Your Spiritual Game Plan with Cheri Fletcher

Cheri Fletcher
Your Spiritual Game Plan with Cheri Fletcher

The purpose of this podcast is to help anyone who feels like they constantly get sideswiped when they're about to accomplish something.Perhaps your life feels like a perpetual groundhog's day, with a full sink and an unending bill pile. Do you think that no one can tell you’ve done anything when you feel like all you’ve done is everything? Maybe today, you just need a plan, a strategy to put in place that can help you overcome the belief that you don’t matter. If you understand how I feel, we are in this together. Friend, God has a plan, but the enemy has a plot!I hope that through interviews and monthly insights, I can provide a spiritual strategy to overcome your sideswipe moments and help you live out your calling.

  1. How To See The Goodness Of God In The Shadow Of Suffering

    MAY 6

    How To See The Goodness Of God In The Shadow Of Suffering

    Have a question? Click Here? In this episode, I spoke with Summer Gordon. Summer is a wife, mother, author, and speaker whose passion is to help others look beyond life’s trying circumstances and fix their eyes on Christ. The Gordon family suffered a tragic loss when their 5-year-old son was hit and killed by someone they knew. I spoke with Summer about the book 𝗛𝗼𝗽𝗲 𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗮𝗶𝗻𝘀: 𝗦𝗲𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗚𝗼𝗼𝗱𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗚𝗼𝗱 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗦𝗵𝗮𝗱𝗼𝘄 𝗼𝗳 𝗦𝘂𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿𝗶𝗻𝗴, which she and her husband, Reppard, wrote. They share their transparent story of loss, love, forgiveness, and the unshakeable goodness of God. Summer shared how it can be easy to park in our pain. But God wants us to live intentionally and shift our thinking from park to drive.   God has so much for us up ahead, including a new life with those we have lost. God wants us to understand that this is not all there is. There is so much more. 𝐂𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐰𝐞 𝐛𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐝𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧? UPDATE: May 2025 Since the release of this podcast, we have experienced the heartbreaking loss of our daughter. I have found comfort by reflecting on all the ways God went before our family, placing people, stories, and events in our lives to support us during this difficult time. Summer's story and book are among those provisions. I have re-read her book with kindred eyes, feeling a shared brokenness and deep gratitude. I am thankful for her willingness to share her pain and vulnerability. Summer and her husband, Reppard, embody the message of 2 Corinthians 1:3-4: “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we will be able to comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we are comforted by God.” If you are listening to this episode because you, too, have lost a child, I pray that you find comfort in knowing that our God is a bereaved parent! He gave up His child so that we can have ours back! Summer Gordon Instagram Whether you are listening for the first time or you've been a listener for a while,  you may or may not know that on June 20th, 2023, I paused thepodcast. Since then, we lost our daughter. I recently released a new episode discussing how I processed our year of firsts by creating Grief Conversation Cards. You can learn more in episode 236 and at cherifletcher.com. Thank you, Cheri

    24 min
  2. 06/20/2023

    The Unexpected Things That Happen When You Pray With Holy Expectations

    Have a question? Click Here? What expectations do you have when you pray? Is your heart watchful - anticipating His reply because you know He will come through - or do you just keep praying and hoping He will come through, but not really expecting much? Sadly, I had placed my expectations in the wrong place and wondered why it felt like I lived in a perpetual Groundhog's Day. It felt like no one could tell I'd been doing so much, yet I'd been doing everything, So I asked God why. The answer?  I’d been doing everything! Then, God asked me what I expected from Him. What did I expect from God? My prayers have changed - GOD, I expect more. I expect YOU! That is when the unexpected answers started coming! One of the things that God did make clear was that I surrender this podcast for now. Today is June 20th. I have been telling you that I will be taking a sabbatical, and in this episode, I will share why. The best thing about podcasts is that they don’t disappear!  The 135 episodes I have already done are still there for you to enjoy and share. During this time, it would be lovely to get to know you!  You can stay in touch with me by joining my email, where we can get to know each other better. I will still be writing, continuing to blog, sharing devotionals, Spiritual Game Planning for upcoming events or situations, and updating on the direction God takes this ministry.    I’d love to know  -  Was there a favorite episode?  Is there specific way I can pray for you? Head over to my website, cherifletcher.com, and click Join Cheri. Whether you are listening for the first time or you've been a listener for a while,  you may or may not know that on June 20th, 2023, I paused thepodcast. Since then, we lost our daughter. I recently released a new episode discussing how I processed our year of firsts by creating Grief Conversation Cards. You can learn more in episode 236 and at cherifletcher.com. Thank you, Cheri

