Unblock Your Money Sh!t Heather Doran

Today I have been inspired to talk to you about waste.

Wasted money, wasted time, wasted energy, wasted effort

We have been trained very well in life, in society and in our brain to think that x + y should always equal z when it comes to our anything we do in our life, including spending money.

We have to get to the place where we don't expect life to fit into a box. Life is not a formula of 1+1=2. The universe and life that we are living in does not equal a nice beautiful bow and a nice beautiful formula every time we take an action. 

When that doesn't happen, the tendency is to fall into blame, shame and guilt. Blame money for not being better for us. Blame our career for not doing more for us. Shame ourselves for investing in the "wrong" things.

You're a human, and you're having a human experience. No one can guarantee you any result, because you are having a human experience.

When you do anything in life, make any type of action, you put any type of effort out there, especially when it comes to you're unpacking of your healing, your visibility, who you are, who you're becoming, it has not been a waste!

None of it has been a waste. While I might not have had a certain financial outcome that I intended to have when I made any investment, each time I have still gained a lot. I've grown. I've become a different person. I've evolved into this new versions each time. 

Listen to this episode to help you understand how you can uncover this idea of "waste" deeper with your finances and life choices. I encourage you to ask some deeper questions that can lead to healing and unpacking your money wounds.

I hope this episode helps you get some clarity and deeper understanding.

Send me a message on IG and tell me your ah-ha-s. I'd love to hear from you!

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You're not broken! You are unpacking the stories of your parents and generations before you!

Today's guest is the powerhouse, Allyson Roberts, an author, speaker, coach, and creator of Boss of Your Brain™️. She came here today for one simple message - it's time to rise above your parents stories and limitations. It's time to unpack the stories and belief that you were raised with and add new beliefs that you are powerful, capable, and allowed to have more than they had (more money, more success, more of everything YOU WANT!)

Allyson explains that doing "the work" is like flossing your teeth everyday. You only floss the teeth you want to keep. In this case, you only "work on" the beliefs you want to unpack and replace with new powerful ones. She encourages us to do the mind and body work every day. Not just making it a check list item, but to embody the feelings of safety in our body and allow the mind to accept the expanding new beliefs. The new belief that it is safe to have more money and more success!

October will be the last time Allyson and her team will be hosting Behind The Power, 3-Day Event. This years event is for entrepreneurs that want more for their life and business. This event will feature speakers that are sharing their inspiring and heart warming stories of how they overcame challenges and emerged on the other side, expanding and growing their lives. These men and women are phenomenal. You will receive so much inspiration of your own when hearing their personal stories! Also, featured guests will be Kim Nishida, who's speaking about conscious marketing and feeling it in your body. (Ok - seriously, who doesn't want to hear about marketing and feeling it in your body!?) Todd Sylvester, will be talking about the power of belief. (YES - please more of that!) Deon Norris, a finance genus, talking all about how to take make money doing anything!

In addition, your favorite host, ME, will be taking the stage!! You will have to buy a ticket hear the speech!

The tickets are very reasonably in price. If you are looking for an event to support your next transformation - come to Behind The Power!

If I have not sold you on this event just yet, go check out the sales page or send me a message. I would LOVE to meet you in personal and help you make a transformation at this event! (https://btp23.vfairs.com)

Learn more about her at www.allysonroberts.com

Find out more about Behind the Power Event: https://btp23.vfairs.com 

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This season of the podcast is dedicated to talking to you all about money. How to make more money. How to call in more money. How energy is related to money. How your thoughts and beliefs effect the flow of money. And much more.

I address 2 types of complaining that you experience in your own life or while interacting with others. I give you a new perspective to investigate how complaining is effecting your energy and the flow of money in your life.

I challenge you to think about why you should look further when experiencing complaining for yourself or other. I discuss where it can be helpful to lean into your complaining so that you can uncover areas that might be blocking the flow of money - just disguised as complaining. 

It's not enough to just stop complaining. You must come from a place of observing yourself and other to see if there is a deeper place you can lean into for healing.

I hope you found this episode helpful.

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Website: www.unblockyourmoneyshit.com 

 

The Divine Feminine lives within you, within me, within us all. Unfortunately, for the past few thousand years, SHE has been repressed, cast into the shadows, and left without a safe place to fully express herself and her gifts. 

