42 episodes

Join us in the Torah of Conversation (formerly known as A New Conversation with Chanie and Peretz) as we dive deeply into life and journey into its avoided spaces through the torah of conversation. Along the way, you will learn the lost art of conversations and the skills to incorporate it into your life.
Much love,
Chanie and Peretz
Co-Founders of M54

Torah of Conversation Chanie and Peretz Chein

    • Education
    • 4.8 • 20 Ratings

Join us in the Torah of Conversation (formerly known as A New Conversation with Chanie and Peretz) as we dive deeply into life and journey into its avoided spaces through the torah of conversation. Along the way, you will learn the lost art of conversations and the skills to incorporate it into your life.
Much love,
Chanie and Peretz
Co-Founders of M54

    Moving Forward - Reflecting on 21 Years

    Moving Forward - Reflecting on 21 Years

    Over the past 14 months, since we published our last podcast, we have been hard at work developing, applying, and teaching the pedagogy and skills of self-reflection and growth through language and finding voice.
    This will be the last episode of a New Conversation with Chanie and Peretz. Moving forward our podcast will be called the Torah of Conversation!
    This episode, recorded in front of a live audience, is a reflective conversation on our 21 years at Brandeis and our dream for the future.
    The conversation is skillfully moderated by the Jacob S. Potofsky Professor Emerita of Sociology, Shulamit Reinharz.
    We invite you to join us in upcoming episodes as we explore the torah of conversation.

    • 1 hr 2 min
    3 Steps to a Conversation

    3 Steps to a Conversation

    Grab a drink of your choice and join us in the Chein living room!
    In this episode you will hear exactly what a conversation using the three steps of ‘let-it-land’, ‘tell- me-more’, and ‘name the thing’ can sound like.
    Through a real conversation about concerns surrounding the upcoming Passover holiday, we move away from the abstract to explicitly model what happens when using these three tools and demonstrate how it can lead to a more productive conversation.

    • 14 min
    Conversation Creator - Name the Thing

    Conversation Creator - Name the Thing

    ‘Naming the thing’ is critical in taking a conversation to a new level and greater depth.
    In this episode, we share what naming the thing has done to our relationships with others and each other.
    ‘Naming the thing’ is about putting forward what is unsaid but fully present, taking up space, or weighing heavily on either of the participants.
    We explore what prevents “naming the thing” and what can happen when done well.

    • 13 min
    Conversation Creator - Tell Me More

    Conversation Creator - Tell Me More

    In this episode, we share three simple words that can make any conversation deeper, more thoughtful, and more productive: Tell Me More.
    When you invite someone to “tell me more,” you’re inviting them to look within themselves and open up another layer to the conversation. The listener’s role becomes less about offering advice or solutions to a problem but supporting the other’s own exploration.
    Not only does this help the one sharing their feelings, but it also strengthens the relationship between the two in conversation.

    • 12 min
    Conversation Creator, Let it Land

    Conversation Creator, Let it Land

    Think about a recent conversation you had with someone. Did you find yourself formulating a response in your head before the other person finished their thought? In this episode, we talk about the value of “letting it land” - taking in what someone is offering to you in a conversation, pausing, and then engaging with a response.
    We also discuss how important it is to have conversations with those you love, even when a relationship feels perfectly fine as is. It is about digging deeper and opening up a richness that can only be accessed through conversation.

    • 14 min
    What's Preventing Conversations?

    What's Preventing Conversations?

    What prevents someone from having a conversation? Often people want easy life fixes; they turn to self-help books or TED Talks or lectures telling them how to solve their problems. This keeps someone from looking inside themselves, considering their reality, and engaging with it alongside another person. In this podcast, we discuss these conversation preventers and others. Instead of turning to others for fixes, we encourage the practice of conversation.

    • 12 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
20 Ratings

20 Ratings

The Peabody Rebbe ,

Refreshingly honest

I am loving these podcasts.
The vulnerability expressed by Peretz and Chanie, empowers the listener to dig and explore their deepest most authentic self!

SruliBaron ,

Listening is learning

Brilliant, insightful, and inspiring. There is something here for everyone.

I found it to be a masterclass on true curiosity and exploration.

It taught me how to listen to others, truly, deeply, and honestly.

kate friedman ,

Inspiring, refreshing, honest!

Peretz and Chanie have done it again! They’ve opened our eyes, ears and minds, through these podcasts, to the deep thinking behind their mission at Brandeis, and other subjects as well. I’m taking away from these podcasts the message that there is so much room for growth and development and all that we do.