196 episodes

Nicole Byer is single and has been for decades. She’s smart, funny, has a fat ass and loves giving blow jobs. So the question is why is she perpetually single? This podcast is a quest to find that answer. Every week, Nicole invites a comedian, friend, or ex-fling to interview their dating life and figure out her own.

Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer Team Coco

    • Society & Culture
    • 4.9 • 12.7K Ratings

Nicole Byer is single and has been for decades. She’s smart, funny, has a fat ass and loves giving blow jobs. So the question is why is she perpetually single? This podcast is a quest to find that answer. Every week, Nicole invites a comedian, friend, or ex-fling to interview their dating life and figure out her own.

    Thriving Alone (w/ Harvey Guillén)

    Thriving Alone (w/ Harvey Guillén)

    Actor Harvey Guillén (What We Do in the Shadows) is single but not quite ready to mingle. He discusses why he guards his profession from his dating life, how he found love on Instagram, and the important need for space in any relationship. Nicole reads some wild dating app profiles.

    Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to support, see blacklivesmatters.carrd.co. 

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    Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

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    • 1 hr 2 min
    Being a Single Mom of 3 (w/ Francesca Amber)

    Being a Single Mom of 3 (w/ Francesca Amber)

    Nicole’s close friend Francesca Amber (host of Law of Attraction Changed my Life) talks about the struggles of being a mother of twins, explains the latest fad of 'co-parenting', and describes how to use the Law of Attraction to manifest your dream person. Meanwhile, Nicole counts down the days until her dick appointment.

     

    Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to support, see blacklivesmatters.carrd.co. 

    Follow Nicole Byer: 

    Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken

    Twitter: @nicolebyer 

    Instagram: @nicolebyer 

    Merch: teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 1 hr
    The Cost of Being 'Cute' (w/ Cat Hollis)

    The Cost of Being 'Cute' (w/ Cat Hollis)

    Cat Hollis led the 2020 Portland Stripper Strike. Here, she explain why it happened and her work for equitable workspaces in the adult industry. Cat discusses the costs of being cute, shares the common challenges people face when dating a stripper, and gives advice on how to feel sexy even after a rejection.

    Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to support, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co. 

    Follow Nicole Byer: 

    Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken 

    Twitter: @nicolebyer 

    Instagram: @nicolebyer 

    Merch: teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 47 min
    The Power of 'I Love You' (w/ Sam Richardson)

    The Power of 'I Love You' (w/ Sam Richardson)

    Actor and comedian Sam Richardson (Veep, I Think You Should Leave) chats with Nicole about his success finding love on Raya, wanting kids so he can continue doing kid things, the power of saying 'I love you' first in a relationship, and pitches ideas for dating app opening messages.

    Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to support, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co. 

    Follow Nicole Byer: 

    Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken 

    Twitter: @nicolebyer 

    Instagram: @nicolebyer 

    Merch: teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 54 min
    Are you 'Love Avoidant'? (w/ Reggie Watts)

    Are you 'Love Avoidant'? (w/ Reggie Watts)

    Comedian and musician Reggie Watts (The Late Late Show with James Corden) chats with Nicole about his unique eating habits, his time spent playing in a 70's cover band, and the weird shift from being a fake band leader on Comedy Bang! Bang!, to a real band leader for The Late Late Show with James Corden. Nicole learns she may be 'love avoidant'.

    Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to support, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co. 

    Follow Nicole Byer: 

    Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken

    Twitter: @nicolebyer 

    Instagram: @nicolebyer 

    Merch: teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 59 min
    We're living in the wildest times (w/ Jason Concepcion)

    We're living in the wildest times (w/ Jason Concepcion)

    Jason Concepcion (host of Takeline, Binge Mode) joins Nicole to discuss the culture shock he experienced visiting the Philippines during a coup, how the pandemic revealed America's systemic failures, their favorite small businesses to support, and the WNBA. As America opens back up, Nicole's back in the dating game but it's not going so well. Are dating apps operating fake profiles to keep you engaged? Plus, Nicole runs into an old fling and things got weird.

    Black Lives Matter. For a list of resources and ways to support, check out blacklivesmatters.carrd.co. 

    Follow Nicole Byer: 

    Tour Dates: linktr.ee/nicolebyerwastaken

    Twitter: @nicolebyer 

    Instagram: @nicolebyer 

    Merch: teepublic.com/stores/nicole-byer?ref_id=964

    Nicole's book: indiebound.org/book/9781524850746

    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    • 1 hr 4 min

Customer Reviews

4.9 out of 5
12.7K Ratings

12.7K Ratings

alexa-s ,

❤️❤️❤️

exciting! educational! silly! 10/10

Casey Showman ,

Cracking up

I listen to Nicole Byer almost every day. Currently catching up on past episodes. I cracked up so hard at one episode, I hit my house. Literally laughing so hard I didn’t see how close I was to the garage. Ran right into it. Thankfully only minimal destruction. This podcast is truly a treat and a dream.

peamanda ,

Informative and Hilarious

I learn so much from the interesting, talented, and courageous people interviewed, and Nicole is a delightful host. I am able to become more engaged with important causes, contribute to fantastic organizations, and learn how to be a more informed and empathic human. This recent ep with Cat Hollis, who is doing so much for the dancer and sex worker community, was fantastic! Keep up the great work 😊

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