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More Impact | Stronger Relationships | Better SexYour pragmatic guide to relationships, sex, and purpose in the 21st century Featuring Rob Kandell as your host/coach/best-friend-you-never-knew-you-had, Tuff Love is a grab-bag of rants, listener Q&A’s, and captivating interviews with experts on everything from money-management to intimate touching.

Tuff Love with Robert Kandell Robert Kandell

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    • 4.6 • 46 Ratings

More Impact | Stronger Relationships | Better SexYour pragmatic guide to relationships, sex, and purpose in the 21st century Featuring Rob Kandell as your host/coach/best-friend-you-never-knew-you-had, Tuff Love is a grab-bag of rants, listener Q&A’s, and captivating interviews with experts on everything from money-management to intimate touching.

    258: Rob Rant: Thanks, I Had A Good Time

    258: Rob Rant: Thanks, I Had A Good Time

    In this week’s episode, Rob rants about his experience of the Tuff Love Podcast and the journey it has involved. Rob shares a humorous and poignant story involving bed bugs from his time at One Taste, explores his relationship with his own ego and how it has impacted his work, and how he has developed faith in letting go of things in life in order to allow new chapters to begin.

    3:54 – I had a good time

    7:50 – A space to express love

    10:00 – Committing to changing

    12:51 – A story about bedbugs

    17:38 – Ego guiding work

    20:32 – Surfing the wave of Covid-19

    22:32 – Rob’s father wound

    25:21 – Ending the podcast

    26:46 – Letting go and having faith

    28:35 – Having space to reflect

    29:07 – Comments from listeners

    34:44 – Thank you’s

    Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order

    OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio

    Get More of Robert at:

    www.RobertKandell.com

    As well as:

    www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ

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    • 38 min
    257: Stopping Corrupted Love with Vanya Silverten

    257: Stopping Corrupted Love with Vanya Silverten

    Vanya Silverten works internationally as an intuitive energy healer and teacher. With clients and students from over 50 countries, she has a passion to help individuals transform all aspects of their lives. Her greatest joy is to teach people the skills of healing and intuition so that they can master their own lives. Vanya believes healing is an art, and so has refined her gifted intuition through the experience of treating, reading and teaching 10,000+ people – from children to royalty.

    Vanya is a Master Theta Healer and has taught 150+ courses in six different countries. She has developed the energetic understanding of how the body, mind and soul function through her extensive training and experience. She passes this knowledge on by teaching and qualifying students to become practitioners of Theta Healing®

    Vanya is a qualified Nutritional Therapist. She has studied and worked extensively with herbs, vitamins, homeopathy and Australian Bush Flower Essences. Vanya is experienced at helping her clients overcome food allergies, hormonal and nervous problems.

    In 2015, Vanya became a mother to a beautiful daughter. This life-changing experience has deepened her appreciation of the female body temple and it’s potential to reach heightened states of sensual enlightenment. She shares these teachings in her women’s workshops, retreats and online courses.

    1:49 – How corrupted love affected Vanya

    5:27 – Understanding and transforming our stories

    8:26 – Letting go of identities

    10:38 – Techniques to help someone let go of their stories

    14:04 – How she works with people

    16:36 – How she started reading energy

    19:44 – Theta healing

    21:39 – Changes in Women’s sexuality

    24:16 – Techniques for keeping a relationship intimate

    28:15 – Understanding how our family lineage impacts us

    Find Vanya at:

    www.VanyaSilverten.com

    As well as her Free Courses:

    courses.vanyasilverten.com/collections?category=free

    Her book “Sacred Revolution: A Woman’s Path to Love, Power & Sensual Enlightenment”

    www.amazon.com/Sacred-Revolution-Womans-Sensual-Enlightenment/dp/198224352X

    And her Instagram:

    www.Instagram.com/VanyaSilverten

    Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order

    OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio

    Get More of Robert at:

    www.RobertKandell.com

    As well as:

    www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ

    Follows us at:

    www.facebook.com/robert.kandell

    www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/

    Join the living unhidden Facebook group

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    • 35 min
    256: Myths of Age and Romance with Violent Lange

