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Relationship advice for polyamorous and kinky folks. Join Cassie and Rigel (and their guests!) as they tackle BDSM, sex, and polyamory - and discuss how to build extraordinary relationships in an ordinary world. Got a question about kink, power exchange, or open relationships? Ask us a question at atouchofflavor.com/ask or leave us a message at 833-ASK-TOF1 (833-275-8631).

Touch of Flavor | Relationships Outside the Box Cassie Fuller and Rigel

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Relationship advice for polyamorous and kinky folks. Join Cassie and Rigel (and their guests!) as they tackle BDSM, sex, and polyamory - and discuss how to build extraordinary relationships in an ordinary world. Got a question about kink, power exchange, or open relationships? Ask us a question at atouchofflavor.com/ask or leave us a message at 833-ASK-TOF1 (833-275-8631).

    #089: Please help me squirt again!

    #089: Please help me squirt again!

    Is it “undomly” to go down on your submissive? Why do (some) women like degradation? Are there ways to be happy as a secondary when you’ve lost your primary relationship? What should you do when you’ve broken up with your partners to work on your marriage, but 9 months later things haven’t improved (and now you’re resentful)? We answer these questions, and more!

    • 48 min
    #088: Ten Poly Secrets We Learned In 2019

    #088: Ten Poly Secrets We Learned In 2019

    We spend hours each day coaching polyamorous folks on how to stop fighting, fall back in love, and build amazing relationships. We learn something new about polyamorous relationships every single day.



    In fact, there are 10 things we learned this past year that EVERY poly person should know. In this episode, we pull back the curtain and reveal what we learned.

    • 42 min
    #087: Where did the spark go?

    #087: Where did the spark go?

    The most frequent complaint we hear from polyamorous folks is that they feel disconnected in their relationship. They say that they’ve lost the spark, or fallen out of love, or feel more like roommates than they do partners.



    But there’s good news. Not only can you get that spark back. But you can get back to a place where you’re every bit as much in love with your partner(s) as when you first met. And if you’re in a newer relationship where you’re still feeling the connection? There are ways to keep from ever falling out of love in the first place. In this episode, we break it all down.

    • 36 min
    #086: Pick up Play with Stefanos and Shay

    #086: Pick up Play with Stefanos and Shay

    Do you wish you could walk into a dungeon and negotiate a scene with a sexy human you’ve never met before? For many of us, part of the appeal of public events is the spice and variety that playing with someone new can bring. But making the fantasy a reality can be a little difficult.



    Never fear! In this episode, experienced playsluts Shay and Stefanos reveal how to pick up a new partner and keep them coming back for more. We talk about the best events for pick-up play, how to approach someone and ask them to play, negotiation tips, what happens after the scene ends, and more.

    • 1 hr 20 min
    #085: What’s Worse In a relationship? Screaming? Or Silence?

    #085: What’s Worse In a relationship? Screaming? Or Silence?

    We all know that a classically bad relationship is loud — full of screaming, crying, slammed doors, and emotional breakdowns. When you see those patterns in a relationship, you recognize them as a warning sign that you need help — quickly.



    But did you know that silence can be just as dangerous? That a relationship that seems to have zero conflict can be on the verge of ending tomorrow? In this episode, we reveal when the calm in your relationship is actually a warning sign and how you can resolve the conversations you’ve been avoiding and heal your relationship.

    • 51 min
    #084: Pony Play with Tromper and Handler Jenn

    #084: Pony Play with Tromper and Handler Jenn

    In this episode, we’re talking with Tromper and Handler Jenn, the 2020 North American Pony/Trainer titleholders. The topic? Pony play of course! We talk about what pony play is, why it’s something you might enjoy, and how to get started.



    PLUS: We discuss the intersection between pony play and power exchange, get a glimpse into sexual pony play, and contrast pony play with other kinds of animal play.

    • 1 hr 4 min

Customer Reviews

Heatherak ,

Such a good show to induce conversations

I love listening to this show with my husband. It takes almost two hours to get through an episode since we often pause and discuss a topic that was just presented. Love love love 🖖🏽

idriveneon ,

Very informative

As someone who is new to being poly and also new to the kink community this podcast is extremely informative. The hosts also do a very good job of not shaming or playing down anyone’s interests because they don’t fit their own. I can only imagine the content will get better and better as time progresses!

bdsmbedtimestories ,

Listen and act

As a couple looking for a partner this podcast is perfect. We listened then tore down and rewrote our profile. Not only are people now responding but even seeking is out. Thanks for the honesty and advice.
Ryder

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