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We can all agree that the whole birds and bees thing was a lie, right? When it comes to sex education in the 80s, 90s and even today, everyone gets a big ole F. And not the good kind. Join host Arielle Zadok as she talks to friends, comedians and sexuality professionals about what they did, and didn't learn about sex growing up.

Birds and Bees Don't Fck Arielle Zadok

    • Health & Fitness
    • 5.0 • 26 Ratings

We can all agree that the whole birds and bees thing was a lie, right? When it comes to sex education in the 80s, 90s and even today, everyone gets a big ole F. And not the good kind. Join host Arielle Zadok as she talks to friends, comedians and sexuality professionals about what they did, and didn't learn about sex growing up.

    Sex Ed Video Star (w/ Christine Medrano)

    Sex Ed Video Star (w/ Christine Medrano)

    Christine Medrano is a comedian, actress and writer originally from Winnipeg Manitoba, Canada where she went to Catholic school and watched an abortion video at age 14, and that was pretty much it!
    In this episode we talk about:
    03:21 Christine was in a Sex Ed Video! 04:16 We have a pitch… the office, but it’s an STI clinic! 06:29 Misconceptions about Anal Play and Sexuality 10:03 There wasn’t any sex ed at her Catholic school, but there WAS an abortion video! 11:27 Lack of Knowledge about Tampons 13:08 The Importance of Openness and Humor in Sex Education 13:28 The TV Show 'Big Mouth' 14:27 Why you need to consider using Organic Tampons 19:14 Give us pain killers during IUD Insertion! 21:09 Arielle’s alcohol allergy and birth control 23:23 The Neglect of Female Pleasure in Medicine 26:35 The Impact of Shame and Lack of Masturbation Education 29:47 Coercion and Manipulation in Sexual Experiences 35:27 The Importance of Sexual Compatibility 38:21 Openness and Communication in Relationships 47:06 Generational Differences in Views on Sex and Romance 52:09 The Evolution of Romance and Communication 57:37 Reflecting on Traumatic Events 58:06 The ending you were all hoping for.. Ruby the cat Brings us an Avocado You can find Christine on Instagram at @chrissymeds and her website http://www.christinemedrano.com/
     
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    K, love you, byeeeeee

    • 58 min
    Sex, Sensuality & Sparkles (W/ The Hollywood Burlesque Festival Performers)

    Sex, Sensuality & Sparkles (W/ The Hollywood Burlesque Festival Performers)

    This week we’re mixing things up because Rena Martine (Women’s Intimacy Coach, Author and Ep. 25 guest) and I had the opportunity to park up at the Hollywood Burlesque Festival Bazaar and speak to some of incredible performers from the weekend.
    In this episode we’re talking to:
    @boogerboobs an Aussie based in Los Angeles Tito Bonito, the @cubabmissilecrisis of burlesque @Sydvici0uz the east coast showgirl gone west coast @tout.dlou the traveling circus showgirl @themissmarquez the green goddess behind @empowermentinheels You can find The Hollywood Burlesque festival happening every year right here in Hollywood but since you missed this year (bummer) make sure you follow @Hollywoodbqfest and check out their website to see all of the gorgeous performers at www.hollywoodburlesquefestival.com
    You can find Rena on Instagram at @_Rena.Marine_ and on her website www.renamartine.com
    Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!
    Download your FREE Yes / No / Maybe list, get merch or apply for coaching at www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com
     
    If you’re pickin’ up what we’re putting down please help me spread the word; Like, subscribe and tell your friends so other people know this exists! You can also buy me a coffee if you're a real sweetie.
    Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
    K, love you, byeeeeee

    • 1 hr 4 min
    Not Your Average Sex Party (w/ Michael Hollice)

    Not Your Average Sex Party (w/ Michael Hollice)

    Michael Hollice is the Founder and Creative Director of The Play LA (that’s a sex party) originally from Los Angeles where his class watched the birthing video forwards and backwards… literally. That baby got sucked right back up!
    In this episode we talk about:
    00:46 The Play LA and Prioritizing Health, Consent, Intimacy, and Artistry 04:04 Arielle’s Magical Experience at The Play LA 06:19 Sex as a Collaboration 13:18 The Importance of Eye Gazing and Dropping In 15:07 Sexual and Creative Freedom 16:04 Shifting the Culture of Sex Education 26:25 The Pitfalls of Non-Monogamy  34:12 The Nuance of Flirting 37:07 The power of sharing Desires, Intentions, and Boundaries 38:33 No Phones, No Money, No Hierarchy… that’s a good play party! 39:29 How to be a voyeur, but not in a creepy way 41:23 Speaking Desires into Existence 42:49 The Evolution of Boundaries 46:32 Anticipation is Foreplay 56:16 The eroticism of being fed Cookies after an orgasm 59:34 The birthing video… in reverse! 01:02:44 Michael’s First Sexual Experience and the experience that changed it all 01:07:05 Importance of Repair… cancellation is not always the way 01:18:22 Profound Experiences can happen  at Play Parties 01:20:15 Creating a Community of Connection and Vulnerability 01:21:35 The Play LA and The Play Network You can find Michael on Instagram at @theplay.la and The Play LA  website https://theplay.la/
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    Download your FREE Yes / No / Maybe list (you'll find out if play parties are on the menu!), get merch or apply for coaching at www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com
    If you’re pickin’ up what we’re putting down please help me spread the word; Like, subscribe and tell your friends so other people know this exists! You can also buy me a coffee if you're a real sweetie.
    Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
     
    Stay sexy xx

    • 1 hr 31 min
    Let's Play (w/ Morgan Jay)

    Let's Play (w/ Morgan Jay)

