Unimaginable Wellness For New Moms Who Are Founders, Entrepreneurs, Creators Melissa Llarena

In this episode, you'll delve into the insidious impact of imposter syndrome on mom entrepreneurs. Discover the toll it takes on your confidence, time, and financial opportunities, and learn why confronting it head-on is crucial.
I emphasize the necessity of breaking free from societal norms and embracing expansive thinking, a key component of your journey with my Imagination to Impact to Income Method™. We'll explore the risks of not addressing impostor syndrome, especially regarding missed networking opportunities and stalled career growth.
Through a strategic blend of personal anecdotes and actionable steps, I offer you a roadmap for overcoming imposter syndrome and maximizing your networking potential. Plus, I'll highlight the urgency of seizing the opportunity to enroll in my "Fertile Imagination to Instant Access" masterclass, available now at a beta rate with limited spots remaining.
You're encouraged to sign up for a 30-minute breakthrough session www.melissallarena.com/sessions with me to explore how the masterclass can transform your life and propel you towards success. Let's rewrite the narrative of your success story together and step boldly into your greatness.
Free Resource: From Contact to Connection: The Go First Networking & Follow-Up Playbook for Mom Entrepreneurs
SIGN-UP for playbook: https://bit.ly/hypernetworking
• Easy to follow steps to craft your networking outreach goal
• Research necessary to not ask silly questions or feel awkward
• Unconventional follow-up ideas and timing that will not come across as thirsty/ pushy
• Templates that you can tailor based on your business goals and personality
• Worksheet to uncover ways to add value to contacts and make everyone feel good
BONUS: 30-second elevator pitch that is MEMORABLE not FORGETTABLE---this is there too
TRANSCRIPT
Listen up, ladies! Are you familiar with that nagging feeling of not being "enough"? Do you have ideas, hopes, and dreams but no confidence to do them? Well, if you've been battling imposter syndrome, you're not alone. But here's the kicker: it's costing you more than just confidence; it's robbing you of time, money, and opportunities you can't afford to lose.
At last week’s Mom 2.0 conference, there were hundreds of attendees, including several famous ones. From video gamers to industry disruptors, I connected with many. Now, here's the kicker: If I let my impostor syndrome go unchecked, I wouldn't have had the courage to ask them to be guests on my podcast. Did I hear that little voice in my head saying, "Who am I to do this?" or "Melissa, you're out of your league"? You bet I did. But even as I hit send on those email invites, I reminded myself: With 12 years of coaching experience and my proven method, my impostor syndrome can stick around, but it won't stop the party.
Let’s turn this to you….Picture this: You've got dreams as big as the sky, but every time you take a step forward, that little voice in your head whispers, "Who are you kidding?" It's time to put an end to that self-doubt and reclaim your power.
As a mom founder, you're already juggling a million things. You don't have time or resources to waste on self-doubt. That's where my method comes in - it's not just about suppressing those feelings; it's about conquering them and stepping into your greatness.
Enter my Imagination to Impact to Income Method ™. This isn't your average self-help spiel; it's a battle plan tailored specifically for moms like us. With my proven strategies, you'll learn to crush imposter syndrome and turn your dreams into reality.
But don't take my word for it. Listen to what one of my incredible clients had to say:
Melissa will push you out of your comfort zone, will force you to really look at where you are and where you want to go, and then push you to think even further.  Then, she will help you come up with steps to get to your goal and provide support as you do the work.  Her ideas are incredible, h

Ever feel that pang of guilt when you finally score a kid-free getaway with girlfriends? How about when you go away to a conference and that means missing your son's trumpet solo? Big confession. I recently went to a conference and missed my kid’s solo. Yep, I felt mom guilt especially while I watched the livestream, but as a mom of three, I knew I was doing my best and that this conference (ironically the Mom 2.0 conference) was a big deal for my book and business. And (further justifications) it wasn't an on-stage solo in front of an audience...it was a Saturday morning classroom solo in front of a teacher. All of this to say, yes, mom guilt still continues to pop up for me when I pick career over family (and it doesn’t even happen a lot!), and yet it's a constant juggle. So imagine this: what if you had a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to live in another country without your family to explore your childhood career dreams? Sounds impossible? Would that make you feel guilty? This episode tackles the monster called "mom guilt."