    256: Myths of Age and Romance with Violent Lange

    Violet Lange is a love, dating, and relationship mentor who helps spiritual, successful women date like a Queen and feel Fabulously Feminine along the way. Violet has her MBA from Harvard, training from Coach Training Alliance, and is a 500 hour registered yoga teacher and Reiki Master. She is passionate about empowered dating, and lasting loving relationships as building blocks of a healthy society and fulfilling life. Violet recently became a mama to a spunky, sweet daughter named Ruby.

    1:42 – Violet’s background

    5:19 – How she helps women find fulfilling relationships

    7:31 – Using feelings as a barometer of relationship success

    10:24 – Helping women connect with their desires

    12:42 – How long does it take?

    15:09 – Being okay with being single

    16:28 – Disproving the myth of “Men aren’t interested in women my age”

    19:29 – Disproving the myth of “There are no good men out there”

    20:54 – Recommended dating apps

    22:51 – Tips for using dating apps

    24:05 – Continuing exploring “There are no good men out there”

    27:05 – Disproving the myth of “I have too much baggage”

    29:33 – Sexuality over 50

    Find Violet at:

    VioletLange.com/Talk

    As well as Facebook:

    www.facebook.com/groups/FreeYourFeminine/

    Instagram:

    www.instagram.com/VioletLoveLange

    Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order

    OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio

    Get More of Robert at:

    www.RobertKandell.com

    As well as:

    www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ

    Follows us at:

    www.facebook.com/robert.kandell

    www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/

    Join the living unhidden Facebook group

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    • 34 min
    255: Xponential Intelligence with Mas Sajady

    255: Xponential Intelligence with Mas Sajady

    Mas Sajady is a world renowned consciousness programmer who, through his unique techniques and meditations, shifts people’s lives to an evolved and advanced frequency level that enables them to achieve success, fulfillment, and happiness from a natural and balanced state.

    From a very young age, Mas showed signs of higher intuition, and after his second near death experience he acquired highly advanced capabilities for quantum frequency programming. His journey to discover the true meaning of this newfound ability led to his own personal breakthroughs, giving him a new effortless, happy, and fulfilling life. This found knowledge enlightened him with the limitless possibilities in human potential. Today, Mas fulfills his purpose by helping others reprogram and elevate their frequency, to activate their inner force and experience life from a place of confidence, stability, significance, and abundance.

    As the founder of Xponential Intelligence, Mas facilitates rapid changes through quantum reprogramming, which eliminate old dynamic energy partners. During sessions with Mas, regardless of whether you share your problems with him or not, he will discover and eliminate what has obstructed your life in the past.

    Mas has counseled tens of thousands of people around the world and has worked with business leaders, influencers, professional athletes, celebrities, royal families, and Fortune 500 executives from companies such as Capital Records, Starbucks, Facebook, Fox, Microsoft, FedEx, and many more. As a philanthropist, Mas donates his time to assist schools, hospitals, special needs organizations, and low income communities.

    In his spare time, Mas enjoys time with his family, travel, adventures, and various philanthropic activities that elevate the human consciousness.

    2:24 – What is Xponential Intelligence?

    9:14 – Generating frequencies

    17:19 – The limitations of modern mindfulness practices

    19:32 – Is Xponential Intelligence God?

