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We live in a generation of suppressing and not expressing. On each episode of We Met At Acme, host Lindsey Metselaar touches on subjects that we don’t talk about, but all want to know about. We Met At Acme delves into sex, relationships, and vulnerability, with some hilarious anecdotes along the way.

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    • Society & Culture
    • 4.5 • 1.7K Ratings

We live in a generation of suppressing and not expressing. On each episode of We Met At Acme, host Lindsey Metselaar touches on subjects that we don’t talk about, but all want to know about. We Met At Acme delves into sex, relationships, and vulnerability, with some hilarious anecdotes along the way.

    The Importance Of Being Single ft. Steffie Baik

    The Importance Of Being Single ft. Steffie Baik

    In this episode, I am virtually joined by Steffie Baik. We discuss co-dependence in relationships and on your family, growing up without a parent, Korean culture, suppressing your feelings, different kinds of therapy, attachment styles, dating creatives, what it’s like to date people of all cultures, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss last week’s episode, a reflection on my first few episodes, having “ugly weeks,” how much to share on a first date, why it’s a red flag to ask what are we, what hot girl summer really means, and guys girls vs. girls girls.
     
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    • 53 min
    What Saying I Love You Means To A Guy ft. Lev Fer

    What Saying I Love You Means To A Guy ft. Lev Fer

    In this episode, I am virtually joined by comedian and podcast host Lev Fer. We discuss what guys think when girls shoot their shot, not caring about meeting the parents, why it took 9 months for Lev to DTR, if men getting serious is linked to their career, my texting rules, how to go up to guys when you’re out, how soon into a relationship guys know if they want to marry you, dating younger guys, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss sex/life on Netflix, making out with tongue vs. without, and how the rules apply when you’re in a relationship.
     
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    • 1 hr 8 min
    Sometimes You Need To Sleep In Separate Beds ft. Rebecca Minkoff

    Sometimes You Need To Sleep In Separate Beds ft. Rebecca Minkoff

    In this episode, I am virtually joined by fashion designer and author Rebecca Minkoff. We discuss manifesting her now husband, prioritizing kids when they're young, not talking to friends about your relationship, how she got started with her clothing line, how she feels about fashion influencer culture, how to overcome desperation when dating, how she feels about imposter syndrome, the perfect first date outfit, why the word "balance" is b******t, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss if therapy can make you overthink or insecure, how to get into liking porn, if you can work on your mental health while in a relationship, my new merch!, keeping your sex life hot if you live together, dysfunctional sibling relationships, how I spent July 4th, and questions to ask to get into a relationship.
     
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    • 49 min
    Don’t Worry, A Porn Star Is Not Going To Steal Your Man ft. Candice Horbacz aka Eva Lovia

    Don’t Worry, A Porn Star Is Not Going To Steal Your Man ft. Candice Horbacz aka Eva Lovia

    In this episode, I am virtually joined by hugely successful porn star and now fellow podcaster Eva Lovia aka Candice Horbacz. We discuss open relationships, how onlyfans relates to the porn industry, why it's okay to have a healthy relationship with porn, how her and her boyfriend met, one night stands that don't work, being afraid of your kids being made fun of, how to not be scared of your family's judgement, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss why I don’t have one night stands, if there’s a fake “one” before the real “one,” explaining that you want to take it slow, how to become less defensive, and more.
     
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    • 54 min
    We All Need To Be Less Co-Dependent ft. Mark Groves

    We All Need To Be Less Co-Dependent ft. Mark Groves

    In this episode, I am virtually joined by human connection specialist Mark Groves. We discuss how to know if you’re in love, how to know if your relationship is over, things you can work through and not work through, breaking up and getting back together successfully, what codependency looks like, how society affects our relationships, if it’s better to fight all the time or never fight, why couples therapy is so helpful, being defensive, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss problems that come up in your relationship now will come up again in your next, rules and courtesies around relationships on social media, how to be vulnerable in a new relationship, random small confidence tips, and tips for traveling with new SO.
     
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    • 58 min
    Stop Giving Up After Two Dates ft. Jena Kingsley

    Stop Giving Up After Two Dates ft. Jena Kingsley

    In this episode, I am virtually joined by Jena Kingsley, of Social Studies podcast. We discuss botox and when you need to get it, why friend break ups are harder than romantic ones, not sleeping together in the beginning of a relationship, normalizing not liking every friend of your SO’s, how to bring up your needs in a relationship, the importance of giving someone a good chance, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss the difference between being picky and settling, moving into your SO’s apartment, adjusting to friends spending all their time with a SO, and our apartment update!
     
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    • 57 min

Customer Reviews

4.5 out of 5
1.7K Ratings

1.7K Ratings

ElizabethAS. ,

Great Insight

I love listening to this podcast to hear what Lindsay and the guest stars have to say about dating. I’ve learned so much insight about expectations to set for men and am so thankful I’ve received this advice!!

Jenni Kh ,

Literally listen to anything else!

I used to love listening to the podcast and had been a fan since the first episode. I recommended it to so many of my friends. But it has all gone downhill the last couple of years. I think she’s increasingly catering to a young audience (college students or early 20’s). Her interview style is very rigid, a guest mentioned how his ex died suddenly and her only reaction was “oh that’s awful but what about [something completely unrelated that seemed like a prepared question].” Her poll questions were selective and thoughtful at first but lately she seems to post anything that followers send her (e.g. do you like your water cold or warm?) She gets very defensive and argumentative when guests challenged her preconceived beliefs. I have tried giving it so many chances and still try to listen to the first few minutes but it’s been a disappointment every time!! There are so many other great dating podcasts out there, don’t waste your time.

Winchester2011 ,

Yikes

Oof that Lev episode 😬.

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