Mary’s Cup of Tea: the Self-Love Podcast for Women Mary Jelkovsky
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Welcome to Self-Love.
Your host Mary Jelkovsky will guide you toward greater self-love by exploring related topics like body-image, confidence, emotional intelligence, self-worth, mindset, mental health, feminism, relationships, and so much more. Along the way, Mary lets you in on her personal life, never shying away from the messy, raw, and real conversations that we all crave. So grab a cup of tea and get ready to love yourself a little more each week.
After recovering from an eating disorder, Mary started her Instagram account @maryscupofteaa to help people accept their bodies and learn to love themselves unconditionally. Now, she is the best-selling author of 2 books: The Gift of Self-Love workbook and the 100 Days of Self-Love journal. Learn more at maryscupoftea.com.
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#203: Coping with Getting Ghosted and Family Estrangement w/ Minaa B., LMSW
It’s been almost 3 years since Mary has talked to my father. Now she’s processing that familial estrangement in real time with the help of Minaa B, a licensed social worker and proponent for psychological safety. The conversation also leads into the phenomenon of ghosting; why people do it and how to cope with the lack of closure.
You will learn...
- what constitutes estranged family and how surprisingly common it is
- why people GHOST and how to cope with ghosting in relationships
- the important difference between rules vs. boundaries
- ways to grieve and find closure for abrupt endings
Remember: closure is akin to forgiveness in that it can only come from within.
Minaa B. is a licensed social worker, mental health educator, and author of *[Owning Our Struggles](https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0593539354?tag=randohouseinc2681-20)*. She is also the founder of a mental health [consulting practice](https://www.minaab.com/about-us) where she collaborates with organizations to help them develop psychological safety. Additionally, Minaa is the host of the Verywell Mind podcast, runs an advice column for Cosmopolitan magazine called Free Therapy, and is also a member of the Mental Health Advisory Committee for Wondermind, a mental fitness company co-founded by Selena Gomez. An expert in her field, Minaa has been featured in various media outlets, including Red Table Talk, Peace of Mind with Taraji, Oprah Daily, Katie Couric Media, and more. Minaa currently resides in New York City.
Follow Minaa on Instagram: @minaa_b
Get Minaa’s new book Owning Our Struggles: https://amzn.to/4b1GDOU
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#202: Dealing with Criticism
If you’re human, then you’ve probably received criticism. Though it can be quite unpleasant, your ability to encounter criticism and not let it affect you is directly proportionate to both your self-esteem and self-worth.
In this episode, you will learn...
- the 2 different types of criticisms
- what makes certain criticism hurt so badly (and how to not let it affect you)
- 3 questions to ask yourself before listening to other people’s opinions
Remember: don’t choose a stranger’s criticism over your intuition, your values, and your heart.
If you enjoyed this episode, screenshot it and tag @maryspodcast on social media! And make sure to get Mary’s books two on self-love:
- The Gift of Self-Love: https://maryscupoftea.com/gift-of-self-love. This is a self-love workbook that will help you build confidence, recognize your worth, and learn to finally love yourself.
- 100 Days of Self-Love: maryscupoftea.com/journal. This is a guided journal with 100 prompts to help you calm self-criticism and learn to love who you are.
Mentioned In This Episode...
Mary’s Body-Image TEDx talk: https://youtu.be/DoDzwM0gybg?si=P3kfRMBBdFgTMOAI
Mary’s IG reel that went viral and got criticized: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C5l6-_fvZCS/?igsh=ZDJrYjA0aXpzM2ww
The 4 Agreements book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1878424319/ref=cm_sw_r_as_gl_api_gl_i_AJC459ZTT9B1T36FX5ZR?linkCode=ml2&tag=maryscupoft0b-20 -
#201: Tips for Thrifting and Vintage Shopping w/ Virginia Chamlee
Today we’re talking THRIFTING! If you’re anything like Mary, you love secondhand stuff and the unique joy it brings to your home. Artist and collector Virginia Chamlee joins us to share her tips, tricks, and secrets to scoring vintage furniture.
You will learn...
