8 episodes

Have you ever experienced the heartbreak of failing at relationships you once thought you’d love forever? And what impact did that have on your ability to trust? So, have you finally realized that soul-mate hunting is, at best, a weak strategy?



If you are afraid to love again, and ready for a safe strategy, that actually works, then it’s time to REDISCOVER TRUST.



My strategy will teach you the 3 ROOT causes of relationship failure: love dying, bargaining for needs, and fighting. With this knowledge, and the best practices for solving each, you’ll be able to TAKE CHARGE AND BUILD a relationship of your dreams – instead of hoping and praying that one day your dreams may come true.



Only when YOU ARE IN CHARGE can you know that your X’s & O’s will never again become exes and woes.



That’s what this podcast is all about: a simple, 3-piece strategy to empower you to feel safe to love again! So IMAGINE … a relationship where:

- you feel fully loved

- you’re getting your needs met with an unreserved yes, and

- fighting melts away into curiosity and compassion.



Who wouldn’t want to come home to that kind of relationship – every day, year after year! So, when is now the right time to take charge of your life!

X’s & O’s Not Exes & Woes Cheryl Herbst

    • Self-Improvement
    • 5.0, 12 Ratings

Have you ever experienced the heartbreak of failing at relationships you once thought you’d love forever? And what impact did that have on your ability to trust? So, have you finally realized that soul-mate hunting is, at best, a weak strategy?



If you are afraid to love again, and ready for a safe strategy, that actually works, then it’s time to REDISCOVER TRUST.



My strategy will teach you the 3 ROOT causes of relationship failure: love dying, bargaining for needs, and fighting. With this knowledge, and the best practices for solving each, you’ll be able to TAKE CHARGE AND BUILD a relationship of your dreams – instead of hoping and praying that one day your dreams may come true.



Only when YOU ARE IN CHARGE can you know that your X’s & O’s will never again become exes and woes.



That’s what this podcast is all about: a simple, 3-piece strategy to empower you to feel safe to love again! So IMAGINE … a relationship where:

- you feel fully loved

- you’re getting your needs met with an unreserved yes, and

- fighting melts away into curiosity and compassion.



Who wouldn’t want to come home to that kind of relationship – every day, year after year! So, when is now the right time to take charge of your life!

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
12 Ratings

12 Ratings

Susan Dascenzi ,

Wisdom + Compasion = This podcast and loving again!

Listening to this podcast creates the hope that one CAN love again and feel the trust to open up to that love without the fear. Cheryl's warmth, compasion, and wisdom shine through as she offers easy to understand strategies for keeping love alive and opening back into love if your heart's been closed. A podcast all need to listen if you're in a relationship! Thank you Cheryl for opening yourself back up so that many others can learn how to as well!!

Sanctuary Lady ,

We can all use this!

Bravo and THANKS, Cheryl, for offering exactly what your Welcome episode promises: streamlined, practical strategies that anyone can implement not only in their romantic partnerships, but in any relationship that fails to meet its promise. Terrific, encouraging stuff!

name lady ,

Relationships Simplified

Cheryl discusses relationships and shares information that assists one on how to maintain your relationships so that they thrive vs die. Best part still she does it in approximately 15 minutes without wasting any of your time. I've subscribed as Cheryl makes the not so obvious very obvious. Great to listen to on the way to/from work!

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