51 episodes
Who Gets Love?? (Hosted by: Christal Clear & BJ) Who Gets Love
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- Society & Culture
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5.0 • 9 Ratings
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Who Gets Love is a platform hosted by Christal Clear and BJ. Here, we ask one question that can be answered from two completely different perspectives. The question addresses your understanding and privilege within love. Two things we don't check within ourselves. This platform changes our minds and our relationships.
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The Outcry (Final Draft)
The Outcry is a conversation about the expressions and communication of people in relationships. And those communications and expressions have traits that read in ways we don't comprehend correctly. This draft discusses that, and how our judgements impact the poor communications your partner doesn't even know they have. Perception is the weapon we use against our partner's lack of self awareness. So Christal and BJ discuss this. As The Outcry comes to an end, let us know what you thought about this conversation. This was a great dialogue.
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The Outcry (Rough Draft 2)
The Outcry (Rough Draft 2) speaks about the softness of two people in a relationship. As well as how those soft sides can mislead your partner, based on how THEY perceive softness. There are many parallels to this idea...so WGL decided to discuss it openly. Typically, when we experience softness most is in the bedroom. And whether you know it or not, there are acts in the bedroom that act as examples to the very things people desire from the relationship overall. Softness is not a given. It's an activity we share in love. We discuss what it is, and what it means to us. We also demonstrate this concept, in and out of intimacy. Listen as we uncover the outcry for me softness with one another in The Outcry. Hope you all enjoy!
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The Outcry (Rough Draft 1)
Here we have a conversation built around the discovery of Christal's intuitive abilities to see the undetected traits of people around her. And what she has noticed is the methods people are using to express the needs they currently have. In this conversation, titled The Outcry, we break down what a need sounds like today. The details that you now see when an expectation is made known. And how the actions we see from men and women don't line up with the request at hand. Let's get to the bottom of this one. Tune In!!!!
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Why Can't You Hit Your Target (Final Draft)
Today is the finale of Why Can't You Hit Your Target. Christal and BJ discuss updating. Which has a duality to the average serial dater. Most commonly it means to reach higher than your current status or dealings. But almost never does it mean reevaluate yourself during and after each experience you have. Here we discuss how important updating is to nailing the targets you've been aiming at.
Think of dating as a resume. The only way to gain better opportunities with this resume is to keep it updated with as much useful experience as you can. And today, dating prompts us to use this same theory as well. Consistent awareness to your growth and changes keeps your loved one in the know. Tune in to the final draft of Why Can't You Hit Your Target.
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Why Can't You Hit Your Target (Rough Draft 3)
Have you ever considered the possibility of having too many options being the reason you can't make a choice? We examine the idea, as well as question the listener about whether or not you've solidified your standards. These, among other things, could be the reason that you can't hit what you are aiming at. This draft focuses on the discipline, decisiveness, and devotion you have to your personal wants and needs. Tune in to the latest draft of Why Can't You Hit Your Target?
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Why Can't You Hit Your Target (Rough Draft 2)
Rough Draft 2 of Why Can't You Hit Your Target deals with your aim and accuracy when it comes to hitting your mark. We subtitle this conversation From First Love to First Love...which discusses the vast changes that occur from when you were introduced to your first love. As well as how much of a different person you are by the time you fall in love as an adult. Do you account for all the changes you have made for yourself when proclaiming your standards? And how is it that despite all the adjustments you've made as an individual...your standards weren't updated with your personal change? How does that even work? We examine the causes and effects in this conversation. Tune in!!!
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Customer Reviews
Fantastic Show!
There is so much care, wisdom, understanding and insight layered in every episode. I'm a fan and student of both of these talented host. Healthy, communicative relationships are developed, nurtured, and sustained here! Press play with a defenseless ear. I love it here!
This show is Life Architect approved!
Xx Stefanie
Best Relationship Show I’ve Encountered
Christal and BJ simply bring the perfect balance to each other when discussing these great topics. I really appreciate them taking time out of their day to bless us with good and thought provoking information. Always looking forward to the next conversation!
These Two Are Phenomenal
Found this show in a Facebook group and was surprised that it wasn’t what I thought the subject matter would be. It’s only two shows in, and it healthy confrontation, mixed with some very brilliant perspectives. I really enjoy how compassionate the two are, yet still telling truths that are refused by cancel culture. I love the direction. Keep up the great work. The conversation is really good and appreciated