Enter Alisha Fernandez Miranda, a super-achiever mom of twins who decided to hit pause on her high-powered CEO career at 40. We delve into her story and ask the lingering questions: Does mom guilt ever truly fade? Is self-care a selfish act, or a necessity? Most importantly, can our actions teach our kids valuable life lessons that words simply can't? Tune in to episode 225 for an honest conversation that will empower you to embrace motherhood on your own terms.
Let's connect on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/melissallarena/
In This Episode You Will Uncover:
-How to navigate the guilt of pursuing your own passions as a mom, especially if it means taking time away from your family.
-The importance of role modeling and showing your children how to live a fulfilling life, even if it means taking risks.
-Why it's better to try something and fail than to never try anything at all.
This Episode is Perfect For You If:
-You're a mom who feels stuck in a rut and longs to pursue your own interests.
-You're wondering if it's possible to chase your dreams while still being a good parent.
-You're looking for inspiration to break free from self-doubt and create a life you love.
Key Points:
-Many moms struggle to find inspiration for pursuing their own dreams because the media often portrays women who achieve success without children.
-The guilt of leaving your family can be a major obstacle, but sometimes the risk of not following your dreams is greater.
-By taking action and showing your children how to live a fulfilling life, you can inspire them to do the same.
-It's okay to fail, and in fact, it can be a valuable learning experience.
Taking time for yourself can ultimately make you a better parent.
This episode is brought to you by Fertile Imagination: A Guide for Stretching Every Mom's Superpower for Maximum Impact, which reached the #1 spot as an Amazon bestseller in both the motherhood and women and business categories! Woo hoo! And if this episode deeply resonates with you, then you are definitely invited to read my book, Fertile Imagination! In my humble opinion, I believe double-fisting Alisha's book The What If Year and mine, Fertile Imagination, would make for an epically fun weekend of reading. Dive into Alisha's adventures and live vicariously through a fellow mom, and then turn to my personal framework to help you think about your best first step on getting your imagination fired up about your own adventure!
As I alluded to earlier, this episode tackles the struggle of mom guilt that tugs at our hearts, even when we deserve a getaway or break from adulting! I’ve been there too!
Moreover, I, Melissa, share a vulnerable moment straight from my book, Fertile Imagination, where I spent Sundays unlocking a surprising talent. And guess what? It was totally worth it!
Intrigued to discover your own hidden mom superpower?
Head over to https://www.melissallarena.com/fertileide

Welcome to episode 224. Tired of sounding like everyone else at networking events i.e. boring? Wish you could stand out and really put yourself and your business out there in a way that will make an impact? This episode equips you with the tools to transform your elevator pitch and turn those events into meaningful connections, even if finding and sharing the essence of who you are and why your business is unique has been harder in the past! This is a special episode especially for my fellow mom business owners who are making the trek to in-person networking events like Mom 2.o in Nashville or the like! You are spending time, money, and changing up your family's logistics so tune in to ensure you make these big networking moments worth your time! Elevator pitch prep here we go!!!!!!!!
In this podcast, you will learn:
The 3 Powerful Ideas to revolutionize your elevator pitch - the slides for this can be grabbed here for FREE: https://bit.ly/hypernetworking
Be Brief & Tailor Your Pitch: Consider the person, their company, and your goals for the interaction.
Differentiate Yourself: What makes you unique? Highlight your niche and competitive advantage.
Make it Memorable: Use clear, concise language, metaphors, or anecdotes to stand out.
