I am a mentor for women who are ready to enjoy sex in their marriage. This podcast is for you if you have an open heart, an open mind and you believe that you are powerful enough to create change (even if your spouse isn’t on board yet!). Life can be challenging & sometimes sex gets the blame. I show you that sex is simply a set of skills and lifestyle shifts that help you feel really freaking joyful and then enjoy a marriage of ease and deep loving connection of friendship and intimacy.
20 Fling Yourself Into the Life of a Turned on Woman
This episode is step 7 of 8 that it takes to go from struggling in your sex life to sex being a non issue. And my online school is updated with a NEW course. It’s called Restore Your Sexual Pleasure. You can enroll here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com
19 Practice Growing Your Desire
Step 6 on the path to sex being a nonissue and enjoyable is: Practice Growing your Desire for Sex. In order to practice growing your desire we need to talk about how you relate to sexual and nonsexual desires. We need to know the difference between arousal and desire. We need to understand how meanings we attach to sex have the most impact on our desires. Even more than biology. And we also need to talk about gourmet sex. In order to take step six you’re going to need at least 4 skills and I talk about those 4 skills in this episode. And then I share the best way to get support while you’re working on taking these steps and learning the skills. Because this isn’t easy to do on your own!! To watch the video I refer to in this episode click here: https://youtu.be/3n-DOKBffuU My email: email@example.com
18 Good Judgment & Low Desire
A lot of times women have good judgement in their marriages which leads to them having what is commonly referred to as “low sexual desire”. But this kind of low desire isn’t a negative thing. A woman won’t open up sexually to anyone, including her husband, if she believes that he doesn’t see and treasure her as a whole woman. This good judgement can also be an invitation for her to be courageous and honest about why she doesn’t want to open up sexually. Another reason a woman won’t open up sexually to her husband is because her sense of self is strongly connected to her sexuality and if her sense of belonging with herself isn’t very strong then she will have what is referred to as “low sexual desire”. In this episode we discuss the connection between a woman’s sense of self and her sexual desire, when her good judgment kicks in, what she can do to create a stronger identity, a more confident self concept, and how this increases her sexual desire in her marriage. Website for checking out available courses in Jamee’s online school: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/
17 Sexual Desire Needs Incentives
Sexual desire needs incentives to show up and this episode is all about steps 4 and 5 in the process of going from avoiding sex to looking forward to and enjoying sex with your spouse: Step 4 learn how to make sex enjoyable for yourself.
Step 5 Make the sex you’re having something worth wanting more of.
These steps are the most fun and fascinating steps in this whole process and can’t be skipped by.
16 Turning on Your Desire to Sex, Love, Partnership, Your Wants, and Life w/ guest Irene
Irene Vivanco is our guest today. She is sharing about her experience with being one of my private clients for 6 months and all the benefits that came from our time together. Irene has also become a friend and I hired her to work with me on creating my ecourses for my online school, Your Turned on Desire. What’s in this episode for you: •Turning on your desire for sex is so much more than having more sex. •Learning how to prioritize what you want as a woman, wife and/or mother is beneficial for everyone. •When your sex life is fulfilling, and not a source of contention or frustration anymore, it’s amazing what doors open for you in your personal life. •In a sexually successful marriage, everyone gets what they want in life and this manifests itself in the bedroom. •What both people in the marriage want is a satisfied woman! •When she knows what she wants and isn’t apologetic, guilty or confused about herself- then everyone thrives. Links:
Send Jamee a message: firstname.lastname@example.org
Your Turned on Desire eschool and courses are avialable here: https://coachingwithjamee.com
Follow Irene on IG: https://www.instagram.com/vivanco_irene/ @vivanco_irene
Irene’s website: vivayourvision.com
15 When You’ve Lost Attraction to Your Spouse
I get a lot of questions from women about not being attracted to their spouses and how this brings them frustrations, pain, and confusion in the sexual part of their relationship and the pain sometimes leaks over into their whole marriage. So today we are addressing this topic and what to do about it if your goal is to not only remain in your long term monogamous relationship but to find deeper love and intimacy as well. To access my online school Your Turned on Desire for more education and the lifestyle skills needed for sex to be a non issue in your marriage then go here: www.coachingwithjamee.com
Mind blowing and life changing
About 6 months ago, I learned about Jamee and started listening to her podcast and following her on Instagram. From there, I hired her as a life coach (worth every penny!). I have listened to ALL the episodes now and I love her compassion, her vulnerability, and the example she gives me to become a more ALIVE woman. Her podcast episodes feel like a great mentor and friend walking you through the various struggles in life. She always recommends you ask yourself “how does this apply to my situation?” which has really helped me reflect, ask myself the tough questions, and learn more about myself.
Not a fan
Comes off as a know it all. Places too much blame on husbands. Obvious man hater. Compares men to a 6 year old boy. "Nobody would want to have sex with a 6 year old". Message may be fine (take ownership) but delivery is a big turn off. Oh and really bad editing. Audio is very inconsistent.
One of my favorites!
I recently found Jamee’s podcast and it’s quickly become one of my favorites. She clearly communicates ideas and gives real life examples of how individuals can create new thoughts/mindsets to up level their relationship with themself and others.