    22:16 – Connecting to one’s source and love

    27:21 – Gender reversals

    35:12 – Questions from Facebook

    38:49 – Focusing on driving change externally versus internally

    41:44 – Details of Das’ Sunday Metahealing sessions

    Find Mas Sajady at:

    https://mas-sajady.com

    As well as Instagram:

    www.instagram.com/Mas_Sajady

    Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order

    OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio

    Get More of Robert at:

    www.RobertKandell.com

    As well as:

    www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ

    Follows us at:

    www.facebook.com/robert.kandell

    www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/

    Join the living unhidden Facebook group

    www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

    • 44 min
    254: Men in the Time of Coronavirus with Adam Gilad

    254: Men in the Time of Coronavirus with Adam Gilad

    Adam Gilad is an independent educator, writer and life adventurer, devoted to creating learning programs, films, books and live workshops that awaken, delight, provoke, connect and inspire. The goal of each of his programs and trainings: for each of us to love more fully, laugh more deeply, feel more sensually and live our gifts to awaken ourselves and others into deep engagement and awakening to every precious passing moment of our lives.

    2:30 – Adam’s experience of 2020 so far

    9:19 – The impact on children

    11:23 – Men in Coronavirus

    16:35 – A call for balance, Black Lives Matter, and the rise of listening

    25:18 – Being in relationships with differences

    29:51 – The Bold Life Brotherhood

    Find Adam at:

    www.TheBoldLifeBrotherhood.com

    As well as:

    Instagram:

    www.instagram.com/RealAdamGilad

    And Email:

    IAmAdamGilad@gmail.com

    Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order

    OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio

    Get More of Robert at:

    www.RobertKandell.com

    As well as:

    www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ

    Follows us at:

    www.facebook.com/robert.kandell

    www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/

    Join the living unhidden Facebook group

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    • 37 min
    253: What It Means To Be A Woman Today with Anna Rova

    253: What It Means To Be A Woman Today with Anna Rova

    Femininity & Feminine Embodiment Coach Anna Rova is on a mission to help successful women attract and keep masculine men. She runs a powerful group coaching program called “Claimed” that helps women embody their feminine essence fully and get into the best position to attract a partner that will consciously and eagerly play the masculine pole of the polarity spectrum

    Writer, podcaster, yoga instructor, and location-independent entrepreneur, Anna is the founder of Girlskill – an online coaching company empowering women to connect to their femininity and understand men through various stories of women around the world and personal revelations.

    Together with her husband, Anna has traveled the world being on the road full-time building her coaching practice, writing her personal blog, recording episodes on Girlskill Podcast, practicing yoga, and spreading love and positivity. In December 2018, Anna gave birth to her first child and is currently residing in Australia continuing to coach women all over the world.

    2:09 – Anna’s work and an overview of three lies about female success

    4:15 – Recent changes that have led to the current state of being for women

    8:18 – Previous gender roles

    12:13 – Men not stepping up to the level of empowered women

    15:54 – Gender roles in media

    22:48 – Evolutionary psychology

    28:03 – Monogamy and men’s drive away from it

    30:48 – Three lies about female success in-depth

    31:17 – Lie 1: Women can and should do it all

    35:01 – Lie 2: Feminine power is in independence and strength

    37:17 – Lie 3: Femininity is weakness

    Find Anna at:

    Home



    As well as her webinar on How to Start Attracting Committed Masculine Men by Releasing Control & Letting Him Lead:

    https://girlskill.com/webinar

    And her Instagram:

    www.instagram.com/annarova

    Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order

    OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio

    Get More of Robert at:

    www.RobertKandell.com

    As well as:

    www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ

    Follows us at:

    www.facebook.com/robert.kandell

    www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/

    Join the living unhidden Facebook group

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    • 43 min

Customer Reviews

4.6 out of 5
46 Ratings

46 Ratings

Sass1613 ,

Must listen for ALL men!

As a former special operations operator it is difficult for me want to take pointers from another man who doesn’t have my experience. But reading Roberts book and listening to his podcast I have learned to challenge that ego a hear the amazing value he brings! His tools and techniques have helped to make me a better man and husband! Thank you Robert!

KittyQB ,

Thank You!!

I absolutely love the subject matter of this podcast and Rob is so wise and relatable. The guest speakers are insightful and provide important perspectives as well. Every person would benefit from listening to this podcast and internalizing its advice!

BobSchwenkler ,

Rob is amazing

I love his energy and his insight. He's a very powerful dude.

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