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Nicole Byer is single and has been for decades. She’s smart, funny, has a fat ass and loves giving blow jobs. So the question is why is she perpetually single? This podcast is a quest to find that answer. Every week, Nicole invites a comedian, friend, or ex-fling to interview their dating life and figure out her own.

Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer Team Coco

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.9 • 12.6K Ratings

Nicole Byer is single and has been for decades. She’s smart, funny, has a fat ass and loves giving blow jobs. So the question is why is she perpetually single? This podcast is a quest to find that answer. Every week, Nicole invites a comedian, friend, or ex-fling to interview their dating life and figure out her own.

    We're living in the wildest times (w/ Jason Concepcion)

    We're living in the wildest times (w/ Jason Concepcion)

    Jason Concepcion (host of Takeline, Binge Mode) joins Nicole to discuss the culture shock he experienced visiting the Philippines during a coup, how the pandemic revealed America's systemic failures, their favorite small businesses to support, and the WNBA. As America opens back up, Nicole's back in the dating game but it's not going so well. Are dating apps operating fake profiles to keep you engaged? Plus, Nicole runs into an old fling and things got weird.

    Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to support, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co. 

    Follow Nicole Byer: 

    Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken

    Twitter: @nicolebyer 

    Instagram: @nicolebyer 

    Merch: teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 1 hr 4 min
    Interview with a Male Escort (w/ Troy Amistadi)

    Interview with a Male Escort (w/ Troy Amistadi)

    International male escort Troy Amistadi is here to answer all of Nicole's questions about escorting and sex work. He discusses how the TV show Gigolos inspired him to get into the business, the particular services he offers to women, why 'civilian dating' is tough for escorts, and what it was like to have his work filmed for a documentary.

    Learn more about Troy at datetroy.com.

    Black Lives Matter! For a list of resources and ways to support, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co. 

    Follow Nicole Byer: 

    Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken 

    Twitter: @nicolebyer 

    Instagram: @nicolebyer 

    Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964 

    Nicole's book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746 

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 1 hr
    Back in the Dating Game (w/ Shea Couleé)

    Back in the Dating Game (w/ Shea Couleé)

    Drag queen Shea Couleé (Winner of RPDR All Stars 5) talks to Nicole about finding love at the club, being a drag mother, wig mishaps, and doing poppers. Plus, Nicole's back in the dating game and it's off to an awkward start. 

    For more Shea & Nicole, check out Nicole's episode on Shea's podcast Wanna Be On Top?

    Black Lives Matter! For a list of resources and ways to support, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co.

    Follow Nicole Byer:

    Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken

    Twitter: @nicolebyer

    Instagram: @nicolebyer

    Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Nicole's book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

     

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 1 hr 6 min
    Sleeping with your Uber Driver (w/ London Hughes)

    Sleeping with your Uber Driver (w/ London Hughes)

    Comedian London Hughes (Netflix's To Catch a Dick) and Nicole chat about her experience moving to America during a pandemic and race war, sleeping with her Uber driver, doggy style techniques, sucking dick, and pitch their new doomsday movie idea.

    Black Lives Matter! For a list of resources and ways to support, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co.

    Follow Nicole Byer:

    Upcoming Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken

    Twitter: @nicolebyer

    Instagram: @nicolebyer

    Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Nicole's book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

     

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 1 hr 8 min
    Proposal Gone Wrong (w/ Paul Scheer)

    Proposal Gone Wrong (w/ Paul Scheer)

    Comedian and actor Paul Scheer (The League, Black Monday) and Nicole chat about how his proposal to June Diane Raphael went terribly wrong, how June's wedding ring was stolen from her finger, and shares good wisdom on the importance of relationship building. Plus, June sits nearby, fact-checking Paul's stories.

    May 25th See Why Won't You Date Me LIVE featuring Drag Race S11's Miss Congeniality Nina West! Get tickets at live.nicolebyerwastaken.com.

     

    Follow Nicole Byer:

    Upcoming Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken

    Twitter: @nicolebyer

    Instagram: @nicolebyer

    Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Nicole's book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

     

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 1 hr 3 min
    Kinky in Public (w/ Jessica Rothe)

    Kinky in Public (w/ Jessica Rothe)

    Actress Jessica Rothe (Happy Death Day, La La Land) and Nicole discuss if it's OK to do kinky acts in public, the bizarre ways people are monetizing kinks, and the surprising reality of male escorting. Plus, Jessica describes her pandemy micro-wedding, and her major mic-drop "I love you" moment in her relationship. 

    See Why Won't You Date Me LIVE May 25th! Tickets at live.nicolebyerwastaken.com

    Follow Nicole Byer:

    Upcoming Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken

    Twitter: @nicolebyer

    Instagram: @nicolebyer

    Buy Merch: https://www.teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Nicole's book: www.indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

     

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 1 hr 13 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
12.6K Ratings

12.6K Ratings

Kenda48 ,

Smart✔️ Funny ✔️ Empowering ✔️

I am officially obsessed with Nicole. This show has everything i am looking for in a podcast and I am not sure why it took me so long ti start listening. Thank you for all your hard work, Nicole. I would 100% date you 😘😘😘😘😘😘

Stevie-os ,

Hole destroyer.

I want Nicole to destroy my hole. She is an amazing woman who deserves to kick back and really go to town on my poor little hole.

K taken ,

A Must Listen!!

Nicole is one of the best interviewers ever and she has fantastic guests every time. This podcast is everything you want from a relaxed conversation between interesting lively folks talking about dating and more. I need my weekly “date” with Nicole!!

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