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Relationship advice for polyamorous and kinky folks. Join Cassie and Rigel (and their guests!) as they tackle BDSM, sex, and polyamory - and discuss how to build extraordinary relationships in an ordinary world. Got a question about kink, power exchange, or open relationships? Ask us a question at atouchofflavor.com/ask or leave us a message at 833-ASK-TOF1 (833-275-8631).

Touch of Flavor | Relationships Outside the Box Cassie Fuller and Rigel

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Relationship advice for polyamorous and kinky folks. Join Cassie and Rigel (and their guests!) as they tackle BDSM, sex, and polyamory - and discuss how to build extraordinary relationships in an ordinary world. Got a question about kink, power exchange, or open relationships? Ask us a question at atouchofflavor.com/ask or leave us a message at 833-ASK-TOF1 (833-275-8631).

    #094: Overcoming Impossible Relationship Challenges

    #094: Overcoming Impossible Relationship Challenges

    Every week we talk with polyamorous folks who believe their relationship is doomed because they’re facing an insurmountable challenge. But they can’t see past the challenge to the real problem: they’ve set themselves up to fail. The result? They break up without ever giving their relationships a real chance.



    In this episode, we discuss how to set your relationships up to win so you can overcome those challenges and create something amazing together.

    • 31 min
    #093: Poly Baby: Week One

    #093: Poly Baby: Week One

    Our little one has arrived! In this episode, we sit down with Amanda to debrief our poly birthing experience. We talk about the birth itself, how the hospital staff reacted to our unique family, and what our first week raising a newborn with three parents looked like. We also discuss what we learned and what other soon-to-be poly parents should know.



    To our partners and chosen family who helped us at the hospital or since: we love you all.

    • 1 hr 14 min
    #092: How to Vanquish Jealousy

    #092: How to Vanquish Jealousy

    When poly folks tell us the challenges they face, jealousy is consistently in the top three. 







    That’s not surprising. Jealousy takes many different forms, but whether you’re:







    Sitting at home alone picturing how great a time your partner is having without you...







    Looking at the sexy young thing your partner is dating and measuring how you stack up...







    Watching your partner worship someone else when you haven’t gotten that kind of affection in YEARS...







    Or lying awake at 3 am wondering how long it will be before your partner replaces you with someone more fun (or more compatible)...







    Jealousy feels terrible. Not only does jealousy poison the relationship that’s causing the stress. It crushes your self-esteem, damages your health, and harms the relationships you have with family, friends, and other partners.







    You know jealousy is toxic. And every "expert" out there has tips on how to overcome it. So why are you still struggling?







    Simple. There are two distinct types of jealousy, but people only ever talk about one of them. You need to learn how to distinguish between the two, and how to tackle each type. Until then, you'll stay stuck.







    In this episode, we spell out how to vanquish jealousy in your relationships.











    * #091: The Baby Episode* Our Facebook groups for poly folks who want to build amazing relationships * If you’re struggling with jealousy, you can book a call with us here

    • 45 min
    #091: The Baby Episode

    #091: The Baby Episode

    Our poly family is having a baby! Which may not surprise you. In fact, dozens of our listeners already picked up that Cassie was pregnant, and they had a few questions. In this episode, we answer 18 baby and pregnancy questions, including: How do Rigel, Amanda, and Mancub feel about the pregnancy? Will Amanda be on the birth certificate? What’s Cassie’s birth plan? How are our bio families reacting? And how does Cassie know whose baby it is anyways?



    PLUS: Rigel reveals a shocking secret, we plan a post-pregnancy DP scene, and Amanda talks lactation.

    • 1 hr 12 min
    #090: Same S**t, Different Year

    #090: Same S**t, Different Year

    If you’re like a lot of people, you looked back at 2019 and realized your relationships left something to be desired. So you made a resolution. THIS is the year things would be different. The year you turn things around. Stop arguing. Fall back in love. And that’s great!



    We’re 3 weeks into 2020. How’s that going? Has anything gotten better? Have things gotten WORSE? In this episode, we discuss the four things you must do differently to turn your relationships around in 2020.

    • 37 min
    #089: Please help me squirt again!

    #089: Please help me squirt again!

    Is it “undomly” to go down on your submissive? Why do (some) women like degradation? Are there ways to be happy as a secondary when you’ve lost your primary relationship? What should you do when you’ve broken up with your partners to work on your marriage, but 9 months later things haven’t improved (and now you’re resentful)? We answer these questions, and more!

    • 48 min

Customer Reviews

Heatherak ,

Such a good show to induce conversations

I love listening to this show with my husband. It takes almost two hours to get through an episode since we often pause and discuss a topic that was just presented. Love love love 🖖🏽

idriveneon ,

Very informative

As someone who is new to being poly and also new to the kink community this podcast is extremely informative. The hosts also do a very good job of not shaming or playing down anyone’s interests because they don’t fit their own. I can only imagine the content will get better and better as time progresses!

bdsmbedtimestories ,

Listen and act

As a couple looking for a partner this podcast is perfect. We listened then tore down and rewrote our profile. Not only are people now responding but even seeking is out. Thanks for the honesty and advice.
Ryder

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