Total Health in Midlife with Elizabeth Sherman

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Total Health in Midlife with Elizabeth Sherman

Midlife doesn’t have to mean slowing down, feeling out of control, or resigning yourself to being frumpy & invisible. On the Total Health in Midlife Podcast, seasoned health coach Elizabeth Sherman cuts through the noise of fad diets and contradictory wellness advice. In warm, relatable chats, you’ll discover straightforward strategies for managing hormonal shifts, optimizing nutrition, and prioritizing emotional wellness—so you can experience genuine energy and comfort in your body. Whether you’re juggling an empty nest, a changing career, or simply trying to keep up with everyday demands, each episode offers practical insights that fit into your real life. Tune in to hear expert interviews, personal stories, and encouraging tips designed to help you embrace this stage with confidence. It’s time to unlock sustainable habits that support your physical health, nurture your mental well-being, and truly bring you peace of mind in your 40s, 50s, and beyond. Visit https://elizabethsherman.com/habits to download the 8 Basic Habits that Healthy People Do Guide & Checklist to start your journey focusing on the basics of good health for your body today!

  1. 1D AGO

    230: Imagine Yourself with Lanee Blaise

    What if the key to better health in midlife isn’t a new diet… but a new way of thinking? In this episode of the Total Health in Midlife Podcast, I’m joined by former client and fellow podcaster Lanee Blaise. Lanee shares what it actually looked like to change her habits—not just for a season, but in a way that feels good and lasts. From navigating vacations without guilt to letting go of all-or-nothing thinking, this conversation is full of relatable moments, real struggles, and practical wins. We talk about what it means to become the woman who can keep the results she creates—and why slowing down and thinking things through is the most underrated health habit of all. Lanee brings wisdom, humor, and honesty to everything she touches. If you’ve ever felt like you "should know better" but still struggle to follow through, this one’s for you. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN Why thought work matters—even if you think you’re not a “feelings” person How to handle vacation eating and still enjoy yourself without backsliding What it takes to shift from willpower to self-trust in your everyday choices How to stop people-pleasing and start prioritizing your own well-being Why “bare minimum habits” are the secret to bouncing back faster RESOURCES Imagine Yourself Podcast with Lanee Blaise 8 Basic Habits Healthy People Do Guide & Checklist Free “I Know What to Do, I’m Just Not Doing It” Strategy Call Get full show notes and more information here: https://elizabethsherman.com/230

    57 min

  2. JUL 1

    229: When Food is Friendship

    You’ve committed to eating better. Maybe you’ve even started feeling more like yourself again: more energy, fewer cravings, pants that fit the way you want them to. But then you go to dinner with friends… and suddenly, you’re halfway through a basket of fries you didn’t even want, wondering how you got there. If you’ve ever felt like changing how you eat starts messing with your relationships, you are not alone. In fact, the pressure to eat a certain way around others is one of the biggest hidden reasons women struggle to stick with new habits. In this episode of Total Health in Midlife, we’re exploring what happens when food is more than just fuel, it’s friendship, tradition, and connection. And what it means when you start making different choices. Because it’s not about discipline. It’s about belonging. And if you’ve ever felt torn between doing what’s right for your body and doing what’s expected at the table… this episode is going to explain why—and what you can do about it. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN Why eating out with friends can derail your best intentions—even when you had a plan How shared food habits shape our friendships, and what happens when you want to change them Two key mindset and behavior shifts that make social eating easier to navigate What to do when your health goals don’t match your group’s habits (without blowing up your relationships) Get full show notes and more information here: https://elizabethsherman.com/229

