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We are Miranda Rake and Sarah Wheeler, two friends, mothers and professional writers on the parenting beat. Mother Culture is our place to go deep into the culture of modern motherhood and have the conversations that truly challenge, feed and excite us. Expect warmth, humor and over-considered takes on hot topics, fresh takes on old ones, expert guests and good times. We're diving into the grey areas beyond the tropes — the wine moms, the rage moms, the anything moms — and instead spending real time with the ideas that help us grow as mothers and people in this cultural moment.
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Episode 19: Who's The Beef?! Sarah & Miranda Talk Vasectomies, Turning 40 & The 3rd Kid Question
A little one-on-one time with Sarah and Miranda! A fun chit-chatty check-in about vasectomies, the third kid question, the weird pressure of turning 40, why Sarah "doesn't get" Hawaii, mole moms, hopping on the 'crone train, and calendar reminders gone wild. Plus, a big announcement!
How To Catch A Mole by Marc HamerPoser by Claire DedererKrtek The Mole, Clementine, Psychic Sister -
Episode 18: Dr Becky and The Parenting-Optimization Era, With Kathryn Jezer-Morton
Columnist and sociologist Kathryn Jezer-Morton returns to give the inside scoop on her recent profile of Dr. Becky. Sarah, Miranda and KJM dive deep into what’s great (and maybe no so great) about the advice Dr. Becky doles out, and Kathryn explains what ultimately surprised her most about spending time with Dr. Becky and the “Good Inside” parent community.
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KJM’s NY Magazine Profile of Dr. Becky.
More thoughts about the profile in her Cut column, Brooding.
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Episode 17 : Rebecca Kronman on Parenting and Psychedelics
Sarah and Miranda are joined by Rebecca Kronman, a licensed clinical social worker and co-founder of Plant Parenthood, a community that explores the intersection of psychedelics and the family. She talks about the importance of set and setting, the false dichotomy between healing and joy, and about how psychedelics help some parents heal intergenerational trauma and connect more easily with their children by tapping them into a more child-like perspective.
Links:
Rebecca Kronman of Plant Parenthood
Miranda’s feature on Mushroom Moms
Sarah’s Cut piece Moms Gone Wild
Study: Your Brain on LSD Looks A Lot Like A Baby’s
Santo Daime
Ismail L. Ali of MAPS
Fireside Project Trip Support Hotline
How To Change Your Mind by Michael Pollan
Global Psychedelic Society
Culture Recs:
The Upstairs House by Julia Fine
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MARCH MOVIE CLUB: Janet Manley on Tully & The Power of Postpartum Ghost Stories
LitHub contributing editor Janet Manley joins us to talk about the postpartum comedy with a horror twist that started it all, 2018’s Tully. We discuss how the conversation around the postpartum period has changed in six years, what the New York Times got wrong about this film, and what we would go back and offer our postpartum selves.
Links:
Janet’s newsletter, Kafka’s Baby
Janet’s coverage of the movie here and here
Stupid NYT review
Better Vulture review
Book Recs:
Samantha Hunt’s Mr. Splitfoot
Rachel Yoder’s Nightbitch
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Episode 16: Lydia Kiesling On Gaza, American Motherhood & Activism
With author and essayist Lydia Kiesling, we talk about the conflict in Gaza, which has taken the lives of tens of thousands of our fellow mothers and their children. We explore the ways that motherhood has the potential to awaken activism, about feeling frozen, helpless or overwhelmed, as well as how we can take our tender hearts and protective instincts and direct them towards activism and real change.
LINKS: - United Nations report on Gaza Casualties March 12, 2024
- UNRWA report more children killed since Oct 7 than 4 years of conflict world wide.
- Birds of Gaza
- Mobility by Lydia Kiesling
- Lydia’s Link Doc
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Episode 15: Emily Gould On Marriage & the Divorce Discourse
Author and New York Magazine writer Emily Gould joins Sarah and Miranda to discuss her controversial personal essay, The Lure of Divorce, published in The Cut last month. We tackle the current divorce discourse, the work it takes to support our own mental health, what it’s like to write so intimately and so publicly at the same time, and whether it’s “basic” to be married right now.
LINKS:
Emily’s piece The Lure of Divorce in the Cut
Excerpt from Leslie Jamison’s Splinters in the New Yorker
Emily’s profile of Adelle Waldman’s “Help Wanted”
All Fours by Miranda July
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