- how thrifting builds confidence
- tips for finding valuable vintage furniture and decor
- mistakes people make when they shop secondhand
Virginia Chamlee is a writer, artist, entrepreneur, and avid collector of vintage. She is the author of Big Thrift Energy, a manual for finding beautiful (often valuable) pieces of design for pennies on the dollar, and a source of inspiration for those looking to collect or style vintage in their own homes. A lifelong collector of vintage design, Virginia has spent years scouring thrift stores, estate sales, antique malls and flea markets for truly incredible, museum-worthy finds (like that Goyard trunk she found for $90, or the floor-length Christian Dior cape scored at Goodwill for $9). She believes even the most high-quality design should be accessible for everyone, and that the antiques industry is long overdue for a shakeup (and maybe a little more, well... energy).
An accomplished artist, her paintings and prints are available via exclusive partnerships with Chairish, Artfully Walls and Anthropologie. Virginia is also a professional writer with bylines at PEOPLE, Buzzfeed, Eater, Bustle, and others.
Follow Virginia on Instagram: @vchamlee
Get Virginia’s book, Big Thrift Energy here: https://amzn.to/3V7zAPY
And if you enjoyed this episode, screenshot it and share it on social media! Make sure to tag @maryspodcast and @vchamlee
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#200: A Self-Love Gift for YOU!
Celebrating 200 episodes with sips of tea and a heart full of gratitude. Thank you, my self-lover, for listening to this podcast and giving yourself the gift of self-love.
Get my list of 200 Reasons to Choose Self-Love: https://maryscupoftea.myflodesk.com/200
From my heart to yours,
Mary
Mentioned in this episode:
- The Gift of Self-Love: https://maryscupoftea.com/gift-of-self-love. This is a self-love workbook that will help you build confidence, recognize your worth, and learn to finally love yourself.
- 100 Days of Self-Love: maryscupoftea.com/journal. This is a guided journal with 100 prompts to help you calm self-criticism and learn to love who you are.
- Hibiscus Heart Tea: maryscupoftea.com/tea -
#199: Celebrating 1 Year Married w/ Husband!
My husband and I are celebrating 5 years together and 1 year married! To commemorate, we thought we’d answer your burning relationship-related questions while reflecting on the half decade we’ve spent together.
We talk about…
- how being married feels different
- adult friendships and how they’ve changed since our wedding
- our age gap
- advice for dating and finding “the one”
- tips for repairing after a fight
- how to decorate your home together, even if you have different styles
- new things we’ve learned about each other post-marriage
Tune in for hot takes, relationship advice, and just a sweet conversation about couplehood.
And if you enjoyed this episode, screenshot it and share it on social media! Make sure to tag @maryspodcast and @maryscupofteaa
Mentioned In This Episode...
Ep. 157 about Our Wedding Reflections: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0UGsNzalIhBmXyVogGFKFp?si=ylcqFLbIRgGIVZElssJDCQ
101 Questions to Ask Before You Get Engaged: https://amzn.to/3ISBSew -
#198: Secrets to an Organized Home with Nikki Boyd
Would you consider yourself an organized person? What about those with whom you live with?
In the hustle and bustle of life, households frequently face daily stress, financial hiccups, and time crunches which are often aggravated by a lack of organization in the home.
Professional organizer Nikki Boyd joins us to talk about communication as the ultimate organizing tool for households and well as hacks for keeping your home beautifully organized.
You will learn...
- ways to communicate with those you live with to ensure a more harmonious household flow
- 2 places in one’s home that tend to cause stress
- hacks for organizing your house and making it feel like a sanctuary
Remember: your home should feel like a vacation from the outside world. Why wouldn’t you make it into a place that feels rejuvenating?
Nikki Boyd is a professional organizer and founder of athomewithnikki.com where she helps bring beautiful order in homes around the world with her business, blog and YouTube channel. What began as a hobby is now a successful home organizing business, a popular blog, and YouTube channel, with thousands of readers coming to her site for creative and straightforward ways to beautifully organize their homes. She lives in Charleston, South Carolina with her husband and two puppies.
Follow Nikki Boyd on Instagram: @athomewithnikki
Watch Nikki’s helpful YouTube videos: https://www.youtube.com/@AtHomeWithNikki/
Check out Nikki’s organizing services: https://athomewithnikki.com
Get Nikki’s book, Beautifully Organized here: https://amzn.to/3PmyWKS
And if you enjoyed this episode, screenshot it and share it on social media! Make sure to tag @maryspodcast and @athomewithnikki
Mentioned In This Episode...
Behave: The Biology of Humans at Our Best and Worst by Robert Sapolsky: https://amzn.to/49VkEcl
Customer Reviews
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