 

I followed a very prescriptive path - graduated from college, worked my way up the corporate ladder at a cushy, well-paying job.I had done almost everything society has told women should do tells women we should do but instead of feeling accomplished and happy, I just felt a sense of pervasive restlessness. That’s when I joined one of the most amazing retreats I’ve ever experienced. It was really life-changing for me that I am grateful to have done this three-part podcast episode with Erin Call.

 

In this final episode, Erin takes you on a journey of how to intentionally reclaiming our Divine Femineas we maneuver through uncertain times. This episode will support you in learning how to anchor into a feminine leadership model; one that supports the balancing of masculine and feminine balance and allows individuals to create cohesion with BEING and DOING.

 

Erin is the the creator of the Soul Naked movement and the Embodied Woman Retreats who is passionate in guiding women leaders back into their bodies where they inhabit the divine wisdom to heal and the potential to Embody their highest expression.

 

This is the last part of our three-part episode with Erin. If you haven't listened to the first two parts yet, make sure to do so here: 

 

Part One: https://unblockyourmoneyshit.podbean.com/e/erincall-part1/

Part Two: https://unblockyourmoneyshit.podbean.com/e/erincall-part2/

 

Check Out Erin Call:

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Join The Breathwork Membership

Check Out The Sacred Rebel Retreat

 

About Your Host:

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Show Notes:

 

Erin Call 02:04 - My biggest intention is always to create …in a safe, brave space …that is (to) create a safe space where women feel like they can come together, open up and really create a deeper relationship and level of self intimacy with themselves.

 

Heather Doran 04:27 - My intention was to really hold a mirror to your power because of the way the subconscious works, that we actually don't see what's happening until it's really mirrored up against us 

 

Erin Call 06:57 - One of the things I love so much through this work of divine feminine reclamation is that you start to turn back ON. You're not just doing it to elicit yourself as a better leader, but you're also doing it to allow yourself to be turned back on to all of life. And when you do that you are truly a light beam, a Wayshower for other women. 

 

Erin Call 10:04 - When we're talking about reclaiming the divine feminine, one of the things that is so powerful is our sovereignty over our body, over our sexual energy, over our lifeforce energy, our creative energy, and all of all of that. And we've been stripped of that.

 

#Gold covered in this episode:

 


What were some of your intentions as the leader of this space? (1:38)
Holding a mirror to your power. (4:23)
Body sovereignty is how we relate to our own body. (9:31)
How has our choice been taken from us? (13:40)
What does the rising of the divine feminine mean for the masculine? (18:16)
What does this have to do with leadership? (22:48)
Allow your body to move and allow your subconscious to come out. (26:11)
Breathwork membership and breath work. (31:58)

In today's fast-paced, always-on world, it can be tough to find the time to just BE.  When we're constantly on the go, it can be tough to take a step back and just relax. We're always worried about the next thing on our to-do list, and we never really take the time to just enjoy the moment. But being in the present is so important – it's the only time we really have.

 

Can you train yourself to be present and feel safe with being present? Can you let your body feel safe to BE versus DO? 

 

In this episode of Unblock Your Money Sh!t Podcast, Erin Call shares the importance of being the present and how you can create space for ease, flow and the embodiment of your purpose and the knowing of your pleasure.

 

Erin is the the creator of the Soul Naked movement and the Embodied Woman Retreats who is passionate in guiding women leaders back into their bodies where they inhabit the divine wisdom to heal and the potential to Embody their highest expression.

 

This is the second part of our three-part episode with Erin. If you haven't listened to the first part yet, make sure to do so here: https://unblockyourmoneyshit.podbean.com/e/erincall-part1/

 

Check Out Erin Call:

Find Out More About Erin

Connect with Erin on Instagram

Join Te Breathwork Membership

Check Out The Sacred Rebel Retreat

 

About Your Host:

Find Out More About Heather Doran

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Join Heather's No-Cost Membership

 

Show Notes:

 

Heather Doran 02:48 - My brain kept saying”Nothing's happening!” but then my heart was saying, “But you're not here to have anything happen. You're just here to be a part of this and to be embodied in the space.” (My reflection on joining the retreat with Erin in April).

 

Erin Call 04:28 - Can you train yourself to be present and feel safe with being present? Can you let your body feel safe to BE versus DO? And that's such a huge challenge for a lot of people.

