245 episodes

Nicole Byer is single and has been for decades. She’s smart, funny, has a fat ass and loves giving blow jobs. So the question is why is she perpetually single? This podcast is a quest to find that answer. Every week, Nicole invites a comedian, friend, or ex-fling to interview their dating life and figure out her own.

Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer Team Coco

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.9 • 13.5K Ratings

Nicole Byer is single and has been for decades. She’s smart, funny, has a fat ass and loves giving blow jobs. So the question is why is she perpetually single? This podcast is a quest to find that answer. Every week, Nicole invites a comedian, friend, or ex-fling to interview their dating life and figure out her own.

    Caught Cheating... Twice! (w/ Ketra Long)

    Caught Cheating... Twice! (w/ Ketra Long)

    Comedian Ketra Long joins Nicole to tell the story about how she got caught cheating twice in her relationship. She also shares the time she convinced Ne-Yo to come see her stand-up show, which she proceeded to absolutely bomb. Ketra teaches Nicole how she manages to get flown out of the country for expensive dates, plus talks about her first kiss and first fingering. This is a wild episode, folks.

    • 1 hr
    A Stalking Ex-Boyfriend, a Gang Member, and a Gun (w/ Aaron Jennings)

    A Stalking Ex-Boyfriend, a Gang Member, and a Gun (w/ Aaron Jennings)

    Co-star Aaron Jennings (Grand Crew) and Nicole discuss grade school romances, talking finances with your partner, the benefits of dating an older man, and that iconic Oscar #slap. Aaron shares a wild date story involving a stalking ex-boyfriend, a gang member, and a gun. Plus, Nicole's crazy neighbor pays her a visit at 3:00AM.

    • 1 hr 1 min
    Having a Drama-Free Divorce (w/ Grasie Mercedes)

    Having a Drama-Free Divorce (w/ Grasie Mercedes)

    Co-star Grasie Mercedes (Grand Crew, Access Hollywood) reflects on her 14-year relationship and the breakthrough she had in therapy which led to her divorce. They also discuss getting back into the dating scene at a later age, why white men love drinking milk, and what it means to Afro-Latina. Plus, Nicole shares her rave review for a Broadway show which featured many exposed dicks.

    • 1 hr 2 min
    Setting Yourself on Fire (w/ Vanity Jay)

    Setting Yourself on Fire (w/ Vanity Jay)

    Stripper and exotic entertainer Vanity Jay chats with Nicole about all things stripping and sex work. She shares the complicated nature of dating both customers and strippers from clubs, the time she accidentally burned herself lighting her pussy on fire, and the challenges of dating a jealous partner. Plus, they help give advice to a listener seeking sex position recommendations for their partner who isn't the most endowed.

    • 46 min
    Farting in Bed with your Lover (w/ Sudi Green)

    Farting in Bed with your Lover (w/ Sudi Green)

    Comedian and writer Sudi Green (SNL, I Love That For You) joins Nicole to discuss their awkward encounters with celebrities, having baby fever, and farting in bed with your lover. Sudi shares a horrible hookup story where her partner was into "intense sex", but failed to preform. Nicole realizes she's horny for magic.

    • 1 hr 5 min
    Quit your Job (w/ Kornbread "The Snack" Jeté)

    Quit your Job (w/ Kornbread "The Snack" Jeté)

    Drag queen and reigning Miss Congeniality Kornbread "The Snack" Jeté (RuPaul's Drag Race S14) joins Nicole for a live episode, where they discuss her favorite kind of dick, the bad jobs she had before drag, and the men in prison who are contacting Nicole. Then, they answer audience questions about their favorite sex toys, the weirdest compliment they've gotten on a date, and b*****b tips.

    • 1 hr 8 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
13.5K Ratings

13.5K Ratings

Actionj19 ,

Virgo to Virgo

Your last few episodes are my first. You’re awesome, keep doing you!!!

Much love 🤙🏾🤙🏾🤙🏾

khajmahal ,

It’s all over the place now

I have been listening to this podcast for years! Like a lot of the OG listeners agreed it was actually so nice hearing another black womens perspective on being single for life. But as the years have gone on and I have gone on to date and be in relationships it seems clear that she just doesn’t want to really be in a relationship, which is fine! Over the years there hasn’t been much change from when she started the podcast she just keeps talking about the same 4 main points about how she’s never been in a relationship, she doesn’t want to be single forever, her type is just someone nice, and she doesn’t know how to date EVERY SINGLE EPISODE!!! People give her advice and she is either shocked by the super simple tips or goes on to explain why that it doesn’t work for her so she doesn’t want to try it (but nothing seems to be working for her) I love the drag queens but since it’s a dating podcast maybe more about their dating lives. Also like some listeners have said it’s so clear when she either doesn’t care for the guests or is completely not listening to them because all she says is “mmhmm” or there are just odd long pauses (ketra long’s episode was lowki uncomfortable) Also shes always talking about how she doesn’t care about things or peoples opinions or things like that but it’s pretty clear that she does. I know it’s a comedy podcast and kind of a bit but the actual purpose of this podcast is all lost I think the best thing she could do for herself in terms of dating is really be honest about what she wants and who she is and do a little self exploration instead of relying on the podcast to have guests she doesn’t really want to talk to tell her things she already knows!

ArtyMac206 ,

Fan From Seattle

Long time fan since girl code an more Names Arthur Sanders I enjoy 😊 your podcasts an waiting for the return of Grand Crew keep up the great work queen 👸🏽

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