What We Didn't Erase

Nobody warns you about the paperwork. Kate shares how she accidentally lost Tom's voicemail greeting days after his death, being asked to pay the funeral bill in the middle of the wake to release his death certificate, the disorienting experience of retitling their vehicles at the DMV — and an unexpected encounter there with the police officer who had been in her bedroom the night Tom died. She also shares the one recording of Tom's voice the family intentionally chose to keep.