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The Unexpected Fuckery of Forty is a podcast about all the ups and downs and challenges that we go through in our forties. Although there’s plenty of Fuckery, there’s also a great feeling about owning who we are at Forty and being 100% unapologetic about it. Join Nikita each week as she discusses relationships, sex, finances, co parenting, black culture and everything in between.

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The Unexpected Fuckery of Forty The Unexpected Fuckery of Forty

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.7 • 14 Ratings

The Unexpected Fuckery of Forty is a podcast about all the ups and downs and challenges that we go through in our forties. Although there’s plenty of Fuckery, there’s also a great feeling about owning who we are at Forty and being 100% unapologetic about it. Join Nikita each week as she discusses relationships, sex, finances, co parenting, black culture and everything in between.

Instagram: @theunexpectedfckeryofforty
Facebook: The Unexpected Fckery of Forty

    She Got That Juice w/Lydia Tunstall

    She Got That Juice w/Lydia Tunstall

    On today's episode, I am joined by Lydia Tunstall, the founder of Cold Pressed Gwinnett (https://coldpressedgwinnett.org/) to discuss the benefits of juicing and her journey to starting the company. 

    We discuss how her Caribbean roots prepared her for this journey and how her kids helped catapult the business. In addition, we talk about what it's like to start a new business while being a full time mom and having other responsibilities. 

    Order juices at https://coldpressedgwinnett.org/ - use the discount code NIKITA for 10% off at checkout.

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    • 44 min
    Taking care of the WAP, Vulva and Vagina w/ConditionHer

    Taking care of the WAP, Vulva and Vagina w/ConditionHer

    Today I’m speaking with the founders of ConditionHer, Wendy Rose Berry and Eugenia Marshall. Two black women entrepreneurs that are helping to change the way we care for our parts down there I. E. “Her”. ConditionHer is an intimate skincare product and I am in love with it already! 
    We talk about their journey to launching ConditionHer and we get some education on the vulva and vagina regarding PH balance, ingrown hairs and other factors that may be affecting our skin and “Her”. 
    Lastly, we discuss what it means to support Black women and HOW to actually show that support. Make sure to stay tuned to the end of the conversation to hear the discount code that will get you 15% off at checkout! 
    Go to https://conditionher.com/collections/frontpage to purchase.
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    • 1 hr 15 min
    Politics As Usual

    Politics As Usual

    Today I am joined by Rashawn Primus a fellow graduate of Tuskegee University and also one my good good friends. Rashawn has a Bachelors degree in Political Science and a Masters in Secondary Education. She’s been teaching in the LA area for 20 years, and currently teaches middle and high school students math, leadership and student council in the Los Angeles Unifies School District. 

    Join me as we talk about global warming, the ecosystem and how its affecting the Los Angeles area. We also talk about what happened with the 2016 election and how we got to the f*cked up place we are today with Trump. Did Bernie Sanders and the progressive party contribute to Hillary Clinton’s loss? We think so. We discuss racial tension and how its affecting our lives and the Breonna Taylor case, police officers and the hypocrisy that exists between races in America. 



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    • 1 hr 21 min
    Relationships Series: Part 3 - Transparency in Relationships w/ Brunch with the Boyz

    Relationships Series: Part 3 - Transparency in Relationships w/ Brunch with the Boyz

    Get ready for laughs on top of laughs. In this episode I am joined by Jeezy, Mr. Gent and King Dez of Brunch with the Boyz Podcast.  We discuss transparency in relationships and why me wanting to know about my partner's past relationship might keep me single. We also discuss our thoughts on former Mayor of Tallahassee coming out as bi-sexual and if he was honest and transparent  with his wife from the beginning. We think not!

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    Questions, comments or show ideas. Email me at Unexpectedfckery@gmail.com 

    • 33 min
    Relationships Series: Part 2 - Why Men Cheat and the LIES They Tell

    Relationships Series: Part 2 - Why Men Cheat and the LIES They Tell

    On today's episode, my special guest Brian Joubert and I continue our conversation around relationships. Let me just first thank Brian for being so honest about why he cheated in his marriage! We discuss why men cheat, the curiosity around new p*ssy and open marriages. We also discuss why we don't mind being single and what happens when you have disconnected mentally and emotionally in relationships. 

    Brian also discusses the 4 things we need to do right now to get our Finances in order.

    Brian is a prominent businessman, investor, author, radio host, innovator, speaker, mentor and philanthropist, who is owner of LB Tax & Business Advisors https://lbtaxservice.com/ and Richboi Investments https://richboiinvestments.com/

    Follow Brian on Instagram @Richboijup1 

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    • 57 min
    Relationships Series: Part 1 – The 90 Day Rule and Strong Women/Weak Mean

    Relationships Series: Part 1 – The 90 Day Rule and Strong Women/Weak Mean

    I’m kicking off a Relationship series about the fundamentals and foundation of relationships. In today’s era, if you’re not already in a relationship (and you’re 40 and over) it can be really tough. It seems relationships fizzle out after a couple of months or we might settle because we’re older.
    On this episode, I am joined by Brian Joubert, owner and founder or L&B Tax Advisors (https://lbtaxservice.com/) and Richboi investments. We discuss how long it takes for the representative to disappear, deal breakers and how we feel relationships have changed from generation to generation. We also discuss how consideration (doing the little things) from both men and women will help further relationships.

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    • 59 min

Customer Reviews

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14 Ratings

14 Ratings

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Season 2

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Great entertainment

Season 2 is great, great topics and great guest.

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Great Podcast

I'm loving Season 2 with all of the bachelors. Keep up the good work!

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