197 episodes

Nicole Byer is single and has been for decades. She’s smart, funny, has a fat ass and loves giving blow jobs. So the question is why is she perpetually single? This podcast is a quest to find that answer. Every week, Nicole invites a comedian, friend, or ex-fling to interview their dating life and figure out her own.

Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer Team Coco

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.9 • 12.7K Ratings

Nicole Byer is single and has been for decades. She’s smart, funny, has a fat ass and loves giving blow jobs. So the question is why is she perpetually single? This podcast is a quest to find that answer. Every week, Nicole invites a comedian, friend, or ex-fling to interview their dating life and figure out her own.

    Problem Solving on the Toilet (w/ Yola)

    Problem Solving on the Toilet (w/ Yola)

    What a treat. Grammy nominated English musician Yola is here! Nicole and Yola chat about the difference in racism when dating in the UK vs the US, how crying on her motorcycle back from her mother's funeral inspired her songwriting, and how sitting on the toilet can be the best way to solve creative challenges.

    Check out Yola new album, Stand for Myself, out today.

    Follow Nicole Byer: 

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    Twitter: @nicolebyer 

    Instagram: @nicolebyer 

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    Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 1 hr 3 min
    Thriving Alone (w/ Harvey Guillén)

    Thriving Alone (w/ Harvey Guillén)

    Actor Harvey Guillén (What We Do in the Shadows) is single but not quite ready to mingle. He discusses why he guards his profession from his dating life, how he found love on Instagram, and the important need for space in any relationship. Nicole reads some wild dating app profiles.

    Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to support, see blacklivesmatters.carrd.co. 

    Follow Nicole Byer: 

    Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken

    Twitter: @nicolebyer 

    Instagram: @nicolebyer 

    Merch: teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 1 hr 2 min
    Being a Single Mom of 3 (w/ Francesca Amber)

    Being a Single Mom of 3 (w/ Francesca Amber)

    Nicole’s close friend Francesca Amber (host of Law of Attraction Changed my Life) talks about the struggles of being a mother of twins, explains the latest fad of 'co-parenting', and describes how to use the Law of Attraction to manifest your dream person. Meanwhile, Nicole counts down the days until her dick appointment.

     

    Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to support, see blacklivesmatters.carrd.co. 

    Follow Nicole Byer: 

    Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken

    Twitter: @nicolebyer 

    Instagram: @nicolebyer 

    Merch: teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 1 hr
    The Cost of Being 'Cute' (w/ Cat Hollis)

    The Cost of Being 'Cute' (w/ Cat Hollis)

    Cat Hollis led the 2020 Portland Stripper Strike. Here, she explain why it happened and her work for equitable workspaces in the adult industry. Cat discusses the costs of being cute, shares the common challenges people face when dating a stripper, and gives advice on how to feel sexy even after a rejection.

    Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to support, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co. 

    Follow Nicole Byer: 

    Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken 

    Twitter: @nicolebyer 

    Instagram: @nicolebyer 

    Merch: teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 47 min
    The Power of 'I Love You' (w/ Sam Richardson)

    The Power of 'I Love You' (w/ Sam Richardson)

    Actor and comedian Sam Richardson (Veep, I Think You Should Leave) chats with Nicole about his success finding love on Raya, wanting kids so he can continue doing kid things, the power of saying 'I love you' first in a relationship, and pitches ideas for dating app opening messages.

    Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to support, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co. 

    Follow Nicole Byer: 

    Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken 

    Twitter: @nicolebyer 

    Instagram: @nicolebyer 

    Merch: teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 54 min
    Are you 'Love Avoidant'? (w/ Reggie Watts)

    Are you 'Love Avoidant'? (w/ Reggie Watts)

    Comedian and musician Reggie Watts (The Late Late Show with James Corden) chats with Nicole about his unique eating habits, his time spent playing in a 70's cover band, and the weird shift from being a fake band leader on Comedy Bang! Bang!, to a real band leader for The Late Late Show with James Corden. Nicole learns she may be 'love avoidant'.

    Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to support, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co. 

    Follow Nicole Byer: 

    Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken

    Twitter: @nicolebyer 

    Instagram: @nicolebyer 

    Merch: teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 59 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
12.7K Ratings

12.7K Ratings

Cee D Bell ,

Exceptional!

Nicole and Team, I’m a longtime listener (on another podcast venue), and your show is the real deal. Your interviews are exceptional; you are exceptional. Your humor and insights are extraordinary. You ask some profound questions and you listen to your guests. So many podcast hosts don’t do that. You draw out the best in people and in the process bring a heightened education to all. You get at issues without preaching.

Thank you for showing that being your unique self is not only okay but critical. You’re an inspiration and funny at the same time. Gratitude and hugs to you and you entire team!

katsspearl ,

My Go-To Podcast

I LOVE this podcast. This is my go-to podcast whenever I'm doing something and want to drive away my boredom. I can relisten to episodes endlessly too! It just feels like friends around all the time and I love the crackhead energy haha. I love all the guests Nicole chooses because the chemistry is (usually) super on point. It doesn't feel preachy or trying to give advice, just two people discussing love and relationships and I'm all for it!

Edit: I loooove some of the guest hosts that just vibe with Nicole. There are some that don't super vibe w her or some that try to outshine. The vibing ones make the podcast truly enjoyable. The latest one was Kevin Porter.

govoks00 ,

Follow NOW!!

OMG!!! I love this so much!!! I laugh ALL DAY AT WORK!!! OMG! How did I just find this?!?!?

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