First Action Best Action

Gene Monterastelli
First Action Best Action

We know know that moment leads to actions and action leads to creating the lives we want. In this podcast we journey to discovering the ways that we can create momentum and restart momentum when we lose it. Gene Monterastelli ask the questions “What is the first action to take to insure I take the best actions today” In under 10 minutes, five days a week we are going to look at one small thing you can do today as your first action to help you take the best actions today.

  1. 29/09/2021

    The only type of help you should offer to others

    Make sure you check out the free resource library: https://firstactionbestaction.com/resouces One of my favorite albums (and yes I listened to it on vinyl) was the children's album "Free To Be You And Me". One of the songs was penned by poet and storyteller Shel Silverstein. It is called "Helping". The final verse goes: And some kind of help is the kind of help That helping's all about And some kind of help is the kind of help We all can do without It speaks clearly to the idea that sometimes help is wonderful and sometimes other people's help actually gets in the way. I often refer to the latter variety as "kind-hearted incompetence". In the mid-2010s there was an absolutely beautiful (and sadly short-run) television show called "Going Deep with David Rees". In each episode David tackled the best way to solve one simple problem, like how to make ice, swat a fly, tie a shoe, shake hands, or open a door. Each episode was dedicated to only one of these topics. David is a beautiful mix of curiosity, kindness, and obsessiveness. Because of this, each episode turned into a reflection on what it means to be human and to be kind. (So much so I bought the first season on DVD just to show my sister the episode on how to pet a dog.) In the episode on how to wash dishes there is a long segment dedicated to how to load a dishwasher. In case you weren't aware (and I somehow doubt that), people have strong opinions on the best way to load a dishwasher and they are willing to let you know how they do it and why it is the best. In the middle of this conversation David made the most beautiful statement about helping. The statement provides guidance on how to offer "the kind of help that helping is all about" and not "the kind of help that we can do without". Understanding this concept will not only make you a better helper to the people in your life, but it will also teach you the best ways to ask for help so you can avoid kind-hearted incompetence barging into your life. Subscribe in: Apple Podcast | Spotify | Google Podcast | Amazon Music | Audible | RSS

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  2. 28/09/2021

    Why you should employ systems (and it is NOT to avoid failure)

    Make sure you check out the free resource library: https://firstactionbestaction.com/resouces If you were to tell any of my childhood teachers that one of the main reasons my clients come to me is for help with creating systems, they simply wouldn't believe you. As a child (and for a good portion of my adult life), you certainly wouldn't have described me as organized or systematized. My homework was always late. I regularly lost important notes. In grade school my desk was frequently so messy that I would have to stay behind during recess to clean it up. My daily life looks very different now as I have found my way to creating and maintaining efficient systems. The funny thing is that people assume I was like this in childhood, when that couldn't be farther from the truth. Today my clients think I am organized with everything. Everything has an order and place. Everything gets done on time and comes out exactly the way I want it. It is true I am way more organized and systematized than I used to be, but my working life is far from perfect and things go wrong all the time. My systems don't always work and I often lose my way. But that is fine, because the goal of my systems isn't to solve all my problems or to ensure that everything goes smoothly. Instead I have a very different goal for my systems. By aiming for something other than perfection, my systems have had a huge impact on my productivity, even when everything goes wrong. This is how I approach systems so they are working for me and I am not being controlled by them. Subscribe in: Apple Podcast | Spotify | Google Podcast | Amazon Music | Audible | RSS

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We know know that moment leads to actions and action leads to creating the lives we want. In this podcast we journey to discovering the ways that we can create momentum and restart momentum when we lose it. Gene Monterastelli ask the questions “What is the first action to take to insure I take the best actions today” In under 10 minutes, five days a week we are going to look at one small thing you can do today as your first action to help you take the best actions today.

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