7 episodes

Why are some lonely, young men a growing threat to our safety? In 2018, a Toronto man drove a van down a busy sidewalk, killing 11 people and injuring many more. He was linked to the "incel" movement, a dark online world fueled by violent misogyny, extreme isolation and perceived rejection.

In the wake of the attack, Evan Mead discovers a disturbing connection to the perpetrator. They were former high school classmates; both outcasts, existing together on the fringes of social acceptance.

How did two young men who started in similar circumstances, end up on such drastically different paths?

This five-part series examines how socially-isolated young men can vanish into an online world of nihilism and despair that radicalizes them into angry — potentially deadly — misogynists. Hosted by Ellen Chloë Bateman and produced by Daemon Fairless (Hunting Warhead).

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Boys Like Me CBC True Crime

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    • 3.8 • 5 Ratings

Why are some lonely, young men a growing threat to our safety? In 2018, a Toronto man drove a van down a busy sidewalk, killing 11 people and injuring many more. He was linked to the "incel" movement, a dark online world fueled by violent misogyny, extreme isolation and perceived rejection.

In the wake of the attack, Evan Mead discovers a disturbing connection to the perpetrator. They were former high school classmates; both outcasts, existing together on the fringes of social acceptance.

How did two young men who started in similar circumstances, end up on such drastically different paths?

This five-part series examines how socially-isolated young men can vanish into an online world of nihilism and despair that radicalizes them into angry — potentially deadly — misogynists. Hosted by Ellen Chloë Bateman and produced by Daemon Fairless (Hunting Warhead).

For the best in true crime from CBC, ad-free, visit apple.co/cbctruecrime.

    Boys Like Me Introduces: Introduces: The Pornhub Empire: Understood

    Boys Like Me Introduces: Introduces: The Pornhub Empire: Understood

    With about 100 million visits per day, Pornhub is one of the biggest websites on the planet. This four-part series pulls back the curtain on the scrappy, Montreal-based startup that revolutionized sex on the internet — and the massive scandal that exposed its dark side. The Pornhub Empire, season 2 of Understood, releases March 11. Hosted by journalist Samantha Cole (How Sex Changed the Internet and the Internet Changed Sex). About Understood: Know more, now. From the fall of Sam Bankman-Fried, to the rise of Pornhub, Understood is an anthology podcast that takes you out of the daily news cycle and inside the events, people, and cultural moments you want to know more about. Over a handful of episodes, each season unfolds as a story, hosted by a well-connected reporter, and rooted in journalism you can trust. Driven by insight and fueled by curiosity…The stories of our time: Understood. More episodes are available at: https://link.chtbl.com/orxR_F8U

    • 27 min
    Episode 5: Welcome to the Manosphere

    Episode 5: Welcome to the Manosphere

    Incels are only part of the threat. Ellen speaks with a woman who spent years undercover among a vast network of online communities — among them so-called mens’ rights activists and pickup artists — all united in their desire for total male supremacy. They orchestrate harassment campaigns, glorify violence against women and actively recruit vulnerable young men. Few people are talking about it. And no one knows how to stop it.

    For transcripts of this series, please visit: https://www.cbc.ca/radio/podcastnews/boys-like-me-transcripts-listen-1.6732152

    • 44 min
    Episode 4: A Soldier for the Cause

    Episode 4: A Soldier for the Cause

    Evan shares a troubling period from his past and reflects on the different paths he and Alek took. What pushes someone to kill in the name of an ideology? Ellen speaks to a former Jihadi recruiter about the murky path from radicalization to terrorism.

    For transcripts of this series, please visit: https://www.cbc.ca/radio/podcastnews/boys-like-me-transcripts-listen-1.6732152

    • 37 min
    Episode 3: Boys Will Be Boys

    Episode 3: Boys Will Be Boys

    Alek frequented incel sites for years, lurking in forums that celebrated or even encouraged the kind of attack he’d go on to commit. What draws young men into this toxic world? Ellen connects with a prominent incel who takes her down the rabbit hole.

    For transcripts of this series, please visit: https://www.cbc.ca/radio/podcastnews/boys-like-me-transcripts-listen-1.6732152

    • 39 min
    Episode 2: A Supreme Gentleman

    Episode 2: A Supreme Gentleman

    Evan and Alek are in the same special-needs program in high school, where they’re both bullied and ostracized. But while Evan tries to break out of his shell, Alek retreats further into himself and finds solace in some of the most disturbing corners of the internet.

    For transcripts of this series, please visit: https://www.cbc.ca/radio/podcastnews/boys-like-me-transcripts-listen-1.6732152

    • 34 min
    Episode 1: A Moment of Silence

    Episode 1: A Moment of Silence

    Hours after a deadly van attack in Toronto, the media starts hunting for clues. One of those clues leads to a surprise phone call and a shocking discovery.

    For transcripts of this series, please visit: https://www.cbc.ca/radio/podcastnews/boys-like-me-transcripts-listen-1.6732152

    • 36 min

Customer Reviews

3.8 out of 5
5 Ratings

5 Ratings

TinsleyBell ,

An interesting take?

I think it is admirable that you approached the INCEL world from a sympathetic POV… but it definitely goes too far at points. Of all the people that are really punished by societal expectations, this lot of guys represents the worst example of what humans (males especially) can turn out to be when they don’t get their way. I cannot feel sorry for the sulky man child lamenting about going to parties but not hooking up. Like wow, the entitlement and self-pity here is sickening.

Angelo43200 ,

Rogue male

I’m working on an article for a system I can rogue male. We have a huge problem with this in South Africa although we call it tsotsi culture here. When you look at the rates of rape and murder you have to concede this is the biggest threat to civil peace in the world today.
EP 5 suddenly becomes about feminism and the reporter. What a pity. You may have swung a bunch of them toward “Mano spheres” and MGTOW right there.
When dealing with such dangerous topics why have you not consulted a male psychology perspective? It’s painfully obvious. #gammabias you want to make this go away by shaming, but the more you do that the more you are part of the problem.
You can’t see that the same old approach is not working.

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