    24 min
  3. 06/13/2023

    An Interactive Guide to Help Fathers Transition your Sons into Manhood with Dean Briggs

    Have a question? Click Here? Isaiah 32:8 tells us that a noble man makes a noble plan, so he can stand on noble deeds. If we aren't giving our young men noble plans and teaching them how to make them, how do we expect our sons to become men that stand on noble deeds? As Father’s Day approaches, I chose a guest that would highlight one of the most important works that God has called Fathers to complete. My guest, Dean Briggs, a father and stepfather to 7 boys, has carried the weight of this important mission heavily on his shoulders knowing that there are only a few brief years in which men can guide their sons into manhood.  Dean will share with us: The Virtues of ManhoodHow to help boys grow up to be godly menHighlights from his book: Brave Quest - An Interactive Journey for Young Men to Help Them Build A Godly Character This book is a great resource for fathers looking for a fatherhood Spiritual Game Plan! If you know someone who would enjoy this powerful rite-of-passage system for fathers and sons, be sure to share this and encourage them! Whether you are listening for the first time or you've been a listener for a while,  you may or may not know that on June 20th, 2023, I paused thepodcast. Since then, we lost our daughter. I recently released a new episode discussing how I processed our year of firsts by creating Grief Conversation Cards. You can learn more in episode 236 and at cherifletcher.com. Thank you, Cheri

    36 min
  4. 06/06/2023

    Defining the Man of God Your Family Needs Today More Than Ever Before with Brant Hansen

    Have a question? Click Here? In our world, there has been a decline in outward manliness to the point where people say that chivalry is dead, but what makes up a “real man”? In some cases, a man is defined as a "real man" based on his interests or hobbies, such as hunting, playing sports, grilling meat, fixing cars, and climbing mountains, but that is not the purpose of a man. In this episode, my guest, Brant Hansen, talks us through the godly definition of men and God’s purpose for them.   Brant emphasizes that manhood is not about being the stereotypical manly or outdoorsman. He believes there should be a vision of masculinity that is beautiful and awesome rather than the toxic and domineering idea of masculinity. He will share his thoughts on:            What a “real man” really isToxic MasculinityBeing “Keepers of the Garden” As we celebrate Father's Day this month, I wanted to devote this episode to the "real men" in our lives and offer some tips on how we can lift them up as wives, mothers, sisters, and mentors. Can you think of a man in your life who might benefit from reaffirming his purpose? Be sure to share and encourage them! Whether you are listening for the first time or you've been a listener for a while,  you may or may not know that on June 20th, 2023, I paused thepodcast. Since then, we lost our daughter. I recently released a new episode discussing how I processed our year of firsts by creating Grief Conversation Cards. You can learn more in episode 236 and at cherifletcher.com. Thank you, Cheri

    46 min
  5. 05/30/2023

     How God Uses Unexpected Seasons: God's Plan for Mothering a Disabled Child with Jullian Benfield

    Have a question? Click Here? When unexpected events change the trajectory of our lives, we have a choice to make: Do we overcome the unexpected, as the world recommends, or undergo it? In this episode, Jillian Benfield talks about her experience finding out she was going to have a child with disabilities and her new book -  The Gift of the Unexpected - Discovering Who We Were Meant to Be When Life Goes Off Plan. She will help us break down the following: False beliefs we’ve built around God and our identity. How we cannot avoid our pain, but how we can learn to feel it in a way that is healing. Discover how our internal transformation leads to external purpose when we undergo the unexpected. God uses the unexpected to disorient us from a culture that values the prosperity gospel (control) and the American dream (achievement). Through His surprising gifts, believers learn how to relate to others' pain and realize how valuable and significant they are. Jillian wants you to know that -  “No matter what you’re going through, you’re invited to open this gift: The Gift of the Unexpected!”  Whether you are listening for the first time or you've been a listener for a while,  you may or may not know that on June 20th, 2023, I paused thepodcast. Since then, we lost our daughter. I recently released a new episode discussing how I processed our year of firsts by creating Grief Conversation Cards. You can learn more in episode 236 and at cherifletcher.com. Thank you, Cheri

