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In Sex With Dr. Jess, Dr. Jessica O'Reilly, Toronto-based sexologist, author, and media personality, shares tips on how to enhance your sexual life to improve the quality of your relationships. She interviews guests with questions ranging from how to deal with jealousy to getting down in the bedroom, as well as hosting thought-provoking episodes centered around compatibility and strengthening relationships.

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In Sex With Dr. Jess, Dr. Jessica O'Reilly, Toronto-based sexologist, author, and media personality, shares tips on how to enhance your sexual life to improve the quality of your relationships. She interviews guests with questions ranging from how to deal with jealousy to getting down in the bedroom, as well as hosting thought-provoking episodes centered around compatibility and strengthening relationships.

    Sex After Childbirth: Techniques & Strategies From a Perinatal Therapist

    Sex After Childbirth: Techniques & Strategies From a Perinatal Therapist

    What are the causes of pain postpartum? How can you soothe your own pain and what exercises and massage techniques can help? What does self massage entail — both directly and indirectly? And how do you assess readiness for sex postpartum? How does a Caesarian birth affect sexual functioning?



    Perinatal Therapist, Janette Yee, joins us to answer these questions and more.



    Janette's Caesarean Birth Selfcare course is now available for sign up at any time. Previously the four lessons were taught live; now they're available pre-recorded, along with over 20 how-to videos illustrating self-massage techniques and exercises. Cost: $199



    Introductory bonus: access to 6 months of weekly live online group classes with Janette every Wednesday at 1pm EST. She teaches a mini-lesson, runs a mini-workout, and answers questions. All recorded and available to all students within 24 hours. (Value: $2600)



    Follow Janette on Instagram & LinkedIn.



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    • 41 min
    How to Forgive Yourself After You’ve Cheated

    How to Forgive Yourself After You’ve Cheated

    A listener shares their story and feelings after having had cheated on their long-term partner. They ask for help managing the guilt and shame and Jess & Brandon weigh in on the topic with a discussion of:



    Whether or not to tell your partner about an affair

    Why talking about cheating can be helpful in all relationships

    How to talk about affairs in the hypothetical to improve understanding in relationships

    How the language of confession can feel burdensome

    How to manage feelings of guilt

    How to forgive yourself

    How to work through feelings of shame

    How to practice self-compassion

    How to learn from previous regrets



    Please see here for a rough version of this transcript.



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    • 34 min
    Fetishes as Healing & How to Build Attraction

    Fetishes as Healing & How to Build Attraction

    Adam Maurer joins us to crush on Brandon, sass Jess (with love) and answer your sex questions including:



    How do I pick between partners — a safe partner versus one with whom the sex is hotter?

    How do I deal with the fact that I love my boyfriend, but I’m no longer find him physically appealing?

    How can fetishes reduce stress and cultivate connection?

    What can we do to maintain attraction over time?

    What can we do to make the relationship run more smoothly?

    How can individual's growth potentially threaten a relationship?

    How do trauma responses affect partner and relationship decisions?

    How do I deal with a dental visit knowing that I have a dental fetish?



    Follow Adam on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter.



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    • 48 min
    Fetishes, Butt Play & Does Size Matter?

    Fetishes, Butt Play & Does Size Matter?

    The brilliant Luna Matatas joins us to answer your sex and pleasure questions including:



    How do you stimulate the prostate?

    What are the best a**l toys for beginners?

    What are lactation fetishes?

    Does size matter?

    How do I get over body image issues before I go to a play party?

    How can I bring up fetishes to a partner?

    How can we normalize a**l play and pegging?

    How can I pleasure my partner externally?



    Follow Luna on Facebook, Twitter, Youtube & Instagram. Be sure to listen to The Plug Podcast with Luna Matatas.



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    • 46 min
    How to Break Up With A Friend

    How to Break Up With A Friend

    Dr. Shari Nicole, Psychologist and Key Consultant of Everyday Psychology, joins us to talk about the importance and challenge of adult friendships. We discuss cutoff culture, attachments styles, boosting confidence and more including answers to these common questions:



    How many friends do most people have?

    How do childhood experiences affect adult friendships?

    How do you know if a friendship is worth saving?

    How do you know that it’s time to break up with a friend?

    How do you go about breaking up with a friend?

    How do friendships affect intimate relationships?

    How do friendships differ according to gender?

    How can you be more confident in your friendships?



    Follow Dr. Shari on Instagram and Facebook. Be sure to check out her podcast 3 Psychs and a Mic.



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    • 41 min
    What You Don’t Know About HIV

    What You Don’t Know About HIV

    Thanks to medical research and breakthroughs, we now have the tools to end the HIV epidemic. Unfortunately, we’re still a long way off on account of stigma, misinformation and a lack of awareness with regard to prevention options. So it’s essential that we talk about it.



    Brad McElya, joins us to take a deeper dive into the topic of HIV and answers your questions including:



    How have approaches to HIV shifted since the 80s?

    Is HIV transmission possible if you have an undetectable viral load?

    What is PrEP (pre-exposure prophylaxis) and how does it work to prevent transmission?

    Who should consider PrEP?

    Why is HIV still an epidemic when we have the tools to eradicate it?

    How do we chip away at the stigma that hinders testing, prevention and treatment?

    How can we normalize conversations about HIV and how can your local pharmacist help?



    We also discuss the new ArcWave Ion and Brandon provides a very personal and detailed review of his first time using this stroker + pleasure-air technology. You don’t want to miss it!



    Brad is Walgreens' Director of Specialty Health Solutions. Walgreens pharmacists receive specialized training in confidential and compassionate HIV care. Learn more at Walgreens.com/prep or visit your local Walgreens and request a consult in a private room. And you can chat online 24/7 with a pharmacist here.



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    • 48 min

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