    20 min

  3. JUN 24

    228: Dare On with Jodi Silverman

    Have you ever found yourself stuck in the routine of life checking off the boxes, doing everything you’re “supposed to,” but quietly wondering, is this really all there is? If so, you're going to love this conversation. I sat down with my new friend Jodi Silverman, the dynamic founder of the ‘Moms Who Dare’ community, and we talked all about rediscovering purpose, confidence, and joy through something so simple and so powerful: daring.   But don’t worry, we’re not talking about jumping out of planes. These are doable dares, things like smiling at a stranger, saying yes to something new, laughing more often, or simply getting quiet enough to hear yourself again. Jodi walked me through her five foundational dares and how they can help us feel more connected, creative, and truly alive. We also explored how so many of us were taught to be serious growing up and how that seriousness may be costing us our joy.   This conversation was both lighthearted and deeply meaningful. We laughed, we reflected, and we both shared personal stories of stepping out of our comfort zones. If you’ve been feeling a little flat or disconnected from your sense of fun and purpose, you’ll walk away from this episode with real, tangible ways to shift your energy and start feeling more like you again.   Jodi also shared her amazing “30 Days of Doable Dares” freebie, which you can grab to start your own daring journey today. And if your health or your life doesn’t quite feel like your own anymore, I want you to know that you’re not alone. I invite you to schedule one of my “I know what to do, I’m just not doing it” strategy calls, designed for exactly this moment in life. The link is in the show notes. Until next time, keep daring. About Jodi Silverman A natural optimist, Jodi believes midlife isn’t about slowing down—it’s about stepping up! Moms Who Dare® is the go-to space for women ready to embrace adventure, purpose, and possibility. She also hosts Beyond Empty Nest, a top-ranked podcast that helps women navigate midlife with confidence, connection, and a little daring. Here, we believe DARING—stepping outside your comfort zone and trying new things—is the key to rediscovering yourself.   WHAT YOU’LL LEARN How five simple, everyday “doable dares” like smiling, laughing, and playing can boost your mood, confidence, and overall well-being. Why stepping slightly out of your comfort zone can be the key to rediscovering purpose, connection, and fun in midlife. How to break free from the pressure to “be serious” and instead embrace joy, creativity, and authentic emotional expression. Get full show notes and more information here: https://elizabethsherman.com/228

    41 min

  4. JUN 17

    227: The Thing Before the Thing

    You think the problem is food. Or maybe it’s your lack of motivation. If only you had more discipline, or found the right plan, then everything would finally fall into place—right? But what if the real reason you’re not making progress isn’t about food, or workouts, or willpower? In this episode of Total Health in Midlife, I’m pulling back the curtain on what’s really getting in the way of your health habits—and it’s probably not what you think. From skipping workouts to stress eating yogurt by the tub (yes, I’ve been there), we’re diving into why so many smart, capable women are solving for the wrong problem… and how that keeps us stuck in patterns that don’t serve us. If you’ve ever said, “I know what to do, I just don’t do it,” this episode is your invitation to rethink everything you thought was the issue. Because once you see what’s really underneath the inconsistency, change becomes possible. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN Why willpower isn’t your problem (and never was) How cultural conditioning sets women up to misdiagnose health struggles A simple mindset shift that makes healthy habits more doable and sustainable

