37 episodes

We all want love, but most of us don't want to date to get it...because dating kinda sucks. That's why I'm Reinventing it.

Welcome to Reinventing Dating! A podcast from Positive Psychology Coach, Kira Sabin that helps singles learn the foundational knowledge & skills to date like you f*cking mean it.

Join Kira weekly, for short, smart & sweary conversations on what's working in dating, what's not, and where we go from here.

Because love isn’t broken, but dating is. Let’s fix it.

Reinventing Dating with Kira Sabin Kira Sabin

    • Society & Culture

We all want love, but most of us don't want to date to get it...because dating kinda sucks. That's why I'm Reinventing it.

Welcome to Reinventing Dating! A podcast from Positive Psychology Coach, Kira Sabin that helps singles learn the foundational knowledge & skills to date like you f*cking mean it.

Join Kira weekly, for short, smart & sweary conversations on what's working in dating, what's not, and where we go from here.

Because love isn’t broken, but dating is. Let’s fix it.

    Midlife Conversations: Can we actually change anything we aren't happy with? Part 2

    Midlife Conversations: Can we actually change anything we aren't happy with? Part 2

    I'm back with part 2 with Can we actually change?
    New Thrive Program
    Maybe we are at midlife and not too proud of the person we have become, can we actually change it?  Can you teach an old dog new tricks?
     
    Yup. If you know how to change and as it turns out...we never learned it!
     
    In this 2 part episode about changing in midlife (when we are a bit grumpier and stuck in our ways) I'm going to breakdown why we DON'T change. 
     
    Today I talk about:
    The mindsets we need for change The different learning gaps that can get in the way. What are the real pieces we need in place for change. How I can help you get there Listen up.  It's a good convo.
     
     

    • 56 min
    Midlife Conversations: Can we actually change anything we aren't happy with? Part 1

    Midlife Conversations: Can we actually change anything we aren't happy with? Part 1

    Maybe we are at midlife and not too proud of the person we have become, can we actually change it?  Can you teach an old dog new tricks?
    Yup. If you know how to change and as it turns out...we never learned it!
    In this 2 part episode about changing in midlife (when we are a bit grumpier and stuck in our ways) I'm going to breakdown why we DON'T change. 
    I talk about:
    My own personal story of how I grew up naive and how I created deep change in my adulthood that I am proud of. The six reasons we don't change and heads up, it has nothing to do with willpower or you being a bad person. Listen up.  It's a good convo.
     

    • 35 min
    Midlife Conversations: Is this really all there fucking is? Really?

    Midlife Conversations: Is this really all there fucking is? Really?

    I think the toughest thing about midlife is that at one point we are forced to look at where we are at, what we have created, and think...is this it? Is this life? Is this all there fucking is?
    Part 2 of my midlife conversation digs into when we wake up and realize we aren't happy:
    What we can focus on that isn't helpful in our lives How our "strong work ethic" can become a word or success addiction Really smart facts that you probably didn't know about thriving in life. Listen up!
    Articles referenced:
    Being Special vs Happy
    If everything is about Work then what is Life?  

    • 52 min
    Midlife Conversations: How the Fuck Did We Get Here?

    Midlife Conversations: How the Fuck Did We Get Here?

    I'm doing a new series over the next few days because I want to talk the absolute mindfuck that is midlife.  Today I talk about:
    The generational trauma that most of us over 40 are now dealing with with personal examples and stories How it is showing up and effecting our lives, happiness, and relationships now and why it matters And a lot of other stuff. 😂
    I'll be back tomorrow or Saturday with part 2.
    LIsten up!
     

    • 53 min
    Green Flags in Dating

    Green Flags in Dating

    We all know about red flags, but what about green flags?  What we should be looking for while dating.  That's what I'm sharing today!
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    Questions? Email the show at kira@reinventingdating.com
    Instagram: @kirasabin
    Facebook: @reinventingdating
    TikTok: reinventingdatingpod

    • 32 min
    Why you should watch Bridgerton Season 3 (and it's not just because of the carriage scene)

    Why you should watch Bridgerton Season 3 (and it's not just because of the carriage scene)

    But it's not NOT about the carriage scene. 😂
    Listen to the Bridgerton episodes breakdown on Rom-Com Rescue.
    SUSCRIBE, LEAVE A REVIEW & SHARE EVERYWHERE!
    Like this? Take a workshop, do an intensive, & change your life!
    Follow Kira & the show on Instagram: 
    Questions? Email the show at kira@reinventingdating.com
    Instagram: @kirasabin
    Facebook: @reinventingdating
    TikTok: reinventingdatingpod

    • 30 min

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