Plus, a Free Playbook Alert!  Download my "From Contact to Connection" playbook for mompreneurs – go here to grab this book! https://bit.ly/hypernetworking
Get my exact follow-up timeline, proven email templates, and strategies to master the art of following up without feeling like a bother.
Stop feeling like you're missing out!
Listen to this episode and grab the free playbook to craft a magnetic elevator pitch and build connections that matter at your next networking event!
P.S. Don't miss the free playbook with valuable templates and follow-up strategies!
P.P.S. Attending Mom 2.0? Look for me in the beige wide-brim hat! I’d love to connect with you in person and yes I’d love to hear your elevator pitch! Below is mine….. but don’t forget to grab the template right here: https://bit.ly/hypernetworking
SAMPLE ELEVATOR PITCH – grab your template: https://bit.ly/hypernetworking
For 12 years, I've coached women leaders to rediscover and resell at a profit their skills. My signature approach has been to equip them with the art of initiating strategic networking, streamlining the process and accelerating their success.
Fueled by my #1 Amazon bestseller, Fertile Imagination, I pivoted my own journey to empower mom founders, entrepreneurs, and creators.  Today I’m most psyched about bringing the same coaching to embolden unconventional leaders (i.e. the ones who struggle with impostor syndrome or feel more like introverts) to unlock their unique identities including that of a mom and reignite their creative thinking, transforming these into powerful competitive advantages.
What sets me apart? I skip gatekeepers and show you how to connect with high-level contacts, just like the CMO of GE I interviewed on my podcast Beth Comstock or GaryVee who has millions of people knocking at his digital door.  Together, we equip you with the crowbars to shatter the padlocks guarding the right doors, unlocking the connections that can catapult your business.
Love this episode? Let's connect: https://www.instagram.com/melissallarena/
This episode is brought to you by "From Contact to Connection: A Step-by-Step Strategic Networking Playbook for Mom Founders and Entrepreneurs" 
Not sure how to go first in networking, or perhaps what to say in a follow-up?
Answers to these strategic networking questions are addressed in a free resource that has helped me and my clients talk to the right people in way less time than it would take using traditional networking methods!
Download my FREE playbook, "From Contact to Connection," and learn:
•    Easy steps to find the right contacts and reach out confidently.
•    Unconventional follow-up tips to stand out and build relationships.

Welcome to episode 223. Do you rush to fix your child's mistakes, shielding them from failure?  Many moms do!  Maybe it's a forgotten homework assignment or a missed deadline.  This episode is your guide! New York Times bestselling author Jessica Lahey shares a relatable story of when she had to decide: intervene and save her daughter, or let her face the consequences of forgetting homework. 
In this episode, you'll learn:
•    How Jessica handled the homework situation (and the surprising lesson her daughter took away!)
•    The #1 thing moms can do to avoid over-parenting or under-parenting
•    How to create situations where your child feels empowered to solve their own problems
•    Techniques to raise a confident, capable child who embraces challenges
•    Empower your child, not enable them!  Listen to this episode now!
This podcast is perfect for you if:
•    You want your child to learn from mistakes and build resilience.
•    You're worried you might be preventing your child from developing independence.
•    You crave tips on raising a strong, capable adult.
•    Don't miss out on these valuable strategies! Tune in today!
Love this episode? Let's connect: https://www.instagram.com/melissallarena/
This episode is brought to you by Fertile Imagination: A Guide for Stretching Every Mom’s Superpower for Maximum Impact
Feeling Lost and Uninspired as a Mom? Reignite Your Spark Today!
Do you long to rediscover the things that truly light you up as a mom?
Feeling stuck in the daily grind can leave even the most passionate moms feeling drained and uninspired.
But what if you could recapture that spark, that creative energy that makes you, you?
Fertile Imagination is your guide to unlocking your inner powerhouse.
This #1 Amazon bestseller, written by a mom who's been there, will help you:
•    Uncover your hidden passions and talents.
•    Develop a clear vision for your future as a mom and an individual.