    18 min

  5. JUN 10

    226: Lit Up Life with Debbie Heiser

    Have you ever caught yourself wondering, How did I get here? You're doing all the right things, checking off the to-do list, showing up for everyone else but somehow, your own joy feels like an afterthought. In this episode of the Total Health in Midlife Podcast, I sit down with Debbie Heiser, Chief Igniter of The Lit Up Life, to talk about what it really takes to build a business and a life that feels fully aligned and lit up from the inside out. Debbie and I talk about what it means to live in integrity with yourself while making good money doing work you love. We explore how so many of us, especially women, have been conditioned to downplay what we want, to stay small, and to avoid being "too much." Debbie shares how learning to own your desires, trust your decisions, and flip the script on guilt and second-guessing can completely transform not just your business, but your sense of freedom and purpose. I also loved diving into our relationship with money and productivity, how we're praised for being busy, and how we often sacrifice self-care in favor of checking things off the list. Debbie shares her personal story of replacing a goal to “lose weight” with a much more inspiring vision: skiing at age 80. That simple mindset shift led her to take action with joy, not dread something I know so many of us need to hear. If you’ve been feeling stuck, burned out, or unsure of what the next phase of your life or business should look like, this conversation will help you reconnect with your inner compass. It’s not about hustling harder, it’s about stepping into your clarity, honoring what lights you up, and creating a life that supports who you really are. About Debbie Heiser: Debbie Heiser is the Chief Igniter at The Lit Up Life; helping men and women make a lot of money, doing what they love without sacrificing what's important to them. She loves helping people transform so they can lead a juicy, lit up life.  She also teaches leadership at Gonzaga University, drawing on her 20+ years as an executive in Corporate America.  Get full show notes and more information here: https://elizabethsherman.com/226 WHAT YOU’LL LEARN How to identify what you truly want beyond the labels, roles, and people-pleasing, and design a business that supports the life you envision. Why busy doesn’t equal productive, and how shifting to inspired, values-aligned action can create more freedom, joy, and financial success. How to reframe your relationship with money, trust your own decisions, and confidently take up space without guilt or apology.

    49 min

  6. JUN 3

    225: Answering the Question, "Is it Healthy?"

    Is this healthy… or fat as sh*t?” Why That Might Be the Wrong Question Entirely. Have you ever paused mid-scroll, staring at some sort of ‘food hack’ on Instagram, and wondered, “Wait… is that actually good for me?”  In this episode, I peel back the layers of that deceptively simple question and challenge the rigid good vs. bad food mindset that so many of us carry. Through a relatable Costco story, surprising examples (yes, even kale can be ‘unhealthy’ for some people), and a new framework called the “Three Food Buckets,” I help reframe how we think about food, moving away from judgment and toward self-trust and context. This episode dives into the exhausting cycle of all-or-nothing thinking, second-guessing every bite, and feeling like one “wrong” food choice will derail everything. I walk you through how you’ve been trained to treat food like a morality test and why that thinking keeps us stuck. Instead, I introduce a sliding scale approach to eating that takes into account your body, your preferences, your goals, and your actual life. No more rigid food rules. No more shame spirals. Just nuance, curiosity, and choices that actually feel good. You’ll also learn how to start practicing moderation without fear, break free from the perfectionist trap, and finally understand why your version of healthy might not look like anyone else’s. Whether you're curious about fat-free yogurt or those TikTok-famous butter dates, this episode will give you permission to trust yourself, ditch the food drama, and build a flexible, sustainable approach to eating that truly works for you.  Plus, don’t miss the free guide mentioned at the end; it's a practical resource to start creating your own personalized, non-restrictive food framework today. Get full show notes and more information here: https://elizabethsherman.com/225 WHAT YOU’LL LEARN Why the question “Is this healthy?” might be sabotaging your progress… and what to ask instead to make food choices with confidence and clarity. How to shift from all-or-nothing thinking to a more flexible, sustainable approach to eating using my simple “Three Food Buckets” framework. How to rebuild self-trust around food so you can stop second-guessing yourself, enjoy what you eat, and make empowered choices that align with your body and life.