    40 min
  6. 05/23/2023

    How to Balance Caring for Your New Baby and Caring for Yourself with Rachael Elmore

    Have a question? Click Here? As a new mother, what questions did you receive the first few days after giving birth? You are not alone if you were asked more questions about the baby than how you were. Maybe we'll get a pat on the back or hear, "Good job, Mama!" But what we need is a “How are you?”!! There is so much excitement around the birth of the new member of your family that people tend to overlook the major experience you have just gone through. Rachael Elmore, a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Supervisor, shares her personal and professional experiences from her book A Mom Is Born: Biblical Wisdom and Practical Advice for Taking Care of Yourself and Your New Baby. When she had her first baby, she wanted others to know that “the baby wasn’t the only one born that day—so was I.” Rachael believes that not everyone needs therapy, but everyone can benefit from it.  In This Episode, She Will:  Answer two listeners' questions about postpartum Tell us the difference between the baby blues and PPD/PPA  Help you find the balance between caring for your new baby and caring for yourself.  Being an empty nest mother, I understand if you don't think that this show is for you - But  I hope this message will be a resource you can use to help a young mom, use it as a gift for a daughter or daughter-in-law, or give you some grace if you missed out on these resources when you were experiencing postpartum. Whether you are listening for the first time or you've been a listener for a while,  you may or may not know that on June 20th, 2023, I paused thepodcast. Since then, we lost our daughter. I recently released a new episode discussing how I processed our year of firsts by creating Grief Conversation Cards. You can learn more in episode 236 and at cherifletcher.com. Thank you, Cheri

    48 min
  7. 05/16/2023

    A Gentle Invitation for Mothers, God is Waking You Up to the Life You Really Want with Anjuli Paschal

    Have a question? Click Here? How have you filled in these blanks? “Someday” when I don’t have to ___________, then I will _________. Like me, you might need more blanks!  Having finally reached my "someday," while I'm enjoying the things I've been looking forward to, I often think back on those days when I was doing all of those things I'd wished away and wish I had taken time to enjoy them.  As a young mother, I seemed to be navigating my life one task at a time. I daydreamed about a life I believed would be more fulfilling instead of being awake and in the moment. During this episode, Anjuli Paschall describes what it's like to feel the underlying anxiety that you are missing out on the good life, to zone out, to swipe up, to be slimming down, to be working harder, and to spin in circles with the anxiety of not living life to the fullest. That was something Anjuli wanted to change! Knowing she loved people fearlessly and walked with God faithfully.  In addition, she wants to believe that she is loved and even liked. Anjuli is going to tell us how she discovered that the full life isn’t found by chasing it. It’s found by coming awake to it, and she wants you to live a soul-awake life too! Whether you are listening for the first time or you've been a listener for a while,  you may or may not know that on June 20th, 2023, I paused thepodcast. Since then, we lost our daughter. I recently released a new episode discussing how I processed our year of firsts by creating Grief Conversation Cards. You can learn more in episode 236 and at cherifletcher.com. Thank you, Cheri

    37 min
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The purpose of this podcast is to help anyone who feels like they constantly get sideswiped when they're about to accomplish something.Perhaps your life feels like a perpetual groundhog's day, with a full sink and an unending bill pile. Do you think that no one can tell you’ve done anything when you feel like all you’ve done is everything? Maybe today, you just need a plan, a strategy to put in place that can help you overcome the belief that you don’t matter. If you understand how I feel, we are in this together. Friend, God has a plan, but the enemy has a plot!I hope that through interviews and monthly insights, I can provide a spiritual strategy to overcome your sideswipe moments and help you live out your calling.

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