Sex & Money Georgie Arabella

In the sex industry for over a decade now, Narla has walked and strutted many paths. Now offering her work as a Touch Therapist, this covers all things intimacy, inclusive of sexuality. She speaks honestly of what it’s like in the industry and how she has created a very abundant lifestyle for herself working with the potent magic of the erotic.   

A storyteller, a guide, a sage, and a woman proud of her journey, 

this was a heartfelt conversation and I felt Narla's reverent passion for this work throughout.   

We converse about finding the space to evaluate and deeply listen to our lives, balancing partnerships & romantic/sexual relationships with sex work, and the necessity for honest communication, the difference between the erotic & sexual and the heart-opening potency of deep devotion and love.  

A conversation equally interesting for those involved in either side of sex work, as for those just curious about the craft.   

You can find Narla at: 

IG @iamnarladean 

FB @Narla Dean 



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The Sex & Money podcast is here to have open conversations around porn, prostitution and other paid sexual services.   With me, Georgie Arabella, Somatic Sexologist and Intimacy Facilitator. If you are curious about how I can support you in changing your relationship to sex, porn and/or masturbation, contact me via Instagram @georgie_arabella

This is a fascinating conversation covering some of Kitty’s extensive exploration of consent culture - from her BDSM journey and noticing boundary crossing as a submissive, to intimate relationships to the wider perspective of doing our best to educate ourselves on consent culture whilst acknowledging that in a capitalist, white supremacist patriarchy, we cannot reach ideals.   We talk about consent in the realms of sex work and how consent can often be a privilege.   She gives practical advice on how to practice saying yes and no and how to learn when we cross others’ boundaries, as well as tips on how to embody consent culture within ourselves, relationships and work spaces.  Kitty Stryker has been working on defining and creating a consent culture for over 10 years through her writing, workshops, and website consentculture.com. She's the editor of "Ask: Building Consent Culture", and is especially interested in bringing conversations about consent out of the bedroom into everyday life. Additionally, Kitty is a sex worker and academic on the history of obscenity, censorship, and queer culture. In her copious free time, Kitty enjoys working as a street medic for direct actions, playing Dungeons and Dragons, and caring for her two cats. She identifies as a queer, asexual, sober, anarchist, and femme.  Social Media: Twitter: https://twitter.com/kittystrykerFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/officiallykittystryker  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kittystrykerPatreon: patreon.com/kittystryker  The Sex & Money podcast is here to have open conversations around porn, prostitution and other paid sexual services. As you might learn, there is much more to see than what's on the surface.   With me, Georgie Arabella, Somatic Sexologist and Intimacy Facilitator. If you are curious about how I can support you in changing your relationship to sex, porn and/or masturbation, contact me via my website.  www.georgiearabella.com

We chat about Oliver's relationship to sexuality, dating and sex as a person with a disability and the pros and limitations of sex work. He shares that it can be easy to start to believe that sex work is all that one can hope for, and he wants to change that.  



Oliver also talks about his journey in filming and streaming his first erotic film.  



This conversation is filled with insights that I think all humans alike could learn from hearing.  



Oliver Morton-Evans has had a diverse career journey and is the founder of a MedTech startup based in Sydney, Australia. He has advocated for the rights for people with physical disabilities for most of his life and openly talks about sexuality.   



The Sex & Money podcast is here to have open conversations around porn, prostitution and other paid sexual services.   



With me, Georgie Arabella, Somatic Sexologist and Intimacy Facilitator. 



If you are curious about how I can support you in changing your relationship to sex, porn and/or masturbation, contact me via my website. 



www.georgiearabella.com

Shaney Marie is a transformational leader in the realm of erotic mysteries. With an extensive resume in erotic dance, contemporary tantra, and facilitation, she is whispering in an ancient future of feminine embodiment. She is a Creator, Mentor, Sex Witch & Visionary.  



We reminisced on Shaney's experiences working as a stripper, the power dynamics at play in the strip club, and the more unseen desires of the dancers and customers. This was a fascinating conversation with many deep insights, including themes like worship, desire and feminine embodiment. 



You can find her on Instagram @shaneymarie_enchantress



The Sex & Money podcast is here to have open conversations around porn, prostitution and other paid sexual services.   With me, Georgie Arabella, Somatic Sexologist and Intimacy Facilitator. If you are curious about how I can support you in changing your relationship to sex, porn and/or masturbation, contact me via my website.  www.georgiearabella.com

Maggie McNeill is yet another guest exhibiting a sexual nature along with a very intellectual, wise and multi-faceted nature. We chat about taking a wider focus on the sex industry and on sex workers themselves. Through her many years of experience, Maggie shares some of her perspectives, resolving that rehumanising is the key to people getting along better - which applies to sex workers and consumers of their services, as much as all of us.   



Maggie McNeill was a librarian in suburban New Orleans, but after an acrimonious divorce she took up sex work; from 1997 to 2006 she worked first as a stripper, then as a call girl and madam.  She eventually married her favorite client and retired to a ranch in Oklahoma, but returned to escorting part-time in 2010 and full-time in 2015 after another divorce (this time amicable) and a move to Seattle.  She’s been a sex worker rights activist since 2004, and since 2010 has written “The Honest Courtesan”, a daily blog which discusses sex work, politics, anarchism, philosophy and other topics. She has also published articles in venues such as Reason and the Washington Post; given innumerable lectures, talks, radio & video interviews; and is frequently consulted by academics and journalists as an expert on sex work.  



Blog: http://maggiemcneill.wordpress.com/

Twitter: @Maggie_McNeill  



The Sex & Money podcast is here to have open conversations around porn, prostitution and other paid sexual services.  You can watch video episodes on YouTube. 



With me, Georgie Arabella, Somatic Sexologist and Intimacy Facilitator. If you are curious about how I can support you in changing your relationship to sex, porn and/or masturbation, contact me via my website.  



www.georgiearabella.com

In this conversation with Stoya, we weave between things like misconceptions in and of the porn industry, ethical measures in creating porn and the stigma around finding jobs after porn.   



We also talk about the widespread censorship of sex education on many platforms, as well as some banks and how Stoya and others are bridging the gap between porn and accessible sex education.   



Jessica Stoya was an adult performer for 15 years, and still maintains active fan pages full of nude photos. Stoya has been half of Slate's How To Do It sex advice column for the past 3.5 years. Other bylines include the New York Times, the New Statesman, the Guardian, VICE, and Playboy.  



Find her at:  

hellostoya.com 

Instagram/Twitter @stoya  



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The Sex & Money podcast is here to have open conversations around porn, prostitution and other paid sexual services. You can watch video versions of the episodes on YouTube. 

With me, Georgie Arabella, Somatic Sexologist and Intimacy Facilitator. If you are curious about how I can support you in changing your relationship to sex, porn and/or masturbation, contact me via my website.  



www.georgiearabella.com