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#22 Bad Communication Ends A Lot of Good Things Drop In With Dan
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Bad communication ends a lot of good things.
Good communication ends a lot of bad things.
Good communication is a fundamental skill that can positively impact various aspects of life.
In almost 13 years as a full-time entrepeneur working intimately people.
With a string of epic highs and crushing lows.
As a married man in a healthy relationship.
With long trail of relationship troubles, heartbreak & lessons.
As a father-to-be, a friend, and mentor to many.
Who has always valued the relationship first.
As someone living a life by my own design.
Living with creative control of my time & energy.
I want to share one idea with you that will serve you well across a lifetime, and aid you in your successes & ease across all domains.
IDEA:
Your Communication & Articulation is The Highest Value Asset.
STORY:
I’ve been so far out of balance with myself, that I've lived most of my life from childhood with hypervigiliance. Today it is my power, but not so long ago it was my prison.
It lead me to an identity crisis, in the midst of heartbreak; without the skills to get me right. I was so highly attuned to the thoughts, emotions, non-verbal communication and energy of others. That I was running my own life outside my own frame, without control.
What I did learn from these anxious years of my life, is just HOW important it is to get our communication with others on point. Because I got to deeply understand human behaviour.
I could sense what people were going through, I could see into the nature of their thinking, and I did everything I could to assist others (whilst betraying myself) to tend to their thoughts & emotions.
This was actually a healthy response to an unsafe inner child. But when it came to being in alignment with my own thoughts, emotions, needs, values and word. I was actually losing personal power.
Healing and deeply understanding myself, allowed me to become a fluent communicator, with a greater depth of empathy to understand other people.
This is the most important thing to note because all human beings long to be seen and understood on deeper levels.
Most of us listen to people to respond, but those who are masters of communication, understand that good communication is actually good listening.
I came to learn first hand that:
Good Communication Is The Bridge.
Between Clarity and Confusion.
Clear is kind, unclear is unkind.
And Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony - Ghandi
Bad communication ends a lot of good things.
Good communication ends a lot of bad things.
Good communication is a fundamental skill that can positively impact various aspects of life.
In almost 13 years as a full-time entrepeneur working intimately people.
With a string of epic highs and crushing lows.
As a married man in a healthy relationship.
With long trail of relationship troubles, heartbreak & lessons.
As a father-to-be, a friend, and mentor to many.
Who has always valued the relationship first.
As someone living a life by my own design.
Living with creative control of my time & energy.
I want to share one idea with you that will serve you well across a lifetime, and aid you in your successes & ease across all domains.
IDEA:
Your Communication & Articulation is The Highest Value Asset.
STORY:
I’ve been so far out of balance with myself, that I've lived most of my life from childhood with hypervigiliance. Today it is my power, but not so long ago it was my prison.
It lead me to an identity crisis, in the midst of heartbreak; without the skills to get me right. I was so highly attuned to the thoughts, emotions, non-verbal communication and energy of others. That I was running my own life outside my own frame, without control.
What I did learn from these anxious years of my life, is just HOW important it is to get our communication with others on point. Because I got to deeply understand human behaviour.
I could sense what people were going through, I could see into the nature of their thinking, and I did everything I could to assist others (whilst betraying myself) to tend to their thoughts & emotions.
This was actually a healthy response to an unsafe inner child. But when it came to being in alignment with my own thoughts, emotions, needs, values and word. I was actually losing personal power.
Healing and deeply understanding myself, allowed me to become a fluent communicator, with a greater depth of empathy to understand other people.
This is the most important thing to note because all human beings long to be seen and understood on deeper levels.
Most of us listen to people to respond, but those who are masters of communication, understand that good communication is actually good listening.
I came to learn first hand that:
Good Communication Is The Bridge.
Between Clarity and Confusion.
Clear is kind, unclear is unkind.
And Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony - Ghandi
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