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Was That Good For You? is a guide to all things sex and relationships. Every week, sex educator Raya Carmona talks openly and honestly with guests on topics ranging from navigating interracial dating to normalizing kinks in the bedroom to the trajectory of becoming a sugar baby. Through candid conversations with friends as well as interviews with leaders in the sexual health field, this show works to destigmatize the sexual journey we are all on. Recurring guests include Raya’s partner Kelen Capener and her best friend Gabby, who help answer listener-submitted sex and relationship questions. For more, follow the show on Instagram at @wasthatgoodforyou.
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    • 4.7 • 319 Ratings

Was That Good For You? is a guide to all things sex and relationships. Every week, sex educator Raya Carmona talks openly and honestly with guests on topics ranging from navigating interracial dating to normalizing kinks in the bedroom to the trajectory of becoming a sugar baby. Through candid conversations with friends as well as interviews with leaders in the sexual health field, this show works to destigmatize the sexual journey we are all on. Recurring guests include Raya’s partner Kelen Capener and her best friend Gabby, who help answer listener-submitted sex and relationship questions. For more, follow the show on Instagram at @wasthatgoodforyou.
For advertising opportunities please email PodcastPartnerships@Studio71us.com  
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    Is Cheating In Past Relationships A Dealbreaker? - Q&A

    Is Cheating In Past Relationships A Dealbreaker? - Q&A

    We tackle so many unique questions on this week's Q&A and there's truly something for everyone. One listener is looking for tips on diving into kink for the first time, while someone else wonders if their new boyfriend following Instagram models is a red flag. We also dive into navigating overly-friendly exes as well as whether or not cheating in the past should worry a new partner. 

    Follow Gabby & I on Instagram! 
    instagram.com/rayacarmona
    instagram.com/gabbysibaja 

    Follow Raya:
    Twitter: @rayacarmona
    TikTok: @rayacarmona

    To watch the podcast on YouTube: Raya's Channel

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    • 45 min
    Social Media's Effect On Relationships

    Social Media's Effect On Relationships

    This is my first round table episode in over a year! On this week's episode, I had two of my favorite couples over to discuss social media and its effects on relationships. We chat through the pressure to seem perfect, posting about break ups, how to drown out the opinions of others and so much more. Listen to the end for a tangent (although an extremely enlightening one) about navigating another layer of complication: when one person in a partnership has ADHD. Follow everyone below! 

    instagram.com/gabbysibaja 
    instagram.com/ryanscottgraham 
    instagram.com/kylierae 
    instagram.com/sheppard_iv

    Follow Raya:
    Instagram: @rayacarmona
    Twitter: @rayacarmona
    TikTok: @rayacarmona

    To watch the podcast on YouTube: Raya's Channel

    Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: http://bit.ly/WTGFYPod


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    • 1 hr 1 min
    Sex 101: Back To Basics

    Sex 101: Back To Basics

    It's okay to be early on in your sexual journey than others. We don't shame around here! If you feel like you need a refresher on sex education, looking for some tips & tricks to be better in bed or are simply just starting out - this is the episode for you! 

    Get tested for STIs here: https://gettested.cdc.gov/

    Follow Raya:
    Instagram: @rayacarmona
    Twitter: @rayacarmona
    TikTok: @rayacarmona

    To watch the podcast on YouTube: Raya's Channel

    Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: http://bit.ly/WTGFYPod


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    • 34 min
    Sometimes NOT Communicating Is The Answer - SOLO!

    Sometimes NOT Communicating Is The Answer - SOLO!

    On this month's solo episode, I discuss how important emotion regulation has become to me, for myself and for the sake of my relationship. I also talk about how sometimes forbearance is the right choice over open communication and how to keep a spark alive even in a long-term relationship. Give it a listen and let me know what you think! 

    Follow Raya:
    Instagram: @rayacarmona
    Twitter: @rayacarmona
    TikTok: @rayacarmona

    To watch the podcast on YouTube: Raya's Channel

    Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: http://bit.ly/WTGFYPod


    If you like the show, telling a friend about it would be amazing! You can text, email, Tweet, or send this link to a friend: http://bit.ly/WTGFYPod



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    • 37 min
    Navigating Desire Differences & Owning Your Vanilla-ness feat. Yana Tallon-Hicks

    Navigating Desire Differences & Owning Your Vanilla-ness feat. Yana Tallon-Hicks

    I had couples & relationships therapist, consent, sex & sexuality writer and educator Yana Tallon-Hicks on the show this week! We discussed how to navigate desire differences in a relationship, understanding the root of your kinks, how your sex life affects the rest of our life and why it's okay to own your vanilla-ness even in this new ultra sex-positive world! 

    Get Yana's new book "Hot & Unbothered" here! https://yanatallonhicks.com/preorder/

    Follow Raya:
    Instagram: @rayacarmona
    Twitter: @rayacarmona
    TikTok: @rayacarmona

    To watch the podcast on YouTube: Raya's Channel

    Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: http://bit.ly/WTGFYPod


    If you like the show, telling a friend about it would be amazing! You can text, email, Tweet, or send this link to a friend: http://bit.ly/WTGFYPod



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    • 54 min
    You Can't Punish Someone For Not Loving You - Q&A

    You Can't Punish Someone For Not Loving You - Q&A

    This month's Q&A is one of those episodes where there's something for everyone. If any of the advice you hear today might resonate with someone you know, send it along for the greater good of humanity! We answer questions such as: What should I do about a friend who's too flirty with my partner? If a guy is too nice, should I worry he'll eventually become a "Wife Guy?" How do I handle an ex who is punishing me simply for ending things? Give this episode a listen to hear the answers to these and more!

    Follow Raya:
    Instagram: @rayacarmona
    Twitter: @rayacarmona
    TikTok: @rayacarmona

    To watch the podcast on YouTube: Raya's Channel

    Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: http://bit.ly/WTGFYPod


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    • 42 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
319 Ratings

319 Ratings

chillernumerouno ,

Great show!

Appreciate Raya’s tone and ability to be open minded

a girl leaving a review ,

Intelligent

This podcast is thought provoking and affirming. Thank you.

iClapCheeks0000 ,

Love it!!

Very interesting and entertaining!!

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