 

Erin Call 05:23 - Our brain like to say, “Oh, my God, I can't sit still, I need to be doing something” and truly, that is a trauma response whether the trauma was little trauma or big trauma.

 

Erin Call 07:25 -  Meditation, in my experience, is like the masculine approach of transcending your thoughts, sitting still and not moving is truly, the feminine.

 

Heather Doran 08:48 - It's not necessarily when we get quiet, that we're getting the inspiration, it's that we're creating the space to become inspired, it's that we are slowing our system down to allow these more creative places to come out. 

 

#Gold covered in this episode:

 


The human brain likes to do the thing of “I don’t have a formula, this is stupid.”(3:13)
Breathwork is a form of healing, but it’s also challenging. (4:40)
The importance of being in the present. (8:02)
What ended up happening after that night. (12:04)
What is the center of your energy? (13:24)
You’re treating yourself like an emotional generator. (15:14)
How it happens and how it’s not random. (20:25)

So often, we allow other people's opinions to shape who we are and how we show up in the world. We dim our light to make others feel more comfortable. We hold back our true selves out of fear of being judged or rejected. But when we do this, we're not living our best lives. We're not fulfilling our potential. We're not making the impact we're here to make.

 

It's time to break free and strip ourselves from other people's expectations and start living as your true self. It's time to let your light shine bright. But what does it mean to be our "true selves"? And how can we get to a place where we are living and expressing the truest version of ourselves?

 

In this episode of Unblock Your Money Sh!t Podcast, Erin Call shares how to dive into your internal world and do deep healing work that creates space for ease, flow and the embodiment of your purpose and the knowing of your pleasure.

 

Erin is the the creator of the Soul Naked movement and the Embodied Womban Retreats who is passionate in guiding women leaders back into their bodies where they inhabit the divine wisdom to heal and the potential to Embody their highest expression.

 

Ask yourself: are you living your truth? Are you shining your light for the world to see? If not, what's holding you back? It's time to let go of your fears and step into your power. It's time to BE YOU.

 

Check Out Erin Call:

Find Out More About Erin

Connect with Erin on Instagram

Join Te Breathwork Membership

Check Out The Sacred Rebel Retreat

 

About Your Host:

Find Out More About Heather Doran

Follow Heather on Instagram

Like Heather's FB Page

Join Heather's No-Cost Membership

 

Show Notes:

 

Erin Call 03:27 -  What I find is over and over and over again, when we think of leadership and how we are leading our missions, or our businesses, or our visions, or whatever you identify your life's work, it really all comes back to self intimacy and self embodiment. How are you leading yourself? Truly, in my experience with myself, and my clients, it is all one.

 

Heather Doran 05:50 - We can only support people and really lead them to the next thing as far as we can see. That's why it's so important that we're constantly leaning in to our own questioning of: What do I want? What am I doing here? What is the bigger vision? What is the bigger purpose?

 

Erin Call 07:07 - A part of self intimacy is knowing yourself so deeply, but also trusting so deeply that like, you don't need to know each and every step necessarily. By knowing yourself enough to know what you desire and how you desire to feel. 

 

Erin Call 12:37 - Continue to show up and do what you know to do, knowing all along, it was always going to work out in your favor.

 

Heather Doran 16:33 - One of the biggest things to understand as society, and especially as women, when we come together, we have been taught so deeply to judge each other, and to constantly be in this place of judgment and comparison.

 

Erin Call 27:16 - One of the biggest challenges of meeting yourself, as a leader is to understand I have to unconditionally welcome and say “yes” to the parts of me that feel really sticky or shameful or edgy.

 

Topics covered in this episode:

 


Leadership is all one in the same in the sense that it is calling you into a deeper embodiment of self. (3:25)
What is your purpose? What is the bigger purpose? (6:04)
Take the steps and wait for the next thing to unfold. (10:16)
What is within your wheelhouse to heal? (12:35)
What is she wearing today? What does she think? (17:33)
Why it’s so important to continue to meet ourselves in the depths of who we are through yoga. (19:51)
“I’m not here to manage anyone else’s opinions or perceptions of me”. (24:43)
Unconditional welcoming in the spaces you’re invited to bring forth. (26:54)
Breathwork Membership (30:56)