•    Learn powerful strategies to overcome overwhelm and rediscover your joy.
Stop feeling like you're just going through the motions. Light a fire under your dreams and become the best version of yourself for your family!
Visit Melissa Llarena: https://www.melissallarena.com/fertileideas/ right now and grab a FREE chapter of Fertile Imagination!
Don't wait!
Your most inspired and fulfilling life as a mom is waiting to be discovered.
On the same website, we also have a limited-time offer for mom entrepreneurs who want to speak to the right people and catapult their business success in 30 days or less!
Not sure how to go first in networking, or perhaps what to say in a follow-up?
Answers to these strategic networking questions are addressed in a free resource that has helped me and my clients talk to the right people in way less time than it would take using traditional networking methods!
Download my FREE playbook, "From Contact to Connection," and learn:
•    Easy steps to find the right contacts and reach out confidently.
•    Unconventional follow-up tips to stand out and build relationships.
•    Templates to personalize your outreach for maximum impact.
Stop feeling lost and reignite your spark! Download your free playbook now and watch your business thrive.
Click here: https://www.melissallarena.com/fertileideas/
Limited time offer!
Official bio for Jessica Lahey 
Jessica Lahey is the author of the New York Times bestselling book, The Gift of Failure: How the Best Parents Learn to Let Go So Their Children Can Succeed and The Addiction Inoculation: Raising Healthy Kids in a Culture of Dependence. Jess was awarded the Research Society on Alcohol’s Media Award for “outstanding journalistic efforts of writers who cover empirical research on alcohol” […] “for her book The Addiction Inoculation and advocacy for the recovery community.” Over twenty years, Jess has taught every grade from sixth to twelfth in

Ever think to yourself, "Sure, I can network with strangers confidently... as long as they go first?" Do you ever wish you had the chutzpah and perfect words to break the ice as a mompreneur, even if you're introverted? Want access to my frameworks and easy-to-use follow-up insights – the exact ones I've used to land big-name podcast interviews with people like Suzy Batiz or GaryVee?
Welcome to episode 222. Bookmark this episode to learn exactly how to go first to strike a conversation with a contact and find your most authentic way to turn them into a real connection! 
Free Resource: From Contact to Connection: The Go First Networking & Follow-Up Playbook for Mom Entrepreneurs
SIGN-UP for playbook: https://bit.ly/hypernetworking
•    Easy to follow steps to craft your networking outreach goal
•    Research necessary to not ask silly questions or feel awkward
•    Unconventional follow-up ideas and timing that will not come across as thirsty/   pushy
•    Templates that you can tailor based on your business goals and personality
•    Worksheet to uncover ways to add value to contacts and make everyone feel good 
The urgency stems from the fact that many of us, as I coach moms who are entrepreneurs, have been out of the market for a while. Some of us have taken a hiatus, perhaps due to a recent child or the pandemic keeping us home and away from others. But mompreneurs are back, and we need to catch up! This can naturally lead to a dip in confidence when re-entering the scene and engaging with people who haven't experienced a similar break. Right? That's why I wanted to equip you with some language that's practically copy-and-paste ready, like Mad Libs, allowing you to tailor it to your specific outreach goals.
So here is a real-life question that I got from a mom business owner. She said: I just got back into networking after a pause from having two kids. I don't have a problem talking to someone if they talk to me first? It's usually the opening, the conversation with a stranger, that isn't about the weather or something irrelevant. And then after the meeting, I want to know what to say afterwards to follow up with a give and not just "taking".
Tune in for my answer to her question, which I suspect is on your mind too, if you're reading this. And while you're here, grab this free resource I made specifically for my fellow mompreneurs, founders, and creators who need to be more strategic about their networking efforts. These skills can take your business to the next level, whether you're looking to find new partners, build corporate relationships with decision-makers, secure podcast guests, or find mentors who can open doors to the right rooms – where the real conversations happen and where, if mentioned, you could transform your vision.
