More than Roommates Scott Kedersha, Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough

Many of us struggle with anger in small and big ways. How does your anger impact your spouse and your marriage? In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss how anger impacts our own marriages and how anger can affect your marriage as well.
 
Scriptures:
Proverbs 15:1
Ephesians 4:26-27
Proverbs 21:19
James 1:19-20, 4:1
 
Questions to Discuss:
1. What are the small day-to-day things that get you frustrated?
2. Do you find yourself quick to anger or slow to anger? What would your spouse say about you?
3. What are the triggers that you’ve identified that make you quick to anger both in life in general and in your marriage?

Resources:
Book – Unoffendable, by Brant Hansen

Like it or not, our struggles affect our marriages more than we realize. In this episode of More Than Roommates, Gabrielle and Scott talk with Ann Daly about struggles, recovery, and your marriage. Because of Jesus, life change is possible for everyone and for every marriage.

Scriptures:
James 5:16
Proverbs 28:13
Genesis 2:24
Galatians 1:10
Romans 5:3-5
1 Peter 4:19
Galatians 6:9
Hebrews 3:13

Resources:
Regeneration recovery – change is possible!
Regeneration Struggle Finder – What are you struggling with?
Celebrate Recovery

Questions to Discuss:
1. Do you tend to identify yourself by your sin or by your relationship with Jesus Christ?
2. How do your issues/challenges affect your marriage?
3. What lies do you tend to believe? Who does God say you are? (Replace the lies with Truth).

In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss things we do that may seem weird to the world but allow us to be different in our marriages than the struggling marriages we all see around us. These are decisions we’ve each made that may seem unique but allow us to strengthen our marriages.

Scriptures:
Romans 12:2
1 Peter 2:11
Philippians 3:20-21
2 Timothy 2:4

Resources:
Podcast & Blog Post - 5 Weird Decisions that Make My Marriage Awesome

Questions to Discuss:
1. What are the things you do in your marriage that make you different than the marriages of the world? (Romans 12:2)
2. Where do you see your marriage blending in with the marriages of the world/non-Christian marriages?
3. Would your non-Christian friends look at your marriage and see something unique or different?

Do you and your spouse have inside jokes, traditions, or rituals that make your marriage unique and build a culture of exclusivity in your marriage? In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss the importance of building a strong culture in your marriage that makes it different than any other marriage on the planet.

Scriptures:
Genesis 2:24-25
Revelation 2:4
Proverbs 5:18

Resources:
Blog Post - How Inside Jokes And Rituals Can Strengthen Your Marriage

Discussion Questions:
1. What are some of your inside jokes or rituals in your marriage?
2. How can you build the culture of your marriage? What are the things that are like glue that bond your marriage together?

Everyone of us struggles with temptation—even Jesus faced temptations! What are the temptations we need to avoid that can wreck our marriage? And how is marriage uniquely designed so that we can help each other flee from temptations?

Scriptures:
Proverbs 5
Proverbs 18:8
Proverbs 13:20
1 Peter 1:16

Questions to Discuss:
1. What does it look like for you to flee from temptation?
2. What temptations do you face? How can your spouse help you?
3. How can you move the line, magnify the consequences, and map out your escape?
4. What would be helpful for you to confess to your spouse and to your community to help you with your temptations?

Resources:
Book - Think Ahead: 7 Decisions You Can Make Today for the God-Honoring Life You Want Tomorrow, by Craig Groeschel

On this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek and Scott have an authentic and honest conversation with Aaron Smith from the ministry Marriage After God. We discuss pornography, intimacy issues, and the challenges many couples face. Aaron and his wife Jennifer hope to inspire individuals to draw closer to God and their spouse as they chase boldly after God’s purpose for their life together.

Scriptures:
Hebrews 4:15
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

Questions to Discuss:
1. How are you and your spouse doing at consistently praying together?
2. What’s one step you and your spouse can take to pray together on a more consistent basis?

Resources:
Aaron & Jennifer Smith’s Website – Marriage After God
The Smiths new book – The Marriage Gift: 365 Prayers for Our Marriage
Aaron and Jennifer Smith’s Marriage Podcast – Marriage After God