millions, Susan Bratton! She is a self-proclaimed "Orgasmanaut..." that travels to the outer reaches of human orgasmic potential to bring back the map to the territory of pleasure and connection. She's here to chat about some of the most common sexual issues in relationships today and how to amplify your sex life!
Susan is co-founder and CEO of two corporations: Personal Life Media, Inc., a publisher of heart-connected lovemaking techniques and bedroom communication skills and The20, LLC., a manufacturer of organic and botanical supplements that enhance sexual vitality. She is also a best-selling author and publisher of 44 books and programs, including Sexual Soulmates, Relationship Magic, Revive Her Drive, Ravish Him, Steamy Sex Ed™, The Passion Patch, Hormone Balancing, and Hot To Trot. She has also been featured in the New York Times, on CNBC and the TODAY show, as well as frequent appearances on ABC, CBS, The CW, and NBC.
A video version of this podcast is available on my Patreon  - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber!
Links for this episode:
Susan's official website
The Pumping Guide 
The Seduction Trilogy 
Sexual Soulmate Pact
Sex Life Bucket list
Soulmate Embrace
Better Lover
Susan's Instagram 
Susan's Facebook
Susan's Twitter
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Additional Resources
Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance)
Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality
Site: Center for Positive Sexuality
Site: Sexual Health Alliance
Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University
___________________________
Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K
Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More!
Socials: Twitch.   Facebook.  Twitter.
Educational TikTok
Personal TikTok
Podcast Instagram
Modeling Instagram
Witchy Book Love Instagram
Come hang out on The MŌN App!  (my username is DrTiffanyK) The MŌN App is a community app that promotes inclusivity and sex positivity with live interactive podcasts and more!
Dr. Tiffany "K."’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers
Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles.
Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K." 

Call for Submissions:
If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, my blog is currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please visit my submissions page to learn more.
Support the Podcast:
Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please! If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals for with tiers from $3-$5 a month!  It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you!
Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
Shop my Amazon Store
Geeky Sex Toys - Pop Culture, Sci-Fi, Comic, Fantasy... they have a toy for it all!
True Corsets - My favorite corset company!
Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mi

Are you ready to swing to the other side? Or maybe you are just thinking about it? Whether you want to learn more about the swinging lifestyle to better support others or thinking about opening up your own relationship, Ed and Phoebe Swinger are resources you need to know! They are experts in opening up and getting out there! Not only that, they tell it like it is and give practical advice, as well as insights into what it is really like to be swingers today. They also help to coordinate events for those "swinging through life!" I had the honor of interviewing them and chatting about many of the frequently asked questions I get from those new to the world of CNM. So grab a drink and kick back with us while we chat about play parties, swinging, jealousy, and all the bits in between!
A video version of this podcast is available on my Patreon  - Be sure to follow me to get updates whenever a post is made public, even if you are not a subscriber!
Links for this episode:
Follow them on Patreon
Follow them on Instagram
Follow them on Twitter
Check out their site
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Additional Resources
Site: The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom
Site: TASHRA (The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance)
Site: The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality
Site: Center for Positive Sexuality
Site: Sexual Health Alliance
Site: Kinsey Institute of Indiana University
___________________________
Ways to Connect with Dr. Tiffany K
Official List of Social Links, Exclusive Lessons, Blog, & More!
Socials: Twitch.   Facebook.  Twitter.
Educational TikTok
Personal TikTok
Podcast Instagram
Modeling Instagram
Witchy Book Love Instagram
Come hang out on The MŌN App!  (my username is DrTiffanyK) The MŌN App is a community app that promotes inclusivity and sex positivity with live interactive podcasts and more!
Dr. Tiffany "K."’s Official Goodreads page – For the Book Lovers
Read my Erotica and other Works on Medium or check out my Contently Portfolio for my published works and scholarly articles.
Book a Consultation Session with Dr. Tiffany "K." 

Call for Submissions:
If you are a current or aspiring writer, researcher, sex educator, or sex therapist in the field of sexuality, my blog is currently open to submissions ranging from creative or erotic poetry, short stories, toy reviews, research topics, etc. If you have a topic and writing sample you would like to pitch, please visit my submissions page to learn more.
Support the Podcast:
Psss…. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast and give a rating, pretty please!  If you like what you hear and see, please check out the many ways you can support the podcast, research, and art projects. Or, if you are ready to support the podcast right away, please consider becoming a Patreon! Supporting members through a monthly subscription get podcast episodes days before they go live, video versions of the podcast episodes, exclusive uncensored lessons, updates on research, workshops, courses, behind-the-scenes content, a first look at my uncensored artwork, poetry, erotica, merch discounts, and much more! I also share holistic sexuality tips, liberating art, embodiment practices, and rituals for with tiers from $3-$5 a month!  It's supporters like you that keep the podcast and my research going! Thank you!
Affiliate Links – Feel like shopping? Use these links to get a discount and help support the podcast too!
Shop my Amazon Store
Le Wand - Luxury Sex Toys with an empowerment mindset!
The CowGirl - The Award-Winning Riding Sex Toy
Lovense – Luxury High Tech Sex Toys for Love at a Distance
SheVibe – Sex Positive Sex Toys for the Adventurous!
Additional Resources:
Consent Counts Resources from the NCSF (National Council for Sexual Freedom)
About SESTA/FOSTA: Information relating to how the changes in the law have to affect TOS across social media and inadvertently create issues for those in the field of sexual and rep