    Morgan Jay is a musician and comedian originally from Mahwah, New Jersey where he was taught that women would derail and distract him!
    In this episode we talk about:
    04:11 Creating a Sexy and Fun Show 05:46 Transitioning from Stand-up to Music 07:33 The Evolution of Comedy Clubs 12:02 Understanding Different Sexual Preferences 16:20 The Importance of Consent and Aftercare 20:02 Exploring Sexual Wellness and Pleasure Products 25:23 The Accessibility and Variety of Pornography 31:05 The Impact of Abstinence-Only Sex Education 36:55 The Influence of Cultural and Religious Upbringing 41:44 Exploring New Sexual Experiences 46:09 The Importance of Playfulness and Curiosity 48:18 Sexual Connection in Intimate Relationships 49:10 The Consequences of Ignoring Sexual Compatibility 51:42 Having Complex Conversations about Sexual Desires 53:47 Normalizing Sexual Pleasure for All 56:52 Exploring Unique Sexual Fantasies 59:04 Creating Pleasurable and Intimate Experiences You can find Morgan on Instagram at @morganjay and his website www.morganjay.com
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    HEY LOS ANGELES!  Come to the Hollywood Burlesque Festival at Frogtown Brewery on March 9th where we’ll be interviewing performers all day! Get 20% off your festival tickets with offer code: BIRDS&BEES 
    Download your FREE Yes / No / Maybe list, get merch or apply for coaching at www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com
    If you’re pickin’ up what we’re putting down please help me spread the word; Like, subscribe and tell your friends so other people know this exists! You can also buy me a coffee if you're a real sweetie.
     
    Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
    K, love you, byeeeeee

    • 1 hr 3 min
    Fck Yeah Sex Ed! (w/ Sarah Tomchesson)

    Fck Yeah Sex Ed! (w/ Sarah Tomchesson)

    Sarah Tomchesson is a sex educator, fed-up feminist, queer mom and co-host of the Fck Yeah! Podcast originally from a little all over but who had her first sex ed class in Los Angeles where they were interrupted by an earthquake!
    In this episode we talk about:
    02:02 SIECUS and Sex Education Advocacy 05:21 The Importance of Policy Change 10:17 The Fear of Talking About Sex 11:15 Unpacking Shame and Ego 15:07 Sarah’s Experiences with Sex Education 19:46 Supporting Parents in Sex Education 22:07 The Lack of Education on Menopause 24:59 The Lack of Sex Education in Medical Training 32:34 Sarah's Journey into Sex Education 40:55 The Importance of Normalizing Pleasure 41:08 Upcoming Program with Anne Hodder-Shipp 43:14 Understanding Your Relationship to and Expanding the Definition of Pleasure 49:31 Prioritizing Pleasure in Daily Life 52:09 Navigating Censorship and Playing the Game 53:49 Knowing and Trusting Yourself You can find Sarah on Instagram at @pleasureguides and their website https://www.s3xplus.com/ and of course you can join her program with Anne Hodder-Shipp that begins on March 14th at https://www.eventbrite.com/e/pleasure-attitudes-building-an-embodied-self-care-practice-that-works-tickets-773968630007
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    Like to watch? Check out the video version of this podcast on YouTube!
     
    Download your FREE Yes / No / Maybe list, get merch or apply for coaching at www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com
     
    If you’re pickin’ up what we’re putting down please help me spread the word; Like, subscribe and tell your friends so other people know this exists! You can also buy me a coffee if you're a real sweetie.
    Stay connected through Birds and Bees Don't Fck on Instagram at @birdsandbeesdontfck & follow your host @ArielleZadok
    K, love you, byeeeeee
     

    • 57 min
    Consent Is Sexy (w/ Tyomi Morgan)

    Consent Is Sexy (w/ Tyomi Morgan)

    Tyomi Morgan is a Sexologist, Intimacy Coordinator and creator of The Cowgirl Workout originally from Chicago where they went on a class trip to learn about sex!
    In this episode we talk about:
    03:04 Intimacy Coordinating, obviously! 14:43 The one thing you MUST know as an Intimacy Coordinator 23:00 When Sex Ed is a class trip… 29:29 Impact of Sex Education on Personal Exploration 38:08 Virginity is a hoax 45:03 The importance of authenticity and Communication in Relationships 46:28 The art of Letting Go and Embracing Change 47:23 Fluidity and Exploration in Sexuality 50:13 Recognizing Patterns and Trauma 51:57 Taking Action and Doing the Work 54:20 The Lifelong Journey of Self-Reflection 57:18 The Importance of Self-Care and Boundaries 59:08 The DM slide all sex educators get 01:01:21 Embracing Autonomy and Choice You can find Tyomi on Instagram at @realglamazontyomi and on X (Twitter) at @glamazontyomi get The Cowgirl Workout at https://members.thecowgirlworkout.com/ see her in person at Exxxotica Expo https://www.exxxoticaexpo.com/ or catch her classes at https://www.thepleasureacademy.com/
     
    WE’VE GOT MERCH! Plus a free Yes / No / Maybe list all over at https://www.birdsandbeesdontfck.com
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    • 1 hr 5 min

Customer Reviews

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26 Ratings

26 Ratings

TrueLove16 ,

Save the Bees!

As someone who never got the birds and bees talk from their parents, so jazzed to have Arielle and company in my life.

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On a mission!

Arielle is on a mission to change the world and has a keen sense for the creative space with her many years in the producing. Key for anyone in this space. 🙌🏼

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Amazing podcast!!!

Arielle is on a mission to help people grow in all ways of life. She is passionate, funny, extremely fun to listen to, and deeply dedicated to passing on the wisdom she has picked up along her journey through life. I’m excited to see this podcast grow so her message and amazing interviews can touch more lives!

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