TRANSCRIPT
Now before I answer that question, I just need to ask you, like, do you have outreach goals as a business owner? Because if you don't, I think we just need to like level set right there. Here's where I'm going with this right now in my nine week group coaching program, fertile imagination in access, which is what I'm going to rename it from action.
What we're going through is how to actually knock your business goals out of the ballpark, right? So let's just imagine that you want to bring in an extra 50 K and you're figuring out how to engage with the right stakeholders, be in the right rooms, have the right conversations. That is what needs to happen.
You need to really be specific. Like who do you want to talk to? And to be very honest, you could absolutely use AI and get some ideas, but coming from someone who tried that pertaining to just pitching podcasts, for example. AI wasn't as helpful as I had hoped. It really is something that requires your own personal touch because you're going to have the wisdom necessary to understand how can I look through LinkedIn, for example, for precisely the person I need on my team or I need to spea

 What if you don’t want to be a solopreneur forever? What if one day you want to exit from your business or you want to run a fully functioning business that can operate without you in it? Welcome to Episode 221. This conversation is perfect for you if these are the questions on your mind as a business owner, especially one who is a mom (or mum). Meet today’s guest Angela Middleton, MBE.  Angela is the chairman of The Limitless Group, comprising several companies in the workforce and careers development space. A detailed bio is below.
This Episode Covers:
·      Unexpected strategies for achieving peak business success: Learn unconventional approaches to reach your full potential as an entrepreneur. ·      The connection between health and business: Discover how prioritizing your well-being fuels your entrepreneurial journey.      Delegation mastery: Explore effective strategies for delegating tasks and hiring the right people to support your business growth.      Risk-averse hiring: Learn how to build a strong team even if you're cautious about taking on big risks. ·      The importance of a flexible vision: Gain insights into why adapting your business vision is crucial for long-term success in a dynamic market. Key Takeaways:
·      Prioritizing your health is crucial for long-term business success. This episode emphasizes taking care of yourself as the foundation for building a sustainable and thriving business. ·      Delegation is essential for scaling your business.  Even if your product or service directly stems from your unique skills, you can achieve greater success by strategically delegating tasks. ·      Adaptability is key.  Your initial business vision may need to adjust over time due to market shifts or evolving client needs. Excited to hear about these topics? Start listening…as my personal thank you please grab any of the free resources below and of course learn more about today’s guest.
Resources:
Is your business stuck? Take this quiz for moms to maximize your potential - https://quiz.tryinteract.com/#/64fb50ebd9dce900148cdff8  
Grab your seat for my free webinar focused on your 2024 ultimate business success Mom Mogul Makeover - https://witty-thinker-2643.ck.page/7e884a0f0a
Download the 3 questions every visionary mom entrepreneur, founder, or creator must answer for yourself before daring to build new relationships with the moguls, market makers, and/or powerful players who can take her business to the next level.
Grab the 3 questions sign-up HERE - https://witty-thinker-2643.ck.page/21e52edb87
This episode is brought to you by my 9-week group coaching course: Fertile Imagination in Action.
This is a high-touch coaching immersion program designed exclusively for visionary mom founders, entrepreneurs, and creators.
Do you crave a simple, straightforward, and laser-focused approach to expanding your professional network? This program equips you with the tools to connect with individuals who offer:
·       Access to better opportunities: Gain exposure to ventures that can build your credibility, push your boundaries, and enable you to forge connections with influential figures (moguls, market makers, mentors) who can guide your professional journey.
This episode exemplifies my own successful networking strategy, saving me significant resources and yielding substantial benefits.
As a busy mom of three, I understand the value of time. This program eliminates the guesswork from your path to success. You won't waste time connecting solely with individuals at your current level.
Since launching my coaching practice, I've prioritized connecting and learning from accomplished individuals like Angela. I can teach you this same non-traditional networking approach too!
My book, this podcast, and the success of my own mom-life are testaments to the effectiveness of the principles I teach in my program.
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