    25 min

  7. MAY 27

    224: When We Ignore Our Own Boundaries

    Have you ever noticed how you can be completely on it in one area of your life, like nailing your eating habits and moving your body, while completely bulldozing your own rules in another? You know that getting enough sleep makes you feel amazing, yet you stay up for just ‘one more’ episode. Or you set a boundary around your phone use, only to immediately check Instagram the next morning. Why do we do this?  This episode of The Total Health and Midlife Podcast dives into the deeper reasons why we override our own boundaries, and spoiler alert, it’s not about willpower. If you’ve ever found yourself breaking the very rules you set for yourself, this episode is for you.   We like to tell ourselves that discipline and self-control are the answers, but if that were true, we wouldn’t keep repeating the same patterns. The real issue? Disconnection. When we don’t intentionally build in rest, pleasure, and fulfillment, we end up stealing moments of false pleasure, doom scrolling, mindless snacking, or binge-watching late at night.  I share personal experiences, client stories, and the psychology behind why we sabotage our own boundaries. You’ll learn why self-trust is the key to making lasting change and how shifting your approach to boundaries can help you actually honor them rather than feeling like you’re constantly failing yourself.   So, what’s your version of ‘just one more bite’ or ‘just five more minutes’? Where do you override your own best intentions, not because you’re weak, but because something deeper is missing? We challenge the belief that productivity must always come before pleasure and explore small, powerful ways to reconnect with what you truly need.  If you’re ready to stop fighting yourself and start building trust in your decisions, this episode will show you how to create real, sustainable change without relying on willpower alone. Tune in now to start showing up for yourself in a way that feels supportive, not restrictive. Get full show notes and more information here: https://elizabethsherman.com/224

    19 min

  8. MAY 20

    223: Midlife, Anxiety, & Alcohol

    What if the very thing you use to unwind is actually keeping you stuck? Have you ever woken up in the middle of the night with your heart racing and your mind spinning, wondering why you feel so anxious? Or maybe you notice a lingering unease throughout your day, a quiet hum of worry that you can’t quite place.  Most of us chalk it up to stress, hormones, or just the realities of midlife. But what if there’s another hidden factor that’s fueling your anxiety, one that’s so ingrained in our daily habits that we rarely question it? In this episode, we’re peeling back the layers on alcohol and anxiety, exploring how that evening glass of wine or celebratory cocktail might not be helping you relax as much as you think.   You don’t have to quit drinking, but what if you just paid attention? I share my personal journey of re-evaluating my relationship with alcohol, not because I had to, but because I wanted to feel better. I unpack the science behind why alcohol disrupts sleep, triggers stress hormones, and fuels anxiety, especially for women in midlife.  From cultural conditioning to brain chemistry, I explore how alcohol can create a cycle that keeps us feeling on edge without us even realizing it. But this isn’t an all-or-nothing conversation. Instead of making a case for quitting, I offer an invitation to experiment, to notice, and to ask yourself, “Is alcohol actually making you feel the way you want to feel?”   The goal isn't to give up something you love… It's to figure out if it's truly adding to your life. Through my ‘Decide Ahead of Time’ framework, I walk you through the small, intentional shifts that can lead to big changes. I share how making mindful decisions around drinking, rather than following automatic habits, can help you regain control over your anxiety and sleep.  If you’ve ever wondered why you feel anxious for no apparent reason or why your sleep isn’t as restorative as it used to be, this episode is for you. It’s not about judgment or restriction, it’s about awareness and choice.  Tune in for practical strategies, eye-opening insights, and a new way to think about alcohol and your well-being. Get full show notes and more information here: https://elizabethsherman.com/223

    23 min
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Midlife doesn’t have to mean slowing down, feeling out of control, or resigning yourself to being frumpy & invisible. On the Total Health in Midlife Podcast, seasoned health coach Elizabeth Sherman cuts through the noise of fad diets and contradictory wellness advice. In warm, relatable chats, you’ll discover straightforward strategies for managing hormonal shifts, optimizing nutrition, and prioritizing emotional wellness—so you can experience genuine energy and comfort in your body. Whether you’re juggling an empty nest, a changing career, or simply trying to keep up with everyday demands, each episode offers practical insights that fit into your real life. Tune in to hear expert interviews, personal stories, and encouraging tips designed to help you embrace this stage with confidence. It’s time to unlock sustainable habits that support your physical health, nurture your mental well-being, and truly bring you peace of mind in your 40s, 50s, and beyond. Visit https://elizabethsherman.com/habits to download the 8 Basic Habits that Healthy People Do Guide & Checklist to start your journey focusing on the basics of good health for your body today!

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