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#130: Chris & Lelly
What would it be like to completely reset your relationship? To have, as we teach our clients, a "day zero?" To put the arguments and history behind you and to move forward together as a team? That's exactly what Chris and Lelly did. They had patterns that had been festering in their relationship for YEARS. But now they have FINALLY put the past behind them. And they're approaching all their challenges—polyamory, children, house fires, COVID—as a team. Here’s how they did it.
#129: Why Your Agreements Aren’t Working
Healthy agreements in non-monogamous relationships are essential. But what do you do when they are not working? Here’s why your agreements aren’t working, and what you need to do about it.
#128: What If I’m Cheating
It's all good and well to talk about consensual non-monogamy... But what if you've been cheating? How do you tell your partner? How do you rebuild the relationship after you've come clean? If you've been wanting to move into honesty but are terrified about what comes next, this episode is for you.
#127: “Spend More Time Together” is Awful Advice
When your relationship isn't going well, the first thing people do is spend more time together.
Have you tried that yourself? I mean, it IS what everyone else is telling you to do.
But if you're like most people, you likely found that more time together just means more time to argue. More time to sit across the room from each other engrossed in your phone. More time to reflect on how much spending time together SUCKS.
And meanwhile, the problems in your relationship keep getting worse.
Do you want to know why "spend more time together" is horrible advice? And what you should do instead?
Listen to this episode.
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#126: David and Brandy
When your partner discovers they’re non-monogamous after you’ve been together since high school? That's tough. But what about when it’s four years later, you thought it was over... and now your partner has fallen for someone? That can seem impossible. Here’s how David and Brandy overcame that barrier and got back to the thriving relationship they used to have.
#125: DADT, Metamour Hate, and Quality Time
How do you deal with jealousy in a new relationship? How do you make Don’t Ask Don’t Tell (DADT) work? What do you do when your partner hates your other partner? In today's episode, we answer these questions and more.
Touch of Love is awesome
I love this company so much. You can really hear their passion for educating and helping the community.
One of my favorite podcasts!
I’ve been listening to this show since 2018. Each episode has helpful relationship tips (whether mono, poly or kink related), practical advice, coping techniques, offers effective methods of communication, and is rooted in hope and positivity. I especially enjoy their interview episodes with awesome guests! If you need inspiration or to feel more apart of this community - this is where you need to be.
10/10 would recommend
As someone who has been in the kink/poly lifestyle in some fashion for 10 years now, I thought there was very little this podcast was going to tech me. I was wrong. I’ve also sent episodes to friends and family to listen to. They cover a lot and it’s good quality information. Definitely recommend.