47 min
When You Can't Avoid Difficult Conversations Modern Gen X Woman
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- Careers
Hey Gen X ladies, we’ve all had those dreaded moments when we knew we needed to have a conversation that wasn’t going to be easy whether it’s with a co-worker, employee, friend, child, or spouse.
Difficult conversations are necessary for healthy relationships and personal growth and we’re here to help you through them.
In this episode, we will be helping you reframe conversations and prepare for them so you can take your communication skills to the next level.
Before having the conversation here are three questions to ask yourself.
What will be different in a month/ three months/12 months if the issue is resolved?
What will things be like in a month/three months/12 months if the issue isn’t resolved?
What is the worst thing that could happen if you have the conversation?Head into having a difficult conversation differently:
Reframe the interactionBe curious versus having blamePrepare Have better results of a difficult conversation by doing keeping the following in mind during the conversion:
Ask questions using how and not why. Asking how to approach with curiosity versus asking why to approach with blame.Be succinct and specific. Don’t go on and on, being overly wordy and never landing the plane. Instead, make sure you’re getting your point across with clarity.Listen. This is a dialogue, a conversation, a discussion. Buffer the conversation with what is working. Try to refrain from using the word YOU. After having the conversation:
1. Analyze your emotions. Did you come to the solution you were hoping for? Were your assumptions about the situation misinterpreted?
2. Follow up, acknowledge and thank the person for having the conversation.
INTRODUCTION FREEBIE:
How to Say No When Your Inner Gen Xer Wants Always Says Yes.
EPISODE RESOURCES:
Join Our Facebook Group:
Articles + Podcasts:
The Changed Podcast (podcast)
How to Have a Reasonable Conversation with Someone You Disagree With (article)
Episode 23: The Importance of Saying No (podcast)
What Shamu Taught Me About a Happy Marriage (article)
I’m so freaking angry I could scream! (article)
Five Ways to Say No and Mean It (article)
Other Stuff:
Get your free copy of our digital magazine, GEN neXt, The Voice of the Modern Gen X Woman. www.moderngenxwoman.com/gennext
GEN NeXt is a collection of insights from incredible organizations, women, and industry experts who have dedicated themselves to the same cause—turning up the volume of women 40+.
We're not just Gen X we're GEN neXt
Hey Gen X ladies, we’ve all had those dreaded moments when we knew we needed to have a conversation that wasn’t going to be easy whether it’s with a co-worker, employee, friend, child, or spouse.
Difficult conversations are necessary for healthy relationships and personal growth and we’re here to help you through them.
In this episode, we will be helping you reframe conversations and prepare for them so you can take your communication skills to the next level.
Before having the conversation here are three questions to ask yourself.
What will be different in a month/ three months/12 months if the issue is resolved?
What will things be like in a month/three months/12 months if the issue isn’t resolved?
What is the worst thing that could happen if you have the conversation?Head into having a difficult conversation differently:
Reframe the interactionBe curious versus having blamePrepare Have better results of a difficult conversation by doing keeping the following in mind during the conversion:
Ask questions using how and not why. Asking how to approach with curiosity versus asking why to approach with blame.Be succinct and specific. Don’t go on and on, being overly wordy and never landing the plane. Instead, make sure you’re getting your point across with clarity.Listen. This is a dialogue, a conversation, a discussion. Buffer the conversation with what is working. Try to refrain from using the word YOU. After having the conversation:
1. Analyze your emotions. Did you come to the solution you were hoping for? Were your assumptions about the situation misinterpreted?
2. Follow up, acknowledge and thank the person for having the conversation.
INTRODUCTION FREEBIE:
How to Say No When Your Inner Gen Xer Wants Always Says Yes.
EPISODE RESOURCES:
Join Our Facebook Group:
Articles + Podcasts:
The Changed Podcast (podcast)
How to Have a Reasonable Conversation with Someone You Disagree With (article)
Episode 23: The Importance of Saying No (podcast)
What Shamu Taught Me About a Happy Marriage (article)
I’m so freaking angry I could scream! (article)
Five Ways to Say No and Mean It (article)
Other Stuff:
Get your free copy of our digital magazine, GEN neXt, The Voice of the Modern Gen X Woman. www.moderngenxwoman.com/gennext
GEN NeXt is a collection of insights from incredible organizations, women, and industry experts who have dedicated themselves to the same cause—turning up the volume of women 40+.
We're not just Gen X